I feel that after the breakup we have to cut off contact, because we have already broken up, why should we continue to contact it, both sides will soon have their own lives, no matter which party started their new life, it is best not to contact again, when you still care about him, he is no longer interested in you when you appeared to make him hate you, because he has no interest in getting along with you, the split is the most familiar strangers. The most important thing to remember is that you are a familiar stranger, and there is no need for you to be in touch.
But if the root is broken, when the break, but will be hurt, if you and her love how deep that are just once. The past is the past. The past is history. It is unchangeable. So we have to live in the present, in fact, they can still be happy, perhaps in the near future, there will be a new love to find you, if you and the previous person still have contact, but also affect you.
If this love does not belong to you, then, please should let go, if you do not let go, has been so in love, then the new love to come, will be affected, in fact, let go is a kind of helpless despair, pain in the heart. When once cherished as life is about to meet strangers, only to realize, originally, once thought of a long time, in fact, but is just passing through. Once thought that you can so hold hands all the way down, but let go to understand, everything is just two parallel lines of chance intersection, when everything is not, to understand.
So I think that since the breakup, should be divided completely, do not have a little relationship, if there is a little relationship, it will affect your future, if you make new friends, then in your love of the time of the water, he came to tell you to return to his side, then you will lose your new friends, and then that then and you separated from the person or before, you will be on the life and lose hope, so breaking it off is the best thing to do.