Why can’t I learn how to shake in society? I’m a girl and I just can’t shake. It’s so difficult.

Not everyone can do it

Take your time

Your own state of mind will be better. You can’t achieve all four things, but you can learn to exercise control. With moderation, people will naturally have fewer desires. When people's desires are reduced, people's state of mind will become better. With a state of mind, life will be brighter. If you can live your own life and survive, that's fine. Why be demanding? This world can satisfy people's survival. As long as you can survive, that's good! People don't live for money, and money is needed to survive. If you can survive, that's good. If you care too much, it will only increase your worries. Survival is your own right, and it is also your own cultivation. Without this, being a human being will lose its meaning.