I am busy cooking. Daughters shouted one after another, showing me all kinds of strange things she made. She turned the foam into gloves, knee pads and candy, and ran over to ask me if I wanted it.
"Mom, do you need gloves?"
"No, thanks!"
"Do you need knee pads?"
"Don't need it! Nothing is needed! " I said impatiently.
"Then pretend you need it, okay?" My daughter looks at me.
"I don't want to pretend, I'm cooking, you go and play." I washed the dishes in my hand while giving my daughter an eviction order.
The daughter wanted to think, but she was unwilling. She asked me again, "Mom, do you need love?"
This sentence from my daughter shocked me. Looking at my daughter, I put down my work and said to her, "I need it. Thank you "and kissed her on the forehead.
My daughter ran away happily and went to play by herself.
Sometimes, what children need is my attention. I always use "busy" as an excuse to interrupt or refuse impatiently.
02
My daughter always stops at the door and lets me swipe in and out. Where there is a door, she blocks it. My card is my kiss. Whenever my daughter stops me, I will gently kiss her forehead, and my daughter is very happy. This game is very enjoyable.
03
In the spring of March, I took my daughter out for an outing. Walking slowly along the lake, looking at the budding willows, rippling lakes, unknown flowers and bones, and chirping red-billed gulls, I feel very comfortable.
My daughter walks and plays. A stone and a small stick can also make her create games and have fun.
This feeling is really good.
04
Before going to bed, talk to your daughter about your future "brother" or "sister".
The daughter said that she was a little scared at the thought of having a "brother" or "sister" in the future. Afraid of being with them, mom and dad don't love you. He also said that if I had a younger brother or sister, my mother would age faster, so I didn't want it.
At an early age, I thought a lot.
I asked, if I have a younger brother, what should he learn?
Say, learn martial arts.
I said, well, I can protect you.
And you said, my brother is a martial arts student, and he won't be at a loss in special circumstances.
I have to say, your realm is higher than mom's.