Leisure can also be a kind of fun, a kind of relaxation after busy. See all kinds of articles on the internet that don't make friends with idle people. I want to say that's because you haven't met idle people with boundaries. At present, the social rhythm is too fast to slow down. Even some people are at a loss when they stop. Due to long-term inertia, they can't live a normal life. So, what is the biggest winner of running hard advocated on the Internet? You will be eliminated if you don't work hard. Wait, I don't agree.
Is life just a running that keeps forging ahead? Of course not. Life is the main theme. Planning after work, knowing how to enjoy, having fun and hobbies is the highest realm of leisure.
Xiaoya, who is particularly beautiful, is outstanding in figure and appearance, but has no temperament. I don't know her very well, but I know her in a circle of friends. My education is not high, I am single, my job is temporary, and I seem to have more free time. Every day, in addition to taking beautiful photos, she complains about life, which is all negative energy, so many friends have blocked her circle of friends.
I have known her for so many years, and my tone has not changed. Therefore, when many people are talking about her beauty, I always disagree.
I heard that she was lovelorn some time ago, and the words of negative resentment were full of friends. From her complaints, we can see her values, that is, she wants to find a rich man to raise by virtue of her beauty, and never wants to explore and enhance her value. I talked about a lot of love over and over again, and all ended in failure, but I still don't know the summary.
This world is no longer an era when you can live a carefree life only by beauty. Even if you meet Phoenix Man, what will you match? Which man wants to marry a bloodsucker? Such a person is like a weight, which will hang on you, and sooner or later you will be overwhelmed.
If she makes good use of her spare time in these years, instead of complaining and staring at those high-quality men, she will improve herself more, find better jobs or resources for herself through these contacts, and live the life she wants by relying on her own ability, then these shining qualities are enough to attract the attention of excellent men.
My friend Ciro, I always forget her age, because I don't look like someone close to 50. Not only because of her youthful appearance, but because of her inner vitality, it always gives people a vibrant state.
She is not so busy at work and her children are in college, so she has a lot of free time. However, she will not chat and gossip all day, nor will she go to square dance, nor will she waste a lot of time shopping in beauty salons. People are playing on the high side.
She sets a small goal for herself every year, and then carries it out firmly. When her child was still in junior high school, she used her spare time to study psychology and yoga. In less than half a year, I got the qualifications of national second-level psychological counselor and yoga instructor respectively. Then I teach yoga at school and do psychological counseling part-time. Although the salary will not change, the value of enriching and challenging yourself is different, so teachers and students like her very much, which is priceless wealth.
Not everyone can practice calligraphy silently for five years. The year before last, he was learning the piano and played it carefully every night. The goal is to be able to play one's favorite famous songs independently.
Last year, I signed up for an oil painting class, and it took only one year to draw beautiful scenery and difficult people. Needless to say, that joy.
Writing is her dream, so she has been keeping a diary for many years and occasionally writing short stories about her feelings.
What I admire most is that she has been obsessed with fitness since the beginning of this year. She has to deal with those heavy equipment every day, four times a week, which takes almost 100 minutes each time. So her muscles are tight and her figure is well-proportioned.
She swims well, too. People always praise her for her beautiful swimming in the swimming pool.
These are enough to prove how she has reached a new height, but there are more beautiful things affecting me and her friends. She keeps cats and flowers, and the flowers on the balcony are surrounded by cats, full of quiet little days, and occasionally send a few favorite songs in the national karaoke. . . . .
She is really a shining little sun. Although she doesn't have a lot of money, she is not a rich family, but everyone just likes to be with her, because you will be embellished and edified, and you will be eager to try.
Only when you meet such idle people will you know that life can still be like this! Making good use of your free time can not only enrich yourself and get happiness, but also beautify your life and infect people around you. Who can refuse such positive energy? ?
3. Leisure has moderate flexibility
A friend of mine, Yu, is a leader and is so busy with official business. But he has always insisted on taking part in an hour-long hiking activity two nights a week. Get up at 5 o'clock every day to record life experiences and post them on the blog, which has gained many fans.
On weekends, I usually go fishing alone and sit for the whole morning. He said that he enjoyed this moment, venting himself in nature, sometimes waiting for the fish to bite, and sometimes tidying up the affairs for a week and getting rid of those dirty things.
If you take a long vacation, you will have a planned trip. I went to Tibet by car with some friends the year before last, and all my experiences were written as travel notes by him. His language is humorous and relaxed, and his writing is fluent. I don't see any formal etiquette as a leader.
This shows that busy and leisure can be arranged reasonably, depending on whether you want to do it or not. Being in a tense working state is inefficient, but making some adjustments properly will promote the quality of work.
It is precisely because of his relaxation that he can switch freely between work and life, which not only improves work efficiency, but also enriches life.
Everyone must have heard the story of Tasha Tudor! She is the person who knows life best and takes leisure to the extreme. Suddenly swept the world, blowing a warm pastoral wind.
This 90-year-old grandmother actually has a delicate heart. She lives alone in a manor in the suburbs, surrounded by flowers and fruit trees in front of her house. Occasionally she goes to pick flowers, followed by chickens, ducks, geese and dogs. She is wearing the simplest floral skirt, and the fabric is woven by herself. She wears a small square towel on her head, like a person who has lived for more than ten centuries.
Occasionally, she will sit in front of the door and draw pictures. Many of her illustrations are adopted by magazines. Her family is almost self-sufficient and never buys what she can. This simple life has been away from us for too long.
Tasha Tudor's charm doesn't stop there. What we admire most is her strong and profound inner spirit. She doesn't like noisy entertainment. She is doing what she likes with peace of mind, living the life she wants, carefree and full of interest.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with being idle. We live a life and need to fill in all kinds of contents, not slaves to work. But leisure is by no means free and idle. People like that live a long life, and a hundred years is no different from a day.