--Ending a painful love affair, Xin Xin decided to live happily for herself. A reporter dialed Xin Xin's phone yesterday, and she said on the other end of the line, "I'm going to be my real self now!"
Xin Xin accompanied Sun Nan through the toughest ten years
One day on November 2, 2001, the reporter met with Xin Xin's good friend Qu Ying, who was very happy to see Xin Xin, Qu Ying said, "She's going to be a hit now, she's signed to a famous record company in Taiwan, and her new album has just been released, and she's just held a promotional event for the sale of the album in Shanghai. On the 5th, she's holding a press conference in Beijing, and I'm going to attend it." Speaking of Xin Xin, Qu Ying said her suffering is about to end. It's the bitterness of a love affair, and to mention it, one has to start from the beginning.
In June 2000, singer Sun Nan was described by many media outlets as having a double whammy: he had just married a sketch artist and won the 1999 "Most Popular Male Singer in the Mainland" award at the CCTV-MTV Music Festival. But familiar with his friends know, Sun Nan in the singing world in nearly a decade of hard struggle, he can have today's achievements, and his girlfriend for ten years and he together with each other, suffering and **** is inseparable, but his bride is not with him and his girlfriend Xin Xin **** suffering for ten years.
Now look back and think about it, 19 years old that year, for me, is the fate of the trajectory of the year to change. That year, I met the man who has been with me for ten years in the path of my life - Sun Nan.
It was by chance that I came to know Sun Nan, whose outstanding performance in a Dalian singer competition in 1988 made me remember his name. After graduating from the teacher's college, I went to an opera house and became a singer. At that time, Sun Nan was also performing in the same opera house, and after a long time together, we slowly developed a relationship.
In the early spring of 1992, I went to Japan. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do, but I'm going to be able to do it. In those days, we called each other almost every day. At that time, Sun Nan's income averaged about 1,000 yuan a month, but every time he talked to me, he had to spend nearly 1,000 yuan. Even though everything was going very well in Japan, the attachment and missing each other made me feel that I should go back to Sun Nan's side. So, in May 1992, without informing anyone (including Sun Nan), I returned from Japan to Tanggu, Tianjin. Eager to see Sun Nan and surprise him, I took a taxi directly from Tianjin to Dashiqiao Hutong on Gulou Street, where Sun Nan lived at the time. Sun Nan was not in his dormitory at that time. Afterwards, Sun Nan told me that he had a premonition that I would come back from Japan that day, and when he was about to leave the house, he instructed his friend to say, "If anyone is looking for me, tell her to go to the Baishiqiao Hotel, I'm there." When I arrived at the Baishiqiao Hotel, Sun Nan was having dinner with some friends. When I stood behind him, all the friends at the dinner table froze, and Sun Nan looked back at me and turned his head back, and then turned his head back after a few seconds, and realized that the one standing in front of him was the one he had been thinking about day and night and looking forward to waiting for the return of the stars and the moon. I'll never forget that scene: Sun Nan couldn't care less about eating and threw down his chopsticks, stood up and carried me all the way home without a care in the world. I'm not sure if I've ever been in the same situation before, but I'm sure I've been in the same situation before," he said.
In the fall of 1993, Sun Nan took part in a performance by the CCTV Heart to Heart Art Troupe in Hong Kong, and was discovered by Hong Kong's BMG Records, which signed a two-year record contract. Watching Sun Nan's career take off, I was happy for him from the bottom of my heart. I felt at the time that all those hard days in the past had not been in vain, and that we would slowly get better.
In order for Sun Nan to make further progress in his career, I began to consider giving up my own singing career and focusing on Sun Nan's music and non-music affairs. At that time, Sun Nan was also reluctant to let me go out to sing again, and he often said to me, "We are a family, if there is me, there is you, stop singing." In this way, I was Sun Nan's intimate lover in life, and became his full-time assistant in his career.
In 1997, Sun Nan was hospitalized for hepatitis, and the unsatisfactory career coupled with the physical weakness made Sun Nan fall into depression and even despair. At this point, we took out a loan to buy a house in Changping, and while I was taking care of Sun Nan, I had to go buy materials to decorate the house. Looking at Sun Nan's depressed mood, I often advised him, "Everything will turn around, no one is lucky forever, besides, you have such a good condition in music, it will be fine."
In 1998, Sun Nan was approached to sing the theme song of the same name for Feng Xiaogang's New Year's movie "See No Evil". When we got the song at that time, both Sun Nan and I thought it was a special opportunity.
As soon as the singing for the movie was done, I decided that we would pay for the music video for the song ourselves. At that time, because we were short on cash and couldn't get that much money, we borrowed 10,000 yuan from a friend. For a whole month, Sun Nan and I worked frantically in the studio day and night for the record, and as soon as we finished the pre-recording work for more than a month, we rushed to Hong Kong non-stop for the post-mixing work, and after the whole work was finished, Sun Nan and I were both visibly thinner.
The new album premiere, Sun Nan and the same company's other several singers released at the same time, respectively, sang new songs, Sun Nan in the new song "wind blowing to the north", I sat far from the stage, quietly listening to the moment, the heart is really a mixture of feelings, the past life of the bits and pieces of Sun Nan's songs like a movie, a scene in front of me, I'm afraid to let my friends around me! I was afraid to let my friends around me see my tears, and I kept holding back and letting it stay in my eyes.
Until one day, when a third person suddenly appeared between Sun Nan and me, I realized that our relationship was slowly changing, and for this sudden change, we both lost the courage to face the matter.
We broke up in November 1999, and initially I had my share of blame for Sun Nan, disappointment in love, and fear for the future of my life.
At the end of November 1999, Sun Nan left home, and when I put the clothes I packed for him in front of him, Sun Nan's tears couldn't stop falling down, and it was really hard to tell what I felt in my heart. I kept telling myself that I couldn't cry in front of him. Ten years of relationship, so that the feeling of mutual reliance between us is getting heavier and heavier ...... I restarted my life as a singer in the "Boys and Girls" bar in Sanlitun. I know that I'm back to square one in life.
Channel [V] awards, Sun Nan took the most popular male singer award, the night of the award, Sun Nan gave me a phone call: "Xin Xin, I got channel [V] the biggest award, I do not mean anything else, I just want to put the news first to tell you ... ... ..." Before he could finish his sentence, Sun Nan cried on the other end of the phone. Many years ago, I had dreamed of welcoming the joy of success with Sun Nan, but when the day came, I couldn't share it with him. Listening to Sun Nan's choked voice on the other end of the phone, my tears flowed down my cheeks and into the hand holding the phone ...... and I hung up in a hurry.
Three days before Sun Nan's wedding, he ran to the bar where I sang, and as soon as he saw me, Sun Nan couldn't hold back his tears. I said to Sun Nan from the bottom of my heart, "You have a good time, we have lived together for 10 years after all, I hope you will get better and better." When I was leaving, Sun Nan told me that a few days ago he had written a song for a TV drama, and that song was for me. Some things in life fade away slowly over time. I hope I can move on from it all soon.
Now that Xin Xin is a brand new singer, her songs may tell us more after her sentimental emotions. (Xiao Dong)
I grew up in Dalian, loved to sing, graduated as a kindergarten teacher, and when I was 17 years old, I met Sun Nan, a man who has been with me for ten years in the path of my life.
In the early spring of 1992, I went to Japan and Sun Nan went to Beijing. In those days, we had a phone call almost every day. At that time, Sun Nan's income averaged about 1,000 yuan a month, but our monthly calls cost nearly 1,000 yuan. I felt that I should return to Sun Nan's side because I was so attached and missed him. So, in May 1992, without informing anyone (including Sun Nan), I returned from Japan to Tanggu, Tianjin. I will never forget the scene when he saw me, and he carried me all the way home with his arms around me almost without a care in the world. At that moment, I felt that no matter what I gave up, it was all worth it.
In the fall of 1993, Sun Nan signed a two-year record contract with Hong Kong's BMG Records. In order for him to make further progress in his career, I gave up my own singing career and devoted myself to Sun Nan's musical and non-musical affairs.
In 1997, Sun Nan was hospitalized for hepatitis, and the combination of his career and physical weakness left him depressed and even desperate. At this time, we took out a loan to buy a house in Changping, and I had to go buy materials to decorate the house while taking care of Sun Nan.
In 1998, Sun Nan was approached to sing the theme song of the same name for Feng Xiaogang's New Year's Eve movie "See No Evil", which Sun Nan and I felt was a special opportunity. From this point on, Sun Nan took a step towards success.
Until one day, a third person suddenly appeared between me and Sun Nan, I realized that our relationship was slowly changing, and for this sudden change, we both lost the courage to face this matter. in November 1999, we broke up.
At the end of November 1999, Sun Nan left home, and when he left, I put the clothes I had packed for him in front of him, and Sun Nan's tears couldn't stop falling down, and it was hard to tell what I was feeling in my heart. After that, I resumed my life as a singer at the "Boys and Girls" bar in Sanlitun. I know I'm back to where I started.
Three days before Sun Nan's wedding, he came to the bar where I was singing, and as soon as he saw me, he couldn't help but cry. I said to Sun Nan from the bottom of my heart, "You have a good time, we have lived together for 10 years after all, I hope you will get better and better." Before leaving, Sun Nan told me that a few days ago he had written a song for a TV drama, and that song was for me.
Meeting Xin Xin because we performed in the same opera house, she went to Japan in 1992 and I went to Beijing for development. In those days, we were very close. Then, two years ago, I left Xinxin, not my feelings for her out of the question. The reason was not me, I have a clear conscience.
The 7-year relationship was gone, and when I left her, I took nothing with me. We both raised money to buy the 800,000 yuan house, and all the savings, the car I left her, at that time my pocket only left 300 yuan and some clothes. I can really say now, if I go to ask Xinxin, she will definitely feel regret, feel sorry for me, in our days together, I love her a lot, but she loves me is very little, although not married, but I do for her to do a lot more than married. In the last two years, I have been asking her "Do you love me or not"? Her answers were always vague, and these made me feel like the love I was giving was not being reciprocated and was not worth it.
But after I have bought Hongmei, everything is different, her appearance makes me feel that my love is worth it, she thinks everything I do is justified, but in Xinxin's eyes, everything I do is unjustified, this is really two kinds of life, it is hard to say who is right and who is wrong.
There are some rumors about my current marital status from time to time, in fact, I don't want to affect my relationship with buyhongmei because of the old things, I just want to let everyone know that there is one thing Xin Xin said is indeed a lie, and I have to clarify it because it's not fair to my wife. That is Xin Xin said that I got married two months after I broke up with her, saying that buy red sister is the third party. Buying Hongmei is definitely not a third party. Free love is everyone's right, even if the breakup, there is no question of who is right and who is wrong, there is who can guarantee the success of a relationship
In this regard, Sun Nan angrily denounced the malicious speculation, saying: "I and she is a thing of the past, and I am now very calm. There is a reason for what happened here, I believe I am a good person, do not want to hurt other people, and please other people do not hurt my career and family. I've never had a scandal, but lately someone has been using this for commercial hype, and the record company is suspected of this." And Xin Xin calmly said, "I don't even want to mention him, it's the reporter who asked."
There was a scene during that time: a Beijing TV media interviewed Xin Xin, broadcast a video of Sun Nan's previous interview on the program, and when Xin Xin saw Sun Nan say to the camera, "If I become famous, is it true that even his kindergarten girlfriends have to come to me? When Xin Xin saw Sun Nan say to the camera, "If I become famous, will my kindergarten girlfriend come to me?", she couldn't help but cry.
Two years after these reports, I think everyone involved is calmer. I called Xin Xin on the phone and she sighed and said, "I really don't want to talk about these things anymore, it's very difficult for me. For me, when I brought up and Sun Nan's relationship story is purely in passing, I think feelings are things that people have experienced, can not avoid, so I did not care too much. I didn't expect him to take this very seriously, and in the end things got particularly bad, and the whole process gave people the impression that I was taking him to hype, but in fact this was not my intention. When it comes to our relationship, I'm really in a dilemma, and I'm under a lot of pressure. On the one hand, I can't avoid it, and on the other hand, if I say a lot, a lot of people, including Sun Nan, will accuse me of hype. Because he is a big star today, whatever he says others think it's nothing, whereas this is not the case for me, whatever I say people think is wrong. So I choose not to talk about it, the more I talk about it, the more confusing it gets."
Xin Xin said that in the eight-year relationship with Sun Nan, both sides gave their feelings, and after the breakup, Sun Nan still called her from time to time and visited her at home, but the media hype has made them complete strangers, and that pain was even greater than the breakup. Xin Xin said that while she was saddened by some of the things Sun Nan said with the media, she doesn't mind what he thinks now.
On her current love life, Xin Xin said she has no marriage partner yet, "I just want to live a quiet life now. Not long ago I sold the house that Sun Nan bought, that house was just a down payment at that time, I paid some more after I released my album last year, and now I sold it to a friend. I needed a new environment, and the place I live in now is a little smaller, but it suits me, on the east side of the city."
Sun: The media made us look good
Now talking about his relationship with Xinxin, Sun said he doesn't like to speculate on gossip, saying: of course, I can understand that she has her difficulties, and these things are most likely caused by that Taiwanese company she signed up with, and also she's a woman and a weakling, so I originally wanted to go and clarify when I saw some inaccurate descriptions, but in the end I didn't I didn't. Whether it's true or not, good or bad, it's all in the past. In fact, we are still friends, but the media has made us very jealous of each other. Now there are still a lot of performance companies or friends call me to ask for her phone number
When I interviewed Xin Xin, I asked if I could provide some photos with Sun Nan or photos of myself in my early years, and Xin Xin considered it and agreed to provide the newspaper with a photo of herself, and immediately called her sister in Dalian. But a few days later, Xin Xin called to tell reporters that her sister found all the photos are actually and Sun Nan's photo, the phone that Xin Xin exclaimed: "It seems that at that time the two of us are really too good to get me even a photo of their own lives are not."
In view of the fact that Xin Xin herself has repeatedly emphasized that she is "afraid of getting into trouble again and wants to live a quiet life," I had to give up on seeking these intimate photos.
What impressed me most in this interview was Xin Xin's attitude toward Sun Nan, who asked the reporter very carefully about Sun Nan's attitude toward their relationship in the interview, and when the reporter told her that most of the rest was the same as she recalled, except for the part about the buyer's red sister, which was different, and that Sun Nan emphasized that he and Xin Xin have always been friends, and that it was only the media that had pitted them against each other. Hearing all this, Xin Xin seemed relieved and said, "Oh, then it looks like he's as good as I thought he was."
In fact, Sun Nan and Xin Xin's love story is the same as that of anyone who has ever loved each other, except that the curtain of their story was pulled back in the tumultuous showbiz industry, especially when there is a gap in their so-called status, making the ordinary story unusual.
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