If you recognize me, accept me, if not, reject me,, if you recognize me and still want to test me, I'm not going to play with you, how do people like this

First of all, you need to take the initiative. Do what you want to think of the consequences Commitment is actually an immature performance, the normal order should be: is your girlfriend after how how, not you do my girlfriend after how I how. I saw an example of this on the internet. I don't know if it's true, but it's worth mentioning. A master chasing a girl, very successful, the last two people are about to have sex, the woman anxious to ask the man, why do not you let me do your girlfriend ah? The general girls like to have a sense of responsibility of the man. Women are very concerned about the first impression, to be mature, think about it, which woman will fall in love with a childish person. A mature man will face his responsibilities. Take the initiative when you're with her, but keep it in moderation. Girls are very timid, don't scare her. You have to be steady, opinionated, and do everything in a panic. Have a manly demeanor. Have sympathy, especially for small animals. (Women like this kind of man) Also have confidence, no confidence is not good at anything. Life meets the worry thing, in front of it to show optimism (premise is to let her know you met), let her see how strong you. You don't often say "I love you" to her, say more than the meaning of the flavor, and don't say "forever" how so. Because many women don't believe in forever. My girlfriend does. If your heart is sincere and you put your heart into it, then she will definitely come to you. If she's worth it, do it. I've got some tips for you on how to get a girl. Let's see if they help. The more you touch a woman, the more likely she is to fall in love with you> touching a woman increases intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but it takes a lot of skill to touch a woman without making a mark), and if you have the opportunity to touch her on her knee or her hand, that's perfect. But if it's your first date, don't do it. In a coffee shop or restaurant, you'd better sit side by side (that's how opportunities are created), if you choose to sit face to face, you won't have the chance to touch each other. The left side of a woman's body (roughly the left side, but for a left-handed woman, it's the right side) is a non-routine area that is easily tickled, and the left side of the breasts is an even more sensitive area for women. Therefore, it's best to keep the woman on your left side, and if you wrap your left arm around her from behind her left side, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results. Difference between popular and unpopular men > Popular men stay away from women they don't want, but they have a way of keeping the woman they love close to them. Women are always curious about attractive men (curiosity is the Achilles' heel of women), and this curiosity can be used for interesting conversations and fresh information. If you do not have popularity, even if the other party is very curious, but see you only desperately avoid, unpopular men are always around quite lonely, no matter when you want to be in a lively atmosphere, want to become a popular man, you must have self-confidence (self-confidence is not arrogant is the only way to chase a girlfriend, remember!) If you want to be a popular man, you must have confidence (confidence without arrogance is the key to getting a girlfriend, remember!), and good interpersonal relationships, and believe that this way, a good girl will belong to you. < from friends into lovers > It is difficult to have the opportunity to ask her out, but do not know what to bring a gift, in this kind of occasion it is best to bring a flower, so that you may be able to pin her flowers in the chest (gift giving is a learning experience, however, to want to put the flowers inserted in the chest of the "unfamiliar" women is unwise oh) or hair, that naturally formed between the opportunity to kiss. When it comes to dining, you may want to be a little more discreet the first time around, but after the second time, you can choose to eat as a couple to increase your intimacy. If you and she can eat a lot of food, then your relationship is not just friends, but a couple. <Let yourself have the opportunity to step into her inner world> After the other person becomes your girlfriend, there are a lot of people who are frustrated that their relationship can't go any further, in fact, if these people either don't care too much, or often let the opportunity to enhance their feelings slip away. In the female community, there is a lot of emphasis on guys who can help women with their coats, because the moment they take off their coats, if a man is present, it's easy for women to get the impression that they're a couple. If you can say, "Put something you're going to forget on my side," when you take a taxi, you'll be bringing yourself closer to her. However, if you don't use these behaviors correctly, it can be a mistake. <Create chance> Mystery is very important to women. A man you meet by chance is much more attractive to women than a man you meet at work or by introduction, and if this kind of chance occurs repeatedly, women are sure to be convinced that fate exists. But is it possible to create a second chance? If you want to meet a girl no matter what, you can check her commuting route and other related matters, then it will be easier to create a second chance to be a successful man by accepting women's eyes, women always pay attention to the nature of men's true colors, so when they know that men's true colors are not their favorite types, they will most likely escape. If they realize that a man is not their favorite type, they will most likely take advantage of the opportunity to escape. It would be best if you can make some changes to match her preferences. And a good memory, is a female characteristic, some men have forgotten a sentence, but women remember very clearly, so you must remember every word you say to her <What kind of gifts will she like? > In terms of gift giving, if your girlfriend likes small items, you can send rings, watches or small flowers, if she likes large items, you can send large dolls or large and numerous bouquets of flowers, can win her heart. Generally speaking, people who like small objects are more mature, as they can keep them within their control and therefore are less likely to act on them. Women who like big dolls are more likely to be a little childish, so when she's happy, she'll probably pester her boyfriend. However, it is also possible that after getting tired of hugging dolls, they will not want to hug you again In this regard, although women who like small objects will make you spend more, but it seems to be easier to cultivate a long-lasting love. <If you give in to a woman's words or attitude too much, you're bound to fail> Women are both cute and scary creatures and differ from men in that they have two sides to their personalities; on the outside they look pretty, but on the inside they can be quite the vixens. Men who are not good at courting women tend to succumb to this terror. Men who are not accustomed to dealing with such women will succumb to a woman's words or smile, and become indecisive. How do I pursue a girl who is more sensible and emotional? > There are two types of women: those who are attracted to men who put them on a pedestal, and those who are attracted to men who put them down. Men who are not good at understanding women always glorify them, so they are not able to provide objective insights. On the contrary, if a man who is good at socializing with women, even when he says something unpleasant, he can still not blush and not gasp, and he is often surrounded by some good opportunities. < sometimes it may be to her pampering > men and women of the same character is of course the best, the world is often called a certain two people [a natural pair] these people in addition to knowing each other before a lot of * * * common place, when they live together * * * together, there are also many similar places. In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is also a very good combination. In the group of women who are bosses, in order to prove their own income, they often show their tough side to others, so if your partner is in this category, you may find a chance to be pampered in return. To [self-esteem] strong women, the easier it is to catch her heart This kind of girls, what they say and do are generally the same, the most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so you may want to play a little love slave, and these women get along with you as long as you keep in mind not to sing the opposite of this principle, then the pursuit of them will be unexpectedly easy, and will be the ideal object. <Show your tenderness > Do this kind of tender behavior, not too deliberate, you have to master the timing, with a very calm attitude to do. If you can show affectionate smile to the puppy, kitten, or to the small flowers and grasses show love and compassion, are very important, at this time she will certainly think that you are so affectionate to these small things, that the woman's feelings are more undoubtedly, but also she will certainly be sure that you are a very gentle man. That's half the battle. <Sea and sunset is the best combination to seduce women> Since ancient times women have longed for the water (yes, the best place to date is the sunset by the sea!!!). The best place to date is a sunset on the beach! In most of the love songs, there seems to be no background in the middle of the sun, and no one will not be immersed in sadness because of seeing the sunset on the beach. A relationship always has to be immersed in sadness first, and after feeling the loneliness of being alone, then you can realize the taste of emotions. If a woman recognizes this scenario, then she will also agree to the relationship. <Give her dreams while dating> Some people think that girls are easy to fool, but is it really true? The truth is that girls are willing to be cheated even when they are faced with the prince of their dreams. So when a well-groomed man appears in front of them, these girls will probably take their chances according to their own desires. The most important thing is to give her something to dream about. In the beginning, your attitude towards her and your commitment to her should not be changed, to put it plainly, give her a dream, and if you continue to let her keep her dream, then your relationship will be deeper. ＜Is she patient with you? ＞ If your girlfriend yawns softly on a date, it's not that she's tired, it's a sign that she's tired of you (be careful with this little bit, it's very pertinent, it's important to know if a woman is impatient with you), or if she slightly indicates that she wants to go home, or if she has a strong intention of going home, she may show that she doesn't look at you and doesn't want to go home. If she's even more intense, she'll probably act like she's looking around without looking at you, which means she probably doesn't have you in her mind anymore. When a woman is with her favorite man, she often doesn't think about her surroundings. It's not wrong to say that these women are self-centered, but if a woman looks at something else, you should be prepared to end the relationship at any time. Many women like to add the word "hate" to the phrase "men are a pain in the ass" when they say "men are a pain in the ass". However, there are two different meanings hidden in this usage. Generally, the word "nasty" is used when a man and a woman are close to each other, but if they are not close, they may give you a disdainful look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you, your intimacy will increase in comparison. In order to increase the intimacy between you, you have to show her your masculinity as soon as possible, but if a man makes a woman feel unclean, it is likely to discourage her. <Observe women by talking> What kind of person is she? If she's a person who can talk continuously, it's easy to wonder what's going on in her head. Human beings always want others to take a look at them, so both men and women make sure to organize their appearance properly, but appearance alone is not enough, so by talking to each other, you can let others know a little more about yourself. Women whose voices change rapidly show their inner excitement with their voices, and their soft and gentle tone of voice is also a type of pleasure. However, you have to pay special attention to women who speak in a hissing voice, as she may be extremely jealous, while women with a lower quality of voice may be more masculine. Women who often listen to Walkmans are more self-centered > Recently, you can often see women wearing Walkmans on buses. In fact, some of these women who use earphones to plug in their hearing are actually trying to escape loneliness by letting themselves escape to music and immersing themselves in the world of music. Some women are willing to take their headphones off for men, but this requires a great deal of vigilance, as it is one of the egocentric patterns. Women are often attracted to [first impressions] > there was a report that women are more attracted to (-beware of first impressions, many die from them!!!) Men with beards are rated more favorably than men without beards. Appearance, posture, and clothing are all important factors in determining first impressions, so it's not good if these first impressions aren't realized. Often the first impression of a man's appearance is y embedded in his heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to the attitude of clothing, then it will be more successful in the love field. How to chase a girl who has a boyfriend? Once a girl has a boyfriend and has made a commitment, she won't easily accept someone else's love. But if you like a girl with a boyfriend, what should you do? Don't be rash, go up to her and ask for her love, you will definitely be rejected. She doesn't know you well enough to give up her love for you. You should treat her well, care for her, show up as a friend of the opposite sex, and play with her. Over time, she'll think you're a good boy. Don't give her a chance to reject you, and don't ask her for anything. Let her know you have feelings for her, but don't say it. Then, when your relationship (or friendship for her) reaches a certain stage, find an opportunity (it could be when she just had a falling out with her boyfriend). Write a letter or talk to her in a subtle way. At this point, she may still say no, but if you realize she doesn't hate you, go for it. She'll make comparisons and choose you over her old boyfriend. The whole process is so, but before this, you must put yourself and her boyfriend for a comparison, if you think you are not as good as the above method will be ineffective Chasing girls means a small full (1) chasing the silent and arrogant type of girls What seems to be quite tricky. In fact, this kind of girl appearance cold, inner often wild, they generally like a little more wild boys. If you are the kind of well-mannered boy, looks and not good, the possibility is relatively small, or another good person's good. If other people's evaluation of you is "so cool oh!" then you're in for a big treat! If you don't get rejected the first time you ask, don't miss your chance! They may start to treat you with disdain. Don't get discouraged. Be persistent and even persistent. Ask to see a movie, ask to dance, ask to skate, go to the study room she frequents, are all good strategies. Be sure to look for more opportunities to express yourself, more and more (of course Iloveyou is still saved for the end, lol) ...... For this type of girl, your true feelings outwardly is very attractive. This kind of girl generally chase the time need to be longer. If you are graduating or leaving school soon now, it seems better not to start. So as not to waste ...... Oh. But after chasing her, she'll generally be dead set on it and you'll be floating around thinking you're the happiest BF in the world! Haha. (2) chase romantic fantasy type of girls If you really like such a girl, I first remind you - you have to taste all the sweet and sour! This kind of girl seems to pursue the spirit more than the material, in fact, the opposite is true. Romance requires money to create. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider carefully. As she is very fond of wind and flowers, flowers and chocolates, you send more gifts to tug at her heartstrings the most. To chase this kind of girl into your hands, don't be stingy with your small money. The sky except the moon, the ground except ...... (What? I can't think of it) as long as she wants, you should not hesitate to try to get it. The usual roses, snacks, is more subtle to see the spirit ...... In short, if you want to chase this kind of girl, usually must cultivate more to read the girl's mind ability. The girl around the roommate classmates, do not forget to bribe more. They will tell you a lot of useful information. And your own dress must be more thought, do not all day rustic. (After chasing the girl, you can rest assured that the original face of the show, because in her eyes you have not earth. (Haha) find her to play it should also be more to the romantic place to go, such as spring tour, dance, see love story movie ...... She slowly will not be able to leave your care and attention, haha! This kind of girl although it is very costly yourmoney, but also will bring you a lot of beautiful fun, as long as you really like, you can still live a happy and fulfilling life. (3) Chase the gentle and considerate type of girl This kind of girl is the paying type. Once she becomes your GF, she will be considerate and caring to you, gentle and kind, making you feel the warmth and reliability of love. Can chase this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be better to chase (and suitable for all types of boys), as long as she does not hate you, and you are worthy of her. Now let's discuss the means. First of all, in life and study you have to care for her more care. It doesn't need to be material, but it needs to be a kind of care from the heart, appearing in front of her when she is in need of someone's help. (A word of warning: usually must be more observant, in order to find a good opportunity to start.) Of course if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send a gift of flowers for the holidays. At first, you can send some of the friendly nature of the stuff, wait until you feel you can express the time (for example, she looks at you and look at other people's eyes began to look different or in front of you look a little overwhelmed when), you can send roses! If you do not intend to spread so much, you can study on weekdays after the small talk in the flow of some, and when the time is ripe, suddenly came to a "and you feel so good together," and so on, she is not to avoid, you can take advantage of the iron, said that you have long been wanting to say the words. The best time to choose in the evening: the night people's ability to prevent is weak. If she began to avoid, do not force, you can then silently care, until she moved until. BTW: If usually you and her contact opportunities are not much, in her do not know you have been aiming at her, you can through you and her **** with friends, pretending to accidentally know, and then through the same study room and then a few times, "chance encounters" to deepen the impression, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl honestly, after chasing to be very safe. In fact, it depends on the individual, some don't let her super time away from you, really not, then to diligently write a letter, call. (4) chase lively cute type girls this girl seems to like a lot of people. And in the new environment is often the first BoyFriend. It's not that they are easy to chase, but they are often in the active position. Like this kind of girl, if she also like you, then it is very easy, more and more contact with her, and then occasionally also express a good feeling for her, she and you synchronized to the goal closer. If she does not like you (or worse, she even like another person), do not be discouraged. As long as you still have a chance, you have to go for it (of course, if you are just average to her, you don't have to). You can start with her as a friendship and try to cultivate the same hobbies as she has ****. And in the meantime, your humor, open-mindedness is very important, so that she is still thinking about you on the way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she is more active with you than with him. At that point, you can take the obvious tactic of making her your GirlFriend, and if she and he like each other, you can take one last shot if you think she's worthy of the crime of taking someone else's love away from you, before they've even talked to each other. At this point, opportunity is important. You have to observe carefully, in their conflict, there is a misunderstanding of the time, take advantage of the weakness (like not too ...... Haha), to a shortcut first, the victory will likely belong to you in the end! (General girls chased into the hands of the less likely to have other ideas, haha) this kind of girls have BF may also have uninformed people like, you have to timely notice "please! She already belongs to me!" The result should be more optimistic. First, should give mm what kind of first impression (time: just started contact mm) 1, I think the most critical, is to let mm see your progressive. The greatest charm of men is successful career, young people do not work long enough to talk about "successful", this time you have to let mm think you are a person with a sense of progress. Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell mm, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream. 2, to appear to have confidence and responsibility Don't be like a child, girls are lazy hope to find a dependence, you have to come up with your own confidence and responsibility. There is a wrong choice is always better than no choice. 3, do not be too serious, but not too casual The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting. Girls like a little cynical men, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull. 4, look mature a little calm, calm and unhurried men have fatal attraction to mm. Second, how to start further contact with mm (time: the beginning of the chase stage) 1, this stage is the most critical can not be in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing people. Think about it, the average person will not glance at you, but also will not look at you hate you, are the children of the people's home (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), good sense is needed with the understanding of the increasing realization, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to develop further. Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you so directly rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact for a while after the discovery does not like you, then it is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition out, basically will be immediately smothered back. 2, to start low profile First of all, the relationship should be positioned as "friends", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become "good friends", taste can also ask each other to become a "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant". "confidant" or something, in short, never say "chase you". Think about it, if you do not mention "chase", then the girl will not have the opportunity to "reject" you - you did not chase her how to reject you? This can reduce the girl's psychological pressure, so that you can go on smoothly. Do not fantasize about recognizing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not generated out of thin air. 3, do not be too impatient in the process of dating To have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is like this to you, you will also be tired. I have a good friend said to me, the key to chasing girls is the eight words - "cold and hot, want to catch," (which is the crystallization of my classmates how many years of hard work). You pester people all day long naturally do not think you good, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember you in the benefits. There is not to come up with "not you do not marry" the ambition to, too bad, sometimes you can play some tricks. 4, to create the appropriate opportunity As I said before, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing others", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, this time it depends on your creativity. You can gather information and find a way to turn a wait for a rabbit into an encounter; you can also pretend to be careless and find the most sufficient reason to invite the other party to do something with you. In short, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice. 5, cut taboo cut taboo: randomly send people gifts is not polite Some people chase girls eager, like to often buy things to send people, do not know chase girls most taboo this. As the saying goes, "no merit, no reward", you send people things is in the pressure, people will feel indebted to you, so you will find a way to return to you, if there is no way to return to you will find a way not to interact with you, so as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show their sincerity, may as well ask the girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or find expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately two people spent together rather than into something to take home. Third, "girlfriend" in the end what? 1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise You and the girls began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" into "good friends", then to "very very good, talk about everything friends", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "moonlight", you suddenly attacked kissed her. At this point she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits it or not, she mentally already think you are his boyfriend. I know the most brilliant, until the bed have not asked "are you willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl was anxious: "Why do not you beg me to do your girlfriend ah!" So, do not be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is the more favorable to you. 2, "confession" is what? As I said earlier, confession is actually a form, the correct order should be: in fact, has become your girlfriend, you can confess to others, the water into the canal. Many people do not understand this problem, always think that people first agreed to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say that he is very very "simple", but also very very "stupid. 3、Is there a time when you have no choice but to express your feelings? Yes, for example, there is a third party, or you and the girl relationship is not mature but the two people may be separated for a period of time. This time the confession is immature conditions of the confession, the risk is very great, similar to playing Go when the situation is critical, the party behind forced to put out the "winning hand", won the win, lost can only say "bad luck are born". 4, "love" word do not easily export Often see forums appear "bold confession", honestly I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, means the pursuit, also means commitment, and even embodies a responsibility. Casually say "love" man is irresponsible. Fourth, civilized love, can not be forced 1, not every mm can be chased to the hand of a good girl there will always be a lot of people chasing, it is not possible to try to everyone's wish, there will always be losers. As an example, even if you study hard to master the most super to chase mm principle, you can't chase twins in any one. Consider the problem from another angle, an elementary school did not graduate in rural areas, even if you are good, every month to earn 600 to buy you 700 gifts (overdraft), willing to for you to "do horse", you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and wails every day, you must feel annoyed. So love is the need for material basis, at least need to be balanced. 2, chasing mm do is a serious social activity Never get people annoyed, to give yourself a way back. A great man has no wife? Some mm really snob (a few), if not convinced, you can be angry, with the facts to prove that "she was blind", absolutely do not mislead people wrong themselves. Lastly, I'd like to add that you should never look cynical in front of a mm, because cynicism sometimes means "you're a failure.