Once beaten, twice shy. Human nature, the scar healed, it is inevitable to be vigilant, open your eyes and carefully scan around or dangerous or safe "suspicious" places. But don't be too sensitive.
Don't let our hearts wither because of a contusion, and don't let our feelings be cold because of a first frost. People need true feelings to warm their hearts, and only the body temperature conveyed by true feelings can have temperature.
People will make mistakes all their lives, and sometimes they will inevitably deviate from the original track and go astray. People who have made mistakes should not be cold-eyed and cynical. In fact, a comforting and encouraging look can warm and soothe their broken hearts.
Second, they?
The sheep-herding stars will also be pulled back from the cliff one day. They are eager to go home and have a safe haven to dock. But how many people have thought about what the star who is herding sheep needs? No one wants his life to be stained, but stains can be washed. Even if you can't wash back the original pure color, you still want to stick to the freshness after washing away the dirt. How many people can give them a chance in their hearts? No one wants to lick their bloody wounds in public, and some scars are unwilling to be mentioned by others, let alone known by others. Even close friends, or family members they like, just want to leave the original purity and perfection in the hearts of people they care about. Sometimes, they feel helpless, the whole world is abandoning them, and there are cold eyes and cynicism everywhere. They can only hide in their own armor, which is getting tighter and thicker, and then they can't get out anymore. ...
Third, we&; ; they
Everyone contributes an understanding and tolerance, and people's hearts will be warmer and more grateful. They have left their original place. Don't leave them cruelly. Give them a hand, give them a hand. Let them feel the warmth of the world. Inside the prison, they are always surrounded by humidity and darkness, unable to feel the sunshine, and suffocate to death. Their hearts are full of fatigue and fear, so fragile that they can't stand even the slightest move. They are also afraid of being forgotten, so they always run away in armor. Those who drag their armor are heavy, and there will be days when they can't move. Don't let them come out looking for sunshine hopefully, but give them a cold wind.
Maybe you can understand that their wounds are deeper and heavier. They want to forget the pain and need us not to mention it deliberately.
Four, we+them = us.
In fact, what's wrong with getting out of prison? These stains are all from the past. The important thing is to look back and find your original trajectory. Why care too much about other people's eyes? As long as the people around you are still looking at themselves as before, and their eyes are full of encouragement and support, then close your eyes bravely and smartly and have a good trip, no matter what others think. The trajectory on the road of life can only be completed by yourself. It doesn't matter if you deviate from the axis temporarily, as long as you can get back to the axis in time. Sometimes there is only one step between perfection and imperfection.
We used to be a us with them, and we will be a us in the future.
Let's overcome the scars and forget the pain.