Why does it say, ? The people who are really good at what they do? are often on their own?
In our daily life, there is often such a part of the people, they don't say much, and dress plainly, but they are particularly good at their work, or in a certain aspect. They do everything much better than the average person, such a person is really powerful people.
Onlookers will often cast envious gazes at these people, and even bosses will look up to them, because such people's business skills are usually particularly strong, and they are particularly patient, doing their work without haste, not being affected by other people's influence, and at the same time, they have their own ideas. They do everything according to their own ideas to do, will not be cloudy, follow the current, such a person we generally call him? Big Brother?
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But these big brothers are ordinary people, they may not have any remarkable family history, nor any amazing skills. These really powerful people are often on their own when it comes to doing anything, too. In other words, only truly powerful people would rely on themselves and would not say that they would rely on others. Because these people understand that only the fruit that comes from their own sweat will be especially sweet.
Only by their own efforts, the harvest will be more meaningful. Whether it is in the work or study is this way. In reality, there is such a class of people, they are known as the old family. The reason why the old man, is because they are not willing to pay, not willing to rely on their own hands to live, so they are like parasites in the blood of the parents, living like a puppet like a wimp.
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And then there are the mediocre people, in fact most of us are mediocre. We aspire to poetry and faraway places, but do not have the courage to run to, the inner inferiority complex and cowardice let us footsteps and remorse. Often, we always want to borrow the power of others to accomplish something, so that doomed us will not have much achievement, because the real success of the people, really capable of people, are by themselves.
Also only by themselves to struggle, to work hard, to experience the process of giving, that I myself can really harvest, to really grow up in the process. Experience can not be bought, those who are really powerful, they encountered will not be the problem, the first thought is not to ask others, but their own inquiries, encountered danger, the first thought is not to let others to save him, but first think of how to self-help, so that their ability to survive is also particularly strong.
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Only if a person learns to learn to learn, to think calmly, to solve problems on his own, and to rely on himself, he will grow up faster, and when he falls down, he will be able to get back up faster than others. Put all the hope in their own body, rather than relying on others, then do anything will have a greater bottom, will not be afraid of the end, will not be walking on thin ice, and in the process of exploring, you can broaden their horizons.
Only when a person has a bigger pattern, his world will be bigger and his stage will be bigger. His chances of success will also be higher. Because those who really rely on themselves will take the initiative to fight for opportunities, rather than sitting and waiting for them to come to them. That's why people who are truly successful rely on themselves.
The above is only the author's personal opinion, what do you think? Welcome to comment to add.