I love to play poker, I can't control how to do

1, adjust their own mindset All of their own in their own hands, your various psychological performance, the most critical is from your mind, the mind changed, everything has changed, the mind determines the beautiful and ugly, determines the success and failure, determines the pain and happiness. As long as you change your thoughts and behavior.　For example, he came back late, I came back later than him; not to deliberately stop him, he played his, I play my, let yourself be happy and happy, etc., melancholy will change into joy. So adjust your mind, adjust your life, just change your mind, the world is naturally wide, the mood is naturally open.　 2, communication Simple two words, the operation is so difficult. Ultimately, you solve the problem of the way or to say open to each other. If he does love to play mahjong, and not the kind of bad gambling, once in a while, 5 or 2 frequency you can discuss, after all, always blocking can not, but also to dredge is not it? Reach an agreement, you all sympathize with each other and understand, all happy is not perfect?　 3, can not be compromised Hubby love to play cards, as a wife to do the wife's responsibility, no matter how much money to get, to remind or discourage, after all, this is a bad hobby, can not let go of it, let it go, no matter what, it is not caring about the practice of crying, three, pretending to be sick, to see what the husband's attitude, and then do the future plans.　 4, do not force men to commit Men's commitment if always after the mistake in order to solve the current bickering and commitment, that there is too much water, so the possibility of honoring is not great.　Husband loves to play cards can not control how to do 2 can not control the husband gambling how to do?　 First, persuade, all kinds of persuasion.　Can be closed to their own persuasion, you can also ask the husband's parents and relatives and even his close friends and brothers to persuade.　The most taboo is the wife to step in, to the husband's gambling place to tear his face crying, not only unhelpful, but will make things worse, because the man is talking about the face, shut up the door to the wife of a strict and unhindered, outside the act of talking can not not not to give him a few points of thin face, otherwise easy to touch the bad luck, but instead counterproductive, not only will not be a prodigal son to return to men will also be because of the loss of face before the people to produce a retaliatory mentality.　 Second, consultation.　For the family's financial power, a long time ago, there should be some planning, in general, the wife should strive to hold the initiative, especially when it comes to a lack of self-control in spending and living habits of the husband, if the husband keeps his own private money, and even borrowing money to gamble, then the wife can be with her husband, calmly and sensibly combined with the family situation and planning for the future of life to seek to change the husband's Bad habits.　 Third, enrich the lifestyle.　Wife can accompany her husband to participate in more interesting amateur activities, or advocate and guide her husband to develop more healthy hobbies to distraction.　 Fourth, divorce.　Quick and easy, there is no other words to say. Sometimes have to be "hard-hearted" a little, otherwise and a gambler to live together, simply like years, the marriage can not be happy, why consume each other. (On the one hand, some husbands may come to their senses, some husbands may be away, there is no need to be sentimental, "QiDaFeiPou", the son is not a good person.)　Husband love to play cards can not control how to do 3 Why men are prone to addicted to gambling 1, go to the gambling man usually at first just want to entertain, make a scene. Later, due to the focus, they are addicted to it, and some of them gradually develop into their own occupation, and they simply can't stop.　2, gambling establishments in order to attract more gamblers, usually give some benefits to the novice. These small favors make more people spend more time in gambling.　3、If you lose some small amount of money, the casino has a way of lending you money to renew and continue playing. This method makes gamblers more confident and will not consider the consequences of not being able to pay back the money.　4, the atmosphere of the gambling game is usually testosterone, someone in which the provocation, once you feel that the retreat lost face, that is not far from losing money.　5, addicted gamblers always win a little money at the beginning, began to fantasize about being able to make money with the help of gambling, become a big winner in life. And once the loss of money lost more and afraid to go back to the wife there is not good delivery, it is hard to fight a big one, trying to return to the capital. It is so step by step to the abyss.　6, in fact, now many mahjong hall inside more or less will be involved in gambling, just this kind of thing is too much without enough people to check. Advise everyone nothing even square dancing do not go to watch the battle. Do not be obsessed with gambling, you small gambling once you get started can not stop, big gambling will definitely be involved. By the time you lose money owed a debt want to run can not run.　 How to save the love of gambling husband 1, recognize the fact that the husband loves to gamble, for the matter and the husband to discuss calmly, without emotion, on the matter, to avoid because of the wife's bad 'attitude to aggravate the husband's bad emotional experience, and thus refused to cooperate with his wife, listen to his wife's words; 2, to help her husband to understand the feelings of the heart when he gambles, why he needs to gamble, what is the need for the inner most bottom, through the gambling What does the husband gain through gambling?　3, when the husband understands that in gambling he gains a sense of achievement, pleasure, pleasure, and these are not available to him in real life, it will allow the husband to understand what he needs in the end, the internal lack of these feelings is the spiritual world does not have the hollow, only to look inward and improve the level of psychological structure, so that they will not look outward to get these so-called good feelings through gambling; 4, to be a wife to be able to Understand their husbands, give their husbands more nutrition from the spirit, nourish and mirror their husbands, so that they do not get the spiritual food in their parents, can be compensated through the life and interaction with their wives and new experiences, so that their husbands are fulfilled, have a sense of stability, do not have to pursue external stimulation; 5, more communication and interaction with their husbands, so that the family life is rich and interesting, full and happy, and so that their husbands are willing to stay at home and participate in family 6, the wife should not do everything, to show weakness in some areas, so that the husband has a sense of value and meaning at home, feel that they are the backbone of the family, to develop the husband's sense of responsibility for the family; 7, considerate and caring for the husband, can see his joys and sorrows, to become a container for the husband's emotions, tolerance, trust, respect, so that the husband feels comfortable at home, relaxed, harmonious and democratic, so as to retain the husband's heart, not greedy for gambling, so that the husband's heart. 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