Because of seeing so many things. Why? The society is progressing there is no. The original housewife, do not know anything, news, new things, all do not know. Now? The cell phone in the hand, the world I have. What all know well ...... work in a more stereotypical units, then, not necessarily progress, may also be able to confine your mind, not thinking about learning progress what, are almost the same. My mom originally cried and cried not to let me do full-time, saying that I am afraid I have no money, out of touch with society, the husband look down on what. She said she wanted to come and help me with the kids.
I asked her, what are you doing here? Can you drive the car and pick up the baby? The child's language, math and English you can tutor? I can't, so what are you doing here? You might as well be in your hometown dancing and getting high with your old sisters. Full-time work has its advantages. Freedom. There are a lot of chores, but you can arrange them on your own, and there's no one to tell you when you're in a daze. After the housework is done, yoga, swimming, baking, whatever you want to do, home is your kingdom.
At night, when the kids are doing their homework and their husbands are home, there's a nice dinner waiting for them, so it's nice! As for the hysteria of accompanying the child to do homework, you think you can go to work regardless of it ...... pattern ...... So, what do you want to do, look at their own family needs, don't worry about what the housekeeper said, live their own days on the end. Children are wonderful creatures, one person to bring will be very tired, a team to bring, everyone is also very tired.
The reason I say this in the first place is because the exhaustion of one person bringing up a child is far less than the sum total of the exhaustion of a team bringing up a child. One person with a child avoids the internal friction of a team, and can more efficiently establish a clear set of rules and a regular routine for the child. Regular routines are the main goal for the first three months of a child's life, and establishing rules is the main goal for the first three years of parenting.
To fall asleep on your own when you're tired and put to bed, here are a few tips that aren't guaranteed to work for your child, but have been successful with a number of kids. Full-time mom's tired, not in the care of eating, drinking, sleeping, this physical tired. Rather, it's mostly in the external perceptions that make it difficult to be ourselves and get back to our original intention of being there for our children.
I am considered lucky to have always had the support of my husband, but I know a lot of moms whose husbands are away on long business trips and cannot understand and help. In this case then, I think the mom's own physical and mental health would be more important than taking care of her children.