Second, it is not slag, but spoiled or broken, and eventually I don't know the southeast and northwest, forming love rat love rat. In the two real cases cited by Tintin, in fact, innocent wives or husbands have their own responsibilities. Their husbands or wives may not be love rat or love rat at first, but in the process of husband and wife living together, one side tends to or sticks to the other. For example, if the wife loses millions in gambling, it should be that the wife is a full-time wife, and the husband allowed or even asked her to play cards at first, or the wife likes to play cards. Her husband thinks his wife is lonely at home alone, and it's okay to play small cards, that's all. When the husband is whoring and keeping a mistress outside, it should be that when the wife is in the mobile phone shop, the husband is not allowed to intervene in all aspects. It may be that the husband was naughty outside and the wife indulged, but the wife didn't pay attention, or found signs, and finally it got out of hand. There should be many such situations in real life, because most men and women don't want to live well with each other when they get married.
When you meet love rat love rat, don't believe that you are the savior.
The third is to be confident that you are Tathagata or Guanyin and can save each other through love. There are some people who actually knew from the beginning that the other party was love rat or love rat, at least they were not on the same road with themselves, but for some reason, they met and they might be grateful to each other. As an excellent man or woman, they are confident that they are Tathagata or Guanyin, hoping to influence each other and save each other through love. The other party may want to live a good life at first, at least at the beginning, so that the other party thinks that love is very powerful, and there are similar cases in reality as examples. But as we all know, after marriage, very few people can turn over a new leaf, and most of them show their true colors and return to their old jobs, which eventually makes the other party pay their sincerity, youth, life and efforts for all kinds of sadness and regret.
Why do good men easily meet love rat and good women easily meet love rat? A colleague summed it up very well: because it is different, it is easy to be moved, while people of the same kind are really hard to be moved by each other because of basically the same experience. Moreover, when a good man meets love rat and a good woman meets love rat, many of them insist that what they meet is the best because they didn't listen to their parents. Finally, they regret it and jump into their parents' arms, crying and not listening to their parents, but everything is too late, because life is impossible.