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Time flies, years go by, and everyone is living a completely different life. Some women become their best in the changing years, but at the same time, there are some women who live worse and worse, worse and sadder. Especially for some middle-aged women, the gap between each other's lives is even more obvious, some people are happy and happy, while others are constantly complaining.
Perhaps we can think that middle age is actually a watershed in life, a process in which we move from childishness to maturity, from confusion about life to sobriety. And we will also continue to increase their life experience in this process, for the goal of life will also be more clear. Middle age, is a woman must go through a turning point in life.
Possibly in the young, the woman's attitude towards love will also be more courageous, even if it is to exhaust all their own to pursue a favorite person, even if this relationship failed there is a way back. But the middle-aged woman to love may become more hesitant, no longer dare to do what you want to do what to do, after all, for the middle-aged woman, life is full of challenges and traps, such as accidentally fell, may never get up again, the cost is too great, middle-aged women have been unable to afford to lose.
Young people still have the capital to overturn everything and live again, but the middle-aged stage of life will determine the state of life for the rest of the person's life. Therefore, if a middle-aged woman is still blindly pursuing something meaningless and valuable to herself at this stage, it is actually wasting time and consuming energy, and then the second half of her life will not be able to obtain real happiness.
It's time for middle-aged women to change their attitudes and opinions about people and things. Middle-aged life should not be centered only on love, love or not may not be so important, middle-aged women's greatest sorrow is actually do not know? These three words carry clear.
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Yang has lived for 50 years and she has always believed that ? lack of love? is the biggest sorrow of a middle-aged woman. Can not get their beloved man's love and care, then what is the meaning of such a life? But when she gradually entered the middle-aged stage of the state, she issued such a feeling: "For middle-aged women, can they be loved and cared for by their beloved men? For the middle-aged woman, whether or not she can be loved is no longer important, and it is the greatest sorrow of a woman that she can't make sense of it.
She had a 25-year marriage, which everyone thought would be a happy one, but it was because of her? couldn't get her head around it? that made the marriage come to an early end. Even if she was remorseful and regretful, her husband was no longer willing to return to her. Sister Yang is the eldest in her family and has a younger brother. The whole family treats this younger brother as a treasure, and so does Sister Yang.
Even after she got married, she was still responsible for her brother's expenses, which she considered to be her duty as a sister. Even if her brother has graduated from college and come out to work, she is still always worried about her brother's lack of money to spend, buy a car to buy a house must be funded, and even the wedding bride price money want to bear for him. Yang never consulted her husband every time she spent money on her mother's family, which led to her in-laws' growing opinions and dissatisfaction with her, and the couple's relationship was more or less affected.
No matter how much her mother-in-law complained and blamed her, and no matter how much her husband tried to persuade her, she was still unwilling to change her attitude towards her mother's family, because she always felt that she should treat her own family members righteously, not caring about her own gains and losses. However, Yang didn't realize that she had hurt her relationship with her husband in this way and that she and her husband were drifting apart.
She was even more naive in thinking that her husband, as the closest person to her, should support and approve of all her decisions. Because of this, she eventually lost her husband's heart and failed to keep the marriage. When she had nothing left, Yang realized that the marriage ended because she was confused.
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In fact, for middle-aged women, it is important to know what is important to them. Even if no one love is not terrible, because you can still love yourself. But those who? The most important thing is to know what is important to you. The woman will not only destroy their own original happiness, but also may affect their future life status.
The relationship between the mother's family and the in-laws is not clear. It must be a great challenge for all married women to harmonize the relationship between their in-laws and their mother's family. If such as not handled well, not only will hurt between the two families, and even affect their own relationship with their husbands.
In reality, there are many women who bet too much of their time, money and energy on their mother's family, and after they get married, they still focus their lives on their mother's family, using their own and their husband's savings to support their mother's family. And women do not realize that they are in the wrong, long time to maintain this mutual mode, do not know to make changes to win back the in-laws of the heart, then sooner or later will make their marriage become broken.
Can't understand the relationship between themselves and their husbands. Perhaps a woman who treats her family so well is also confident that she can do anything in this marriage relationship. Even if she is constantly helping and supporting her family, her husband will not complain, and even firmly believe that there will be no cracks in the marriage. The woman thinks that her husband is not hers anymore, and even if she gives her husband advice, she never changes her mind. This is the first time I've seen such a woman in the world, and I'm not sure she'll be able to get the love of a man.
But in fact, a relationship, both sides should continue to make themselves better, so as to maintain a long-term attraction. If you are no longer willing to pay for each other and make changes from the beginning of the marriage, then your future relationship is just consuming the love in each other's hearts. When there is no love that day, the marriage will come to an end that day.
So, the biggest sorrow of middle-aged women should be? Carrying on the wrong way? Women always think of themselves as living, then whether it is family friendship or love, will likely be affected. Middle-aged women should learn to make themselves a little smarter, grasp the most important people and things in their own lives, in order to obtain the greatest happiness, do not let? I don't know what to do, but I don't know what to do. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the things that you have, so it's not worth it!