"Oh yo, don't run, come on, come on, have a bite," said the grandma while holding the bowl and chasing the child who was running around. The child just focuses on playing, not willing to eat at all, the grandma helplessly holding the bowl and sighing.
The child finally ran over and gave him a mouthful of food, but just as soon as the food went in, the child screamed and tried to spit it out. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots that you want to wear.
Although this is a scene from the TV series "Mommy and Me", there are a lot of things like this around me, and it's very common to see people with children in different generations.
A few years ago, a friend came to my house to play, inadvertently advance life in some of the annoying things, which there is a grandmother with a baby all kinds of vomit.
A few years ago, my friend because of an accidental pregnancy gave birth to a beautiful daughter, just graduated not long ago, her salary level, although the general but income is very stable. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life, but I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life, and I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to get the most out of your life.
After she left, I realized that things were not at all as simple as my mother said. She said, "The child is brought up by the child's grandmother on weekdays, and I only have time to bring up the child on weekends. Grandma usually especially love the child, afraid of bumping, and rarely take the child out to play, I worry that this is not good for the child's education, but I usually do not have much time.
She said, "The child wants what the grandmother will buy what, never refused the child's request; so continue, the child sooner or later to be spoiled," said the friend sighed." And the child is naughty, teasing other children, grandmother always protect granddaughter, said she is still a child, do not understand anything, you do not and her general. Don't look at this is just some trivial things, over time, will certainly have a negative impact on the child's education. This phenomenon I can't say more about grandma, if I say more then grandma will be unhappy, I'm a mom it's really hard!"
"Yes, intergenerational child rearing can easily lead to the phenomenon of children being spoiled and pampered." I pondered while enlightening my friend "But have you ever thought about what grandma's mood is like? Does grandma usually have any hobbies?"
"She loves square dancing," my friend said as she ate her apple, "but she rarely goes out since she started taking my kids."
"You do not say I forgot, grandmother's hobbies are really quite a lot, but also often update the number of fast hand, go out to play a variety of photographs, recording video, hahaha, is an interesting person" friend suddenly laughed.
"En, is indeed an interesting person, in order to bring the granddaughter to give up their own hobbies of people, quite powerful it, tolerance and patience must also be very good it", I continued.
"Yes ah, the character from the whole is still very good it." My friend smiled.
"Then what's bothering you, a grandmother like that should be cherished, not complained about", I said bluntly.
"That said, there is a real inconsistency in parenting between my grandmother and I, and it's getting awkward", my friend said softly.
"Perhaps a little more communication and patience is needed, the child's education is never a quick fix, grandma educates the child according to what she thinks is best, although some ways and means are not quite right; if you don't see fit to bring up the child by yourself at all, but it's obvious that you don't have too much time, and work and life need to be balanced, so something like this also requires the child's The father should be involved. Don't directly have a positive conflict with grandma, if it is the child's father to communicate, communication effect is not better, because grandma in order to bring you a child does sacrifice a lot of their own time and hobbies, she is not easy ah."
"This is something that needs to be thought about seriously," said the friend, deep in thought.
The next generation with children, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very easy to produce conflicts between the two generations, because there is a huge difference in the concepts between the two generations, but they have only one starting point, that is, for the child to have a better future. So for the sake of the children, everything is worth a quiet rethink.
Praise you for being the most beautiful!