What kind of women do men in love turn on
1. What kind of love you get depends on who you are.
Please don't stop being beautiful, elegant and graceful, socializing, becoming an interesting soul, and successful in your career and work. You need to be aware that a source of self-worth can go a long way in alleviating the anxiety that comes with a lack of self-confidence, making you less dependent on a man, and reducing internal conflict and suffering.
Please make sure you have a firm belief that you are worthy of being loved, and that who you are will reap the rewards of love. How stable your kernel is, how perfect your relationship will be. We will be more likely to feel happy than disappointed. At all times please center your life around me, please surround yourself with yourself instead of men, and always use 80% of your energy to focus on self-growth and abundance.
You become more and more beautiful, more and more graceful, more and more happy, and good love will follow. Please believe that this is a prerequisite for gaining a man's appreciation and affection. Long-lasting intimate relationships are cooperative, but even more so, they are attractive. The love relationship that remains enduringly attractive, seductive, is the one that lasts the longest.
Please remember girls. Having happiness is not just luck plus, it is an ability. What kind of love you want to get, you have to use the same standard to love yourself first, from the heart to pamper yourself, willing to spend time to invest in themselves, to make themselves into a flower full of flowers all over the exquisite to make people marvel at the garden, your that butterfly will come for you.
2. Anti-pua secret:Build your own framework.
Don't bother about what men think and whether they like it or not every day, so that you fall into the frame that the other person draws for you. Remember, everyone must own their own thoughts. When you think from the bottom of your heart, I really don't care what others say or think about me, you are already impossible to be pua by men.
How do you think outside the box of others?
To give a chestnut, if you go to dinner together, he said: you do not even understand this wine ah. At this point his words no matter what intention, obviously in the negative you suppress you. Give you a frame. Please respond confidently and generously to: "Sorry, I usually drink coffee, do not know wine." Such a sentence, so that you perfectly out of his frame outside.
The core point of not entering another person's frame is:Others can never define what kind of person you are, only you can.
3. Self-improvement:A shortcut for smart women to stay attractive.
King segment women are either on the road to crazy self-improvement or on the road to crazy self-improvement. There are so many things a woman can learn, you can choose one or two hobbies to develop over time and make it work. Illustration/tea tasting/yoga/painting/exercise/music, etc., and sift through a few that will bring you lifelong joy. Keep sticking to them.
Why would a man get tired of you and not feel fresh. You look at yourself for a long time do not make changes to the old look, a few months have passed, a few years have passed, you whether outside or inside and a few years ago exactly the same, you have a sense of freshness for yourself? Freshness is not about changing your clothes and makeup every day. It's more about whether you've improved as a person. Have you let others see a different you.
If you have makeup and clothes to add, that's the icing on the cake. But if you don't have the means, please go ahead and enrich your heart. Relationships are in a way about cultivation, cultivation of the heart, cultivation of patience, cultivation of wisdom.
If you have a high emotional intelligence, there is a good family environment to give you the ability to learn, nature is very easy to do this step, if not then you have to make an effort, gender relations and you learn any skill a reason to work hard to accumulate practice makes perfect, did not reach this step slowly, you can rest assured that when you are strong enough to the fire, to this point, you will be upgraded, do not worry about not having a man to love you, do not worry about not having a happy waiting for you.
4. The high ranking person is the giver of "own fullness".
Clever women are very good at giving, when they meet a good boy, or meet a worthy of them to pay, they can see each other's needs, to accurately meet the man's needs. Just the right amount of giving to be able to immobilize to achieve the purpose.
Being able to give shows that you have the ability to do so, and it also shows that you are relatively energetic. The ability to give love means that you have love in your heart: the ability to care for others means that you have a high emotional intelligence. Inner tenderness and firmness, the ability to have emotional stability, in order to wisdom to guide him, to grasp the initiative in love.
It is important to let him know that you pay, don't be silly and don't know to use words to warm up the show. Wise women are good at seizing opportunities.
Falling in love is a process in which two people use their own overflowing energy to nourish and enrich each other, not like a parasite on someone else's body. Most of the girls are not in love, it is the process of putting their meaningless lives, empty souls, and hearts that do not love them at all, all on each other, a kind of pressure, an escape, a kind of shirking responsibility. People are trying desperately to get closer to the one who can give them energy, who can output to them value.
5. Knowing to take love in accordance with human nature.
Don't expect too much from a relationship, don't expect the other person to love us as much as we love ourselves. Everyone loves themselves and their families first. To be a clear-headed woman, we must first accept this fact, and on this basis, we are very likely to set our minds right, so that we do not complain or quarrel, and we are very likely to be happy.
The other person will find you more understanding and you will actually feel more relaxed yourself. Of course. The same goes for how far the other person treats you. You treat him the same way, he puts himself and his family first. Please you also likewise put your family, yourself, your career in the first place, do not go to do that saintly white lotus, people position in that you still stupidly put people everything in your first, that this relationship must be out of balance.
Don't pursue the perfect love, don't expect your boyfriend to be able to take care of you in every detail, to help you, the man can only be the icing on the cake and you should not expect him to send charcoal in the snow. You should not expect him to give you any help. If you want him to take care of you and help you, you have the ability to take care of yourself, or you may be disappointed. You realize that this man is not as attentive, considerate, and gentle as you thought he was...don't get caught in the tenderness trap. You have to go with human nature to hold love.