Generally the atmosphere of the funeral parlor is very low, many relatives are immersed in the loss of family grief. But on October 11th, Guiyang has a video of square dancing in front of the funeral home, attracting the attention of many netizens. Originally immersed in grief and a subdued atmosphere, the funeral parlor was covered by the cheerful music of square dancing.
Many netizens said they did not know that there was a group of women dancing in front of the funeral home. Then in the doorway dancing aunt wearing a purple top, the bottom wearing pink pants, very conspicuous festive. Many people feel very puzzled, why in someone passed away and still want to dance this kind of joyful dance, this is disrespectful to the elderly.
There are also many netizens who say that this is clearly a bad habit, and local villagers say that this is a local custom. There are some places will be popular a kind of happy funeral, as long as the death of the old man more than 80 years old, and is not because of grief and death, you can use the happy funeral to bury the old man, which represents the old man is blessed with longevity. And people always leave one day, as long as the old man did not go with regrets, this is the happy funeral.
But this practice still let a lot of netizens are not able to accept, because generally someone died are very sad, in front of the funeral parlor square dance, is really let a person feel very puzzled. Happy funeral generally speaking did not invite people in front of the funeral parlor square dance, if it is happy funeral, it can make friends and relatives not so sad.
But as long as someone has passed away, the blow to the family is very great, and I think that behavior such as this square dancing in front of the funeral home is really inappropriate. I think the funeral is usually to invite the troupe to send off the deceased, but like square dancing this is completely disrespectful to the deceased. Passing away would have been a very sad thing, like they cheered and danced in front of the funeral parlor in big red and purple clothes, I think this is very bad whether it is customary or not.