First, she is conservative.
There are indeed such girls who refuse all intimate actions in love, including holding hands, hugging and kissing. They feel that these are not in line with etiquette, so they must resolutely refuse without hesitation.
If your girlfriend is such a girl, you can only wait patiently. Maybe one day she will suddenly put it down, maybe she won't put it down until you get married. It's hard to say.
Second, she is pretending to be innocent.
Some girls take it for granted that boys like girls during the Spring Festival, so what kind of girls are pure? Naturally, I have never been touched by a boy, and I won't even let my boyfriend hold my hand. Do I want my boyfriend to feel pure?
That's why she won't let you have it. Writing here reminds me of Lin Xianer in "The Sentimental Swordsman's Ruthless Sword", pretending to be pure in front of Teddy boy every day, watching Teddy boy resist asking him if he wants to use his hands. It's really interesting. In fact, every night, after Teddy boy fell asleep, Lin Xian ran out of the tunnel to fool around with men.
Third, she felt that it was not yet time.
Men and women in love have different physical contact opportunities, and boys think that the sooner the better, the better in one step. Girls feel like feeding pigeons. You have to feed them bite by bite, and you have to master the heat and temperature.
Different girls set different times for "waiting time". Some girls think, never go to bed before marriage, and at most don't hug in down jackets. Some girls feel that they can hold hands at the moment they confirm their relationship, and they can roll sheets together in a day or two.
Your girlfriend may be the kind who set this timeline later. If there is, just wait patiently. Time will give you a chance to taste the sweetness of love.
Fourth, your girlfriend doesn't like you at all.
In recent years, there has often been a saying on the Internet that you say no, but your body is honest.
In fact, the reverse is also true.
If you are together for reasons other than love, for example, she is greedy for your money, for example, you both feel that you are old and should find someone to marry. You met on a blind date. You both decided to be together because you thought each other's conditions were good, but by this time, you had no good feelings for each other.
She doesn't want a man she doesn't love to hold her hand, which is normal, because her body will resist your skin, your body temperature and your smell.
If so, I suggest you don't have any illusions, just choose to break up, which is a relief for you and her.