Home is a warm harbor and a safe haven for children. Everyone wants to have a harmonious family and live in such a family. How happy it is to grow up! As the saying goes, "there are blessings at home." A harmonious family can bring warmth, happiness, health, wisdom and forward strength to every family member, especially to provide a good environment for children to grow up happier and better.
Trust is the foundation of building a harmonious family. Let's take a look at Andersen's fairy tale "The old man is always right". The story tells that the old woman asked the old man to take the horse to the market and sell it or get something back. The old man changed all the way from cattle, sheep, geese, chickens and rotten apples. Seemingly impulsive behavior, in fact, the old man has his own ideas in every communication, and he is still considering how happy the old woman will be. In the hotel, two Englishmen learned that the old man finally traded his horse for a bag of rotten apples, thinking that the old woman would scold or even hit the old man, but the old man thought that the old woman would kiss him for it. So, two Englishmen bet the old man with a bucket of gold coins that he would be scolded. When he got home, the old man gradually told his exchange, but the old woman was very happy every time, because every exchange of the old man was considering the feelings of his loved ones. The horse changed into a cow and had milk; Cattle for sheep, goat's milk and wool; Sheep for geese, no need to feed, swimming by the river is also a beautiful scenery, eating goose; Goose for chicken, eggs, and even a large group of chickens; Chicken for rotten apple, ha, the old woman is happier, not only because she used to regard only one apple on her tree as wealth, which turned her into a rotten apple, but also because she didn't want to throw it away. Now, she goes to borrow coriander nearby. People say that nothing grows in the field, even a rotten apple can't grow. Now, we can give him a bag of rotten apples. The old woman kissed the old man, the two Englishmen gave up, and the gold coins were naturally given. At the same time, we also realized that it was given by the old man and the old woman.
Then, how many people can treat family disputes as generously as an old woman trusts an old man in life? If it is you, can you still smile calmly in the face of all kinds of ups and downs? It is difficult for us to look at the reality that has happened and cannot be changed with romantic eyes. When the other person does something that looks silly, even if the other person does a well-intentioned bad thing, it is often difficult for us to accept this reality. Fight without anger, the sun shines in an instant, and dark clouds quickly flood the city. The oncoming is not cynicism, but a scolding, and even fists and feet will be added. So, when we don't give up. Originally, trivial things can also trigger a storm that affects family harmony. If we can all understand each other, believe that what each other has done must have its own reasons, and, like an old woman, even the faults of the elderly can be interpreted as a kind of care, how can we talk about a war at home? When we are in love, we can tolerate each other's shortcomings because we love each other wholeheartedly. Do we lack love for family members? No, love still exists, but it is more critical. It is our mentality that affects our lack of insight into finding love. Blindly demanding, let us ignore the existence of love and infinitely magnify our mistakes. Of course, distance produces beauty, but even if it is close at hand, as long as you look for it with tolerance and trust, you will find that the beauty around you can touch people's hearts more. Let's always keep our mentality when we are in love. Treat every moment with the person you love as a punctuation mark in love, tolerate each other, be kind to each other, care for each other, and allow each other to make these beautiful mistakes. We will find that our life is full of sunshine everywhere. "The old man is doing the right thing", which is so reassuring to get along with, reveals to us the truth that trust makes a harmonious family. This is not blind worship, connivance or weak dependence, but family harmony.
Promoting family harmony is the responsibility and obligation of every family member. I think: as long as we have trust, we will create a warm and harmonious family.