You are growing up and your parents are getting old. When you are running for your dreams and family, don't forget your parents who are waiting for you to go home for dinner.
A few days ago, the lonely old man in Liu's yard passed away. I felt a little sad to see her small body when it was carried out by the funeral home in a bag. She didn't have any relatives present to cry for her, and no one she loved most died for her. She died suddenly. Perhaps, death is a relief for Liu, who has been lonely with illness and self-pity for so many years and is over 85 years old. But if she had relatives and children, maybe she wouldn't end up in a bleak dusk and cry to death at home all day, No Country for Old Men.
The next morning, Liu was found dead in bed at home by the nanny. When the neighbors heard about it, they all came to help. My mother, a middle-aged aunt, helped burn paper money and manage relics. Others help to call the street workers, contact the funeral home, help Liu scrub her body and put on decent clothes so that she can leave with dignity. After many people came, everyone discussed the burial of Liu Popo. After the noise, silence was restored. Not many people care about her departure, and few people regret it, because those relatives who can care, regret and cry for her are gone.
Listening to grandma talking about Liu Popo's past, she is a mainlander with no relatives and no companions. She lived a hard life when she was young. Fortunately, there was a daughter who was very clever and sensible, but unfortunately, her daughter died unexpectedly after getting married, and her son-in-law left the house cruelly. Liu has no grandchildren and lost his closest relatives. Since then, Liu He's wife has been living together.
Liu's wife is unable to walk, so Liu takes good care of him and lives with them. But as time goes by, Liu's wife is older than her. She often hears Liu say that her wife has left. A few years ago, her wife finally left, leaving her alone. After Liu's wife died, the staff of the sub-district office hired a woman to take care of Liu's diet. However, in recent years, Liu Popo's life has been difficult. She seldom goes out because of illness in her legs and feet, but occasionally sits in the sun at her door and says hello to passers-by.
Now, mother-in-law Liu has passed away, but her death reminds us young people that some love should be repaid in time, and some words should be said as soon as possible, while parents are still alive, while the closest people around us are still with us, while time is still young, and while the years are green, those love words buried in the present and those actions that are delayed but delayed must be done as soon as possible, instead of waiting until the end of the day to join hands with the people you like to see the scenery.
Time flies, and time never stays for anyone. Another year ended in a hurry. Think about it. Years ago, did you say that you would take your parents to travel, even if it was just to visit this rapidly developing city? I wanted to buy new clothes for my parents, but I didn't buy them because my parents said they had enough clothes. It is necessary to teach parents to play mobile phones to make them have fun and keep up with the pace of young people, but they are always ignored because of their busy work; If you want to go home often, you can always forget it for one reason or another.
At the end of the year, it is more or less a dilemma for the wanderers who are working hard outside whether to go home to spend the New Year with their parents. The new year is coming, but how many elderly people who live alone are watching the laughter party on TV at home, but their hearts are as cold as empty rooms. No matter how strong a person is, there are times when he is fragile, let alone an old man. We young people are lonely, afraid of loneliness, afraid of being unaccompanied, not to mention the elderly who live alone. If you really can't go home this year, remember not to leave your parents behind, especially single-parent families. If possible, I hope you can go home during the Spring Festival and tell your parents that you are doing well. Maybe you will develop in your hometown in a few years.
I saw a German Christmas advertisement video "Go Home" in Weibo yesterday. The video is only 2 minutes long, but it tells the story of a lonely old man who lied about his death and sent a letter to his child, hoping that the child could go home for the New Year. My eyes are red after watching the video, because time waits for no one. I am a child of a single-parent family, so I know better what companionship means to my mother.
When we were young, our parents sheltered us from the wind and rain. When they get old, we can also accompany them to grow old healthily and happily. For parents who are getting old, there is no need for too much fanfare or glamorous embellishment. What they want is real company. For parents, we can do the following five practical things to make companionship seem longer:
1. Refine big promises into small actions.
You may have said that if you have money, you can take your parents to travel abroad or go to popular scenic spots in China, but you have been busy making money and neglected this. In fact, you can temporarily change the itinerary of popular scenic spots to surrounding scenic spots, which is convenient to save time and keep your promise. In my opinion, instead of saying something unrealistic, it is better to make parents feel love with small gestures, such as taking their parents to a fancy restaurant to eat delicious food, instead of cooking with their parents at home on weekends and dragging their feet to take wedding photos. It is better to teach their parents to take photos with their mobile phones and then go to the photo studio to print them out. Some long-term big goals may be just verbal promises, but we can start with the most immediate and practical things and express our love with actions.
If you don't work and study in other places, you can climb mountains with your parents on weekends, or go to the park to watch square dance with your parents. If they like it, you can also let them take part in it, which will not only entertain you, but also make your parents make friends with their peers, so that they will not be so bored watching TV at home all day. Parents should support what they like within a reasonable range, and don't be happy because of their hobbies. Mom wants to sing, so she can download singing software to play. If she likes dancing, she can buy her dancing shoes to take part in the square dance. If dad likes top or chess, he can go to the neighborhood for entertainment.
3. Teach parents to use mobile apps.
Now smart phones are convenient for everyone's life. Please take the time to teach your parents how to use smart phones. After all, if you are busy on a business trip, your parents can make QQ videos with you, or send friends to show your knitting, calligraphy, cooking, fishing, handicrafts and other skills. You know, don't underestimate the fruits of your parents' labor. When their hobbies are displayed, it can also bring them inner pride and satisfaction. I installed WeChat, mobile phone Taobao, beauty camera, QQ, Weibo and Baidu browser on my mother's mobile phone, and also installed Ruyi App to facilitate charitable donation in the second-hand medicine group. The most important thing is that health management can be carried out at any time. As for the retouching software, it is to make the smug mother look better after taking a selfie.
4. Get rid of parents' bad habits
When my parents are old, they are no longer as beautiful as flowers and jade, and they are in their prime. If dad and mom like smoking and playing cards, they can gradually replace them with other hobbies they are interested in. Of course, playing cards properly is entertainment. If sitting and playing cards every day affects your health, you have to expand your parents' hobbies to cover up bad habits. In addition, it is important to remind you at any time. You can post post-it notes in conspicuous places at home, telling dad that smoking is not allowed at home, or you can let dad play mobile games or do housework when he can't help smoking, so as to dispel the idea of smoking.
5. Take care of yourself and let parents worry less.
If you work hard outside and remember to take care of yourself, you will become better, stronger and more outstanding, and your parents will be less worried and will not be busy introducing you to blind date and forced marriage, because only if you can't take care of yourself in their eyes will they worry about you and fear that you will suffer alone. Because things are impermanent, too many people leave in a hurry, so companionship is precious. Dear, don't let tomorrow's busyness or talking about it become an excuse for you to leave.
No matter how far we run, no matter how high we jump, don't forget that there are parents waiting for us to go home for dinner. Once, they were all omnipotent people, but time was cruel to everyone. My parents are old. When they are old, I hope that our company and I love you can exist in time to make them feel happy instead of living alone. At least with us, parents should not feel lonely.
About the author: Shen Shanshu, a young and cutting-edge author. I hope to cross every Qian Qian knot with the warmth of words. I don't want to grow old in mediocrity. Weibo @ Shen Shanshu.
Pay attention to your sentences.
If I can love you again, I will never let you go. I will cherish you more, because I miss you now. I don't remember taking care of myself. Drink more hot water, don't catch a cold, and drink less.
Pay attention to your sentences.
First, go, take care of yourself is the true meaning! I shouldered my responsibility and moved on. ...
Secondly, sometimes I wonder why when one day you can take care of yourself and others, those who took care of you when you can't do anything are not around?
Third, look at people, look at personality, and make people sincere. A gentleman gives himself up, is patient everywhere, and is always kind. Little people fight for fame and gain, do whatever it takes, and are as cunning as wolves. Gentleman, noble character, welcome; Little people, hard to prevent, hide far away. When you are alone, you should take care of yourself. The world is big, but not many people are really good to themselves. No one will always protect themselves and try to take care of themselves, for themselves and for those who care about themselves!
Fourth, I gave up Yabuli and Ma Cheng for physical reasons after I came back, and I have no friends in Qingdao. I have been having a fever and catching a cold in three places in one country. To be honest, health is very important. The list of lovely people must take care of yourself.
5. When we are old, we should take good care of our bodies and don't drag our children down! What a realistic statement.
I hope you can take care of yourself on my side as usual.
Seven, some people have things, I tried, but there is still no result, so goodbye, take care, don't like the initiative of my little sister.
Eight, the first time I saw you, you covered yourself tightly. I'm glad you finally started to protect yourself. But my heart is inexplicably uncomfortable. Distressed. Take care of yourself.
9. They will wonder why her mother and relatives grabbed her hands and feet and pressed her on the cold hospital bed filled with disinfectant. It's no use crying. I really can't stand this feeling, especially when she looks at me crying and asking for help. I hope more parents will take good care of their babies in advance, instead of taking injections and taking medicine after illness. I also hope that everyone will be more careful and pay attention to the weather changes.
Ten, everyone take care of yourself! Don't catch a cold. Two days ago, I said I didn't have a cold. I woke up last night and caught a cold today!
1 1. Maturity means that you always take your own umbrella when you go out and rarely get wet again. That is, you can control your tears and rarely move yourself to cry. Maturity means that you learn to be kind to yourself and take care of yourself. You gradually become an independent individual, instead of relying on luck to rely on everything outside. No one will pick you up on a rainy night. No one will read your thoughts.
Twelve, Singles Day, please take care of yourself, work hard, mushrooms are cold-to yourself.
Thirteen, dad is a man who is not good at words, but the most he said to me is, daughter, take care of yourself, eat a good meal, and be very warm-hearted. Dad, I love you.
It is snowing in Beijing. After staying in Beijing for a long time, you must keep warm and take care of yourself!
Fifteen, two things in life: educating children and cultivating yourself. When people are old, the best gift for children is to take care of themselves, have an optimistic attitude and be healthy.
I am really impatient. I hate being a person without self-discipline. I am not reconciled. I'm not reconciled to many things. This kind of unwillingness makes me worry about the value of food itself, and thinking repeatedly about worthless things consumes my life. I'm so stupid. I can't look after myself. I should take care of myself. Life should not be like this.
Seventeen, once an artist makes a mistake, he will fall into the whirlpool of cyber violence if he is not careful. Maybe just like taking drugs, he has no amazing will and mentality. Even if his family cares about love, it's no use persuading him. I wish Ha Ji Won Ernie's younger brother all the best, and I hope Ernie can take care of himself.
Why can't I enjoy a young and beautiful body? I really want to enjoy it while I am still a little young and lovely. I also want to take good care of my body, let myself have a beautiful body and make each other happy. I really enjoyed my youth. I will become a monk when I am old.
However, everyone should pay attention to eating well and taking care of themselves if it is not a special situation.
Twenty, think about it or count on yourself to be more reliable, because you know yourself best. Know that you are tired, give you a big hug, thank you, eat and sleep and take care of yourself! Everything is a cloud!
Twenty-one, Zhou Zhou is the anchor, no one around you lets you go out every day, either sitting in front of the computer or watching TV dramas every day. I stayed up late and got up late. You should go for a walk! I feel that your resistance has decreased recently, so you are always sick and dizzy! ! ! Take care of yourself. Oh, oh, oh, oh! ! ! ! !
Shuai Shuai, 22, misses you very much. Take care.
Remember to eat the lunch prepared for you when you are hungry, take care of yourself, make more friends, and send photos back when you are free. Have fun.
Twenty-four, I saw you say that you long for a weekend of your own, an empty night, and a cup of coffee that is not refreshing. A little distressed. You have been ill again recently. The last time you were ill, you went back to school from Latin America. Maybe you haven't had a good rest these days. I hope you can love yourself more and take care of yourself. I will give you a hug from afar. May the heart wave exert its infinite power and you will receive my concern.
Twenty-five, I want to give all the good wishes in this world to my favorite beautiful girl. I wish you a smile every day, and I will try my best to make you happy, so please take care of yourself and love yourself more. Happy birthday, mom.
Twenty-six, addressed to you, please take care. Can I ask you out in advance for your next life?
In the new year, take good care of yourself, make money hard and learn to love.
It will start to cool down tomorrow. Put on more clothes and take care of yourself.
Take care of the world, not yourself!
Take care of yourself no matter how sad you are when you are old. Roses relieve depression and nerves.
I went out to play while my old mother was asleep last night. I woke up in the morning and found that I still remember to send postcards to my old mother. Pay attention to safety outside, remember to take care of yourself, and don't forget to send photos to your mother. What a good tweet!
32. Good morning, Mr. Wu. I hear birds singing outside the house. It should be sunny and the temperature is still very low. It really makes people feel that winter is coming. This is the season in Beijing. There is no spring and autumn, but it is a transition between summer and winter. It is said that it snowed in Beijing yesterday, and local snowfall came. Is it far from large-scale snowfall? We must take care of ourselves.
I will take care of myself. Tell me.
I will take care of myself. Tell me.
1. I will leave Lhasa soon. Looking back, I have lived in Lhasa for so long, and I am really reluctant to part with it, and I still have so many good friends. But in order to develop, I have no choice. Maybe this is the last time I posted it in a circle of friends in Lhasa. A lot has happened recently, and I have suffered a lot. Now I figured it out. I will leave this city. When you see this message, I will be on my way. Don't be surprised.
Second, I can't hear your voice until Sunday every time. That moment is enough. I've been thinking about you, no matter how busy I am. I don't know if you miss me when I miss you. Your efforts make me more motivated. I am learning and growing slowly. I will take care of myself. You must work hard, I believe you. I love brother Jie.
Three, long hair waist-high, I will take good care of my flowing long hair, eat three meals to enjoy the warmth of the four seasons, and love myself.
Fourth, I will take care of myself, become better, and then cross the ocean to find you.
Dear, thank you for treating me like a sister. I will take good care of my health.
Six, I said I came all the way to see you off. Why don't you tell me everything like the hero in the TV series? He smiled shyly! In fact, the person who knows me best is him. He didn't say it because he was afraid to see me cry. I don't know how many times I told him in my heart! Is such a person, in front of anyone can talk about Kan Kan, except me! Don't worry about going to work, I will take care of myself, dear, when you come back! Come back and comb my hair!
Seven, a word mixed with tears, I will take good care of myself, how much the past is devouring me, how to save me?
8. I really have to go alone in the future. I will slow down, try to avoid falling and stop rampaging. I will be down-to-earth step by step, learn not to worry too much, take good care of myself, and never be greedy again.
I have to leave before I can say anything. I just want to go out and see myself. Don't worry, I can't get in touch. I will take care of myself. Please take care of yourself for me.
I want to see you later. I will take care of myself.
I seem to have forgotten who you are. I only remember that I love you very much. I can start a new life. Don't worry about me anymore. I will take care of myself and lose my willfulness and impulsiveness. I am very happy in my busy life every day. Even a person will not feel lonely. I eat alone, go shopping alone, eat maocai alone, and sing karaoke crazily.
I made a phone call this morning and I really couldn't accept it. My tears came down. I'm also worried that my father is a little tired because of too many things recently, so I have to be strong. After all, as an adult, I have to resist something. I will take care of myself and don't worry about me.
Thirteen, learn to go to extremes less. In fact, there are quite a few things that don't need to be graded. How can we get along slowly? Some things are not forced. If one day you don't miss me, I think we will become friends. I hope we're all okay. I hope I can take care of myself. I hope you can, too. After all, we are all in love now.
Loneliness is an important lesson on the road to success. It doesn't matter. I will take care of myself.
I will take good care of myself and adjust my mood. Don't worry.
Sixteen, don't worry! After drinking that glass of wine, I will take care of myself! When you are drunk, you know that the wine is strong. This wine is for worship, and the sun and the moon can look in the mirror!
Seventeen, let go because I love you too much, I'm sorry to see you. I will take care of myself. Live up to your words, you are strong.
It's not so hard for me to leave this time ~ maybe it's because I'm familiar with the city and independent. I'll take care of myself. See you next time.
Nineteen, get up and cook. I haven't had breakfast for a long time. If you were here, you wouldn't make me hungry. But, honey, you don't have to worry about us. I will take good care of myself and my daughter.
Twenty, I am very happy that Da Tuotuo can finally give up everything that makes him unhappy! Originally selfish to let him stay with me, now he has finally grown up and let him choose the life he wants! Although you won't be with me in the future, I will take care of myself!
If you like me, please do come to me. If you like me, please try your best to impress me. If you like me, please don't keep me waiting too long. I'll take care of myself before you come. I hope everything will be fine on your way.
Twenty-two, I will take care of myself alone in the future, and I will be strong.
Before you find me, I will take good care of my stomach, smiling eyes and fiery heart. Life is so long, I will wait slowly.
Thank you for your concern, but you don't have to worry about me I will take care of myself.
I will take care of myself before you come.
There are so many people who need you. I will take care of myself.
Thank you for your big red envelopes. I will take good care of myself. Now you love me, and I will love you in the future.
28. I don't know if this decision is right, but I believe that if Grandpa still has a little consciousness, he won't put up with his inanimate state and rely on a ventilator to maintain his life. Thank you, mom and uncle. They tried their best to keep grandpa until I went back to see him for the last time. Thank you, too. Grandpa has been waiting for me. I will meet my grandpa in three days. I will take good care of myself and live a good life.
Twenty-nine, people can't get a little comfort and warmth when they are most vulnerable, otherwise tears will burst their banks. Thank you. I'll take care of myself.
I seem to have a cold and a fever. I will take care of myself and not stay up late.
Thirty-one, I will take good care of myself and live alone like a tribe.
It's thirty-two, and I'm very sorry for worrying my family! I will take care of myself! !
I will take care of myself, and I will try to adapt to everything before I find my dependence.
Thirty-four, two years of love, today, officially come to an end, good for each other! I will take care of myself.
Life can't stand every accident, so I will take good care of myself, not for myself but also for those who love me.
Thirty-six, although it hurts, long pain is better than short pain. Thanks to the company of my sisters, I won't be so lonely. After all, I can't live without them. I wish you a better life in the future. I will take care of myself. I will never trust anyone's promise again!
Thirty-seven, far from home, separation is only temporary, how I wish I could be by your side and worry about everything. I will take good care of myself and shrimp, but I also hope to be well. Be a mature and steady person, don't fight for everything, you are the best.
Learn to take care of yourself.
1, but everyone should pay attention, if it is not a special situation, eat well and take care of yourself.
2. "Sometimes I wonder why when you can take care of yourself and others one day, those who took care of you when you can't do anything are not around?"
Please take care of the rest of your life, don't push yourself too hard, find someone you can rely on! It is the most regrettable that you are tired alone. I can only go for a ride with you!
4. If you want to transfer to another school, the most you can do is give up, and I miss you very much. Take care, you pig.
It is most important for people to have a healthy body. I hope everyone I know can take good care of themselves and have a good body.
6. I have three things that are not spicy. I dream of friendship and like you.
7, accustomed to, a person is also quite good. Take a rest when you are tired; If you are sick, go to recuperate. Don't think too much, take care of yourself and make your daily life full of sunshine.
Please take care of yourself, work hard and keep calm to yourself on this day.
9. Accustomed to being alone, accustomed to the current state of life, accustomed to lying in bed and thinking quietly, accustomed to staying alone in the room, accustomed to insomnia at night, and letting my wounds spread a little bit in my heart. I don't want to grow up, but I have to face it. One should take care of oneself more. If it is cold, give yourself a coat. If you are hungry, buy yourself a bread. Give yourself a strong life if you are sick. Even if you are alone, you should live happily.
10, only by turning lessons into punishment will we feel pain. We might as well accept it happily and deal with it with a smile-then it is just a lesson for us. Just study hard.
1 1, I'm really impatient. I hate being a person without self-discipline. I am not reconciled. I'm not reconciled to many things. This kind of unwillingness makes me worry about the value of food itself, and thinking repeatedly about worthless things consumes my life. I'm so stupid. I can't look after myself. I should take care of myself. Life should not be like this.
12, I'm alone in the field, please take care, because I'm sick, and I really don't want to experience the loneliness of being alone in the hospital again.
13, nothing in this universe is really good, and nothing is really bad. It's just a cycle for everyone to play, and then it's time to go back to rest.
14, if you are calm inside, there will be no storm outside.
15, I don't know why, but I was a little confused at home. Maybe the basic day's cycling made me sick and dizzy, maybe I couldn't bear to watch my parents busy for me, or maybe I was too determined to see my roommate's boyfriend running towards her without hesitation and hugging her tightly. I can really take care of myself, but I can also try my best to do what I want. !
16. Remember to get dressed tomorrow, take an umbrella, have breakfast, attend class, keep warm, eat, take care of yourself, love me, good night and love you.
17, simple life, what to enjoy. Smile and accept everything.
18, they will wonder why their mothers and relatives grabbed her hands and feet and pressed her on the cold bed full of disinfectant. It's no use crying. I really can't stand this feeling, especially when she looks at me crying and asking for help. I hope more parents will take good care of their babies in advance, instead of taking injections and taking medicine after illness. I also hope that everyone will be more careful and pay attention to the weather changes.
19, think about it or count on yourself to be more reliable, because you know yourself best. Know that you are tired, give you a big hug, thank you, eat and sleep and take care of yourself! Everything is a cloud!
Time is silent. After all, you are the city I will never meet again in my life.
2 1, don't worry, I will take good care of myself, and I will be happy without you.
22. I want to send all the best wishes in this world to my favorite beautiful girl. I wish you a smile every day, and I will try my best to make you happy, so please take care of yourself and love yourself more. Happy birthday, mom.
23. I saw you cover yourself for the first time. I'm glad you finally started to protect yourself. But my heart is inexplicably uncomfortable. Distressed. Take care of yourself.
24. Good morning, Mr. Wu. I hear birds singing outside the house. It should be sunny and the temperature is still very low. It really makes people feel that winter is coming. This is the season in Beijing. There is no spring and autumn, but it is a transition between summer and winter. It is said that it snowed in Beijing yesterday, and local snowfall came. Is it far from large-scale snowfall? We must take care of ourselves.
25. I changed your note to your name, using your first name and last name.
26. Set a goal for yourself, just be happy for today, don't worry about yesterday, take care of yourself and cheer! Thursday, good morning!
27. I ran 800 miles, but I didn't know I had my period ... I'm glad I survived yesterday. I never felt like I was going to die after running 800. It turns out that my menstrual period has such a great influence on a person, and girls still have to take care of themselves. ...
28. Take care of yourself no matter how sad you are when you are old. Roses are soothing.
29, enlightenment is not to eliminate emotions, but to know how to use emotions.