In the busy life, everyone will encounter all kinds of setbacks and accidents.
In the face of life, men have a lot of responsibilities to bear, and women's lives are never easy. It can even be said that this era is really demanding of women.
When a woman is delayed to take care of her family and children because of hard work, she will be said to be ignoring her family.
And when a woman gives up her career for the sake of her family, even if she keeps her family in good order, she may still be rejected.
Although women have been trying to find ways to really live a good life, they never seem to have the right answer.
If you work too hard, you will be talked about.
A friend I met by chance, she is very enterprising and has been working hard in the workplace. After giving birth to the baby, she has been on the move. After finishing the month, she quickly returned to her post and has been working overtime.
It is because of her hard work and contribution to the company that her position has really risen rapidly and her salary has also increased rapidly.
In the workplace, she is undoubtedly successful, but her family doesn't understand this. They often say that she doesn't know how to spend more time with her children. She only knows how to concentrate on her career. Even if her career is successful, it is no use if her children don't take care of them.
Not only that, many people in the company always make irresponsible remarks about her, thinking that she has high status and great power, not by herself, but by relationships.
She is very successful, but no one around her, whether family or colleagues, is on her side, and no one supports her more. Although she is strong on the surface, she has always been fragile and eager to understand.
Although there are many women in the workplace, their careers are really developing well, but behind this, there are often countless sadness.
Being a full-time wife will be looked down upon again.
A colleague around her successfully became a teacher in a vocational college after graduation.
After working for three years, she got married with her classmates, and everything seemed perfect. However, after giving birth, she had to give up because no one took care of her children, although she liked her job very much.
After resigning, she has been accompanying her children to grow up. Many nights, she couldn't sleep well because of her children. Many times, she can't eat well because she has to take care of the children. Even so, she had to take time to do housework.
Obviously, she sacrificed herself to help her family, but what happened? No one saw her sacrifice and dedication. Whenever she says she is tired, she often just says, isn't it just taking care of a child and doing housework? Why are you so melodramatic?
Her efforts have not received due respect, and she is not free to spend money.
Every woman who takes her children to clean up the house is obviously so hard, but no one will agree with this kind of hard work and will only be despised. Even if she has done everything for her family, she will only be called useless.
No matter how good you are, you may still be disappointed.
Gu Jia is only in her thirties. She is really a perfect woman. She has always supported her husband's company in her career, taken good care of her children at home, and even managed everything well.
At the same time, she is still so beautiful, so reasonable and completely impeccable.
But even though she was so perfect, her husband didn't resist the temptation and finally did something wrong to her.
Until the end, the third party involved in her feelings asked her to clean up. Her husband's company had an accident and she needed to clean up the scene. After the divorce, she had to start over with her son.
Too many women are excellent and don't want a stable job, but many men simply can't give such a stable job.
Once one day, she tried her best, but she was only disappointed. Even if it is difficult, she can make herself not too bad, but for a woman who doesn't have that much courage, everything will really become difficult.
To tell the truth, a woman's life is really not easy.
It seems that the best requirement for women in this era is that women can not only make money, take care of their families, give birth to healthy children, take care of their own children, but also take care of their own image and keep themselves elegant all the time.
It seems that women should be omnipotent, but it is women's fault if they don't do well.
Even sometimes, even men's betrayal, some people can say that it is because women have not fulfilled their responsibilities as wives.
The outside world always wants women to have three heads and six arms, but women are only weak after all. She doesn't have that much time, ability and energy.
She was never a superman, but she kept on insisting.
Text/Tan Meng