First, don't spend too much time with your mother-in-law: although the daughter-in-law enters the house, she is a family after all. But some mothers-in-law always want to find fault because they don't like what their daughter-in-law does. But it makes them miserable, but it doesn't matter. As long as you try to reduce your long-term living with your mother-in-law after marriage, these problems can be solved well.
Second, as a daughter-in-law, you should be generous: as a daughter-in-law, you should support the elderly at work. Even if my mother-in-law is dissatisfied with herself, she is our elder after all, and a daughter-in-law should take good care of her elders. Be generous, even if what my mother-in-law says is too ugly, please choose to ignore it. Don't let your mood be affected by this, and don't take these little things to your mother's house to complain. In this case, it will anger the parents' contradictions in order to cause these unnecessary contradictions.
Don't let your unhappiness become a reason for parents to worry.
Third, learn to follow your mother-in-law in small matters and keep your own opinions in big matters: for example, if you buy some things at home, follow your mother-in-law's ideas, and we can put forward our own suggestions as a reference.
But when it comes to family or children, please reserve your opinion as a daughter-in-law. Don't listen to the wind is rain, you know, mother-in-law also likes her children very much. Therefore, you can express your opinion to your mother-in-law at an inappropriate time. But at the same time, we should maintain respect for them.
Fourth, on holidays or condolences to your mother-in-law: Yes, if there is no mother-in-law, then you may not meet a husband who loves you so much and cares about you so much. Therefore, whenever there is a holiday, we can still buy some small gifts for our mother-in-law to express our feelings, not to mention how expensive they are. As long as you have your own heart, you can get long-term peace. Why not?
So all these things about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very small things. In the past, I used to think from a different angle from my daughter-in-law. Maybe this problem will not be so difficult.