Many things, only personally experienced, feel can really understand: feelings of the world, no reason to speak. The truth is not necessarily can change the truth, pay and not necessarily will have the results. Some people, you love him again, for him to pay more, he can not put you in the heart, also can not give you want to happiness.
So, in the relationship, no matter how much you love a person, you have to learn to identify. If a person, he is not really love you, then forget it. Love a fruitless person, in the end can only let itself suffered harm and torture. In that case, it would be better not to start. A person says I love you, but can't give you these 3 things, don't be together.
01.nameLove, love, to love a clear, clear. To fall in love, it is not necessary to be sensational, but must not be unclear. Girls must understand that ambiguity is not love, not willing to give you the name of the person, in the final analysis is not enough to love you. In the Netease cloud music to see such a comment: "ambiguous is what? Everyone knows you are together, only you clearly know the distance between you and ta. He is not actually fond of ambiguity, but rather fond of ambiguity with you. Ambiguity can be long, but not for long."
When I saw these words, there was an inexplicable heartache inside. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm not a good person. I have also seen such a boy, the mouth side of the girl said a variety of super nice flowery language. But is not willing to fall to recognize the relationship with the girl. The girl wanted the boy to post a photo of himself in the circle of friends, but the boy rightly refused to be seen by the leadership and friends.
The girl wanted to go to a friend's dinner, but the boy refused, saying that you are not familiar with them. Indeed, it did not take long, the boy is tired of, actively and girls clearly put forward the breakup. Love or not, in fact, from the beginning there are signs. At the point when he declined to have an open relationship with you, at the point when he declined to accompany you to a friend's get-together. If that one who says he really loves you, but does not even give you the most basic name, then forget it.
02. SpoiledRead this story: the girl went out in the morning and forgot to bring an umbrella, and when she worked late at night, it suddenly rained heavily outside. She sent a friend circle by hand, and then continued to work. Half an hour later, her boyfriend rushed to her business with an umbrella and a food box in his hand. The food box was filled with the girl's favorite ravioli, ravioli is still hot air, the boy is running all the way over. The girl said that from the first day they were together, her boyfriend had always treated her like this. Spoiling her like a little kid, spoiling her like a little kid.
Remember what Hu said on an exclusive interview, "My exes and ex-exes are great. One of them taught me to be a mature and elegant woman, and the other taught me to be an independent director as an adult; but my favorite is the current one, who taught me to be a child again." So you see, someone who cares about you will go out of his way to give you his favor.
He may not be prone to putting flowery words on his lips, but he will surely do a lot of things to love you. And that a mouth said love you, love you thing but a not do the boy, must not really love you. Love is with do, only say no love, too cheap, can not stand the test of time.
03. FutureA person wants to be with you for a while, or for life, you can see whether he will plan you into their own future. Some people say that they only love you in this life, but his future is not you; some people say that they will definitely marry you home, but he eventually married someone else. This kind of example invariably no longer tell everyone that the super nice promise is simply unable to resist the cruel reality.
If a person, he is truly love you, his future must be with you. He will plan you into their own future, his future in the daily life are your figure. The other half of his name on the marriage certificate is you, his future children's mother is you; and he together with the sunset, hand in hand to see the sunset is also you. All the things he wants to do in the future, he wants to do with you.
He will work hard to give you a home; he will work hard to give you a happy life; he will work hard to give you a better life; he will work hard to irrigate your relationship with you for a longer period of time. If a man, his mouth shouted your daughter-in-law, turn around and other women ambiguous; he said that he wanted to give you a home, but never therefore pay efforts; like this boy, must not really love you. He just said I love you, but there is no you in his heart.
The Zhang Xiaoxian said in "Thank you for leaving me": "Love is a double dance, I don't mind two people are not good, but I do mind, only I'm a person in the dance; the other person has been standing next to see." If he doesn't love you that much, just forget it, okay?