Out of the neighborhood gate, to the right through the traffic lights, to the square. In the evening, the square is particularly crowded, dancing, practicing martial arts, large and small children are playing skateboarding and skateboarding, older people sitting on the stone benches in groups and chatting about the day, the square on the north side of the leisure and fitness equipment are also full of people exercising, and not yet thought of what to eat in the evening, take the children to find a place to sit down and take a ride first.
The night is much cooler than the day, this time, the square near the neighborhood people are out for a walk after dinner, exercise. Is and big baby teasing small baby to play, next to someone shouted up, I turned my head to see, there are two baby moms fighting, surrounded by people watching, there are a few men pulled away from the quarrel between the two, for some reason, and then fight, the two pushed each other to the ground tearing and cursing, next to each of their respective children by the adult's move scared crying, the child's cry so that two mothers loosened the hands of two people holding their own children to pacify and Cursing, I do not like to watch the fun, so I took the children to get up and leave, Dabao kept asking me, "Mom, why are they fighting? Adults fight? The first time I saw adults fighting. "
I said, "Adults, like children, can't control their temper and want to vent their emotions. But they shouldn't get into fights and scare their kids by letting them see the mean side of their moms."
Whenever we have emotions, it's because we feel wronged or hurt, and we think the fault lies with others, so we have to vent our grievances. Can't we change our perspective and think about it in a more helpful way? For example, a violent character, not clear people, you may wish to think of each other often, all day to let themselves live in the unpleasant, how unfortunate, let people sympathize, then you do not still like him as emotional?
People need to know how to control their emotions, because they can not control their emotions, hurt people's lives, but every summer, I do not know is the reason for the heat or something else, people are generally on fire easy to get angry, the summer hospital emergency department will be particularly busy because of the fights, drunkenness, hurt people hurt their own case is particularly large, most of the control of the emotions triggered by the.
As a parent, it is most important to protect your child from harm, and violence is not a solution to anything, but will only complicate simple things, escalate disputes, and ultimately hurt both sides.
As the saying goes, "Those who can control their emotions can control their own lives". This sentence is not unreasonable, especially women, do not become a husband disliked shrew, at any time, on any occasion to be a calm and calm, have the connotation of the woman.