There is a saying called sincerity for sincerity, we have all heard, we all know, but can not do it is not certain.
For the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, I am y experienced, and not careful, can not be sincere and sincere, but the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law simply in the sincere pay is not a level, I do not know if you can understand this way of getting along.
Previously, the mother-in-law can suffer, especially after having a child married it, do housework without any princess disease, and now it, daughter-in-law married most of the housework is done by the husband, so it is, the husband and wife relationship contradictions have a lot.
Nowadays, women's requirement for themselves is to be thinner, more independent, and make their husbands obedient.
I have encountered this kind of thing, one night when I came home, my husband was playing with his cell phone inside the house, and my mother-in-law didn't cook for me, the key is that my mother-in-law came over to me and said, "Don't you want to lose weight? I don't want to eat at night. Some times it's just inexplicable, well, when you want to eat, people will think you lose weight, then when you want to lose weight, there will be a lot of delicious food waiting for you.
Is it mostly the daughter-in-law who picks on the mother-in-law?
There is a saying that all are from daughter-in-law to become a grandmother, I really rarely heard of mother-in-law said daughter-in-law is not good, but we can often in the mouth of the daughter-in-law said mother-in-law is not good, this we can understand it.
More often than not it's just a big paranoia when it comes to eating and also educating children.
When you gave birth to a child, when you gave birth to a child, handed over to the mother-in-law to bring, you say again, did not educate the child, did not develop good habits, but they do not have time to educate your management of the child, so can you say that the mother-in-law is not sincere? Or that you yourself are not genuine.
Of course, there is a generation gap problem that can't be solved.
When it comes to being genuine, I'd like to say a few words about what I think.
Young people make this too simple, when my mother-in-law can eat and drink can help you take care of the children, to put it bluntly, is to help their own families, when mom and dad age, only to see the son filial piety is not filial piety, I think that this is a key, young people nowadays just love to talk empty words, do not do practical things.
Whether the daughter-in-law sincerely treat or not, but the mother-in-law will certainly sincerely treat the daughter-in-law, this is a constant, because the mother prefers that the son can live a better life, even if he suffers a little bit, this is when the mother will have a feeling.
For the daughter-in-law, may be important is the husband, not but for the mother-in-law, there are two important people is the son and daughter-in-law, more a responsibility, more a love, only daughter-in-law boiled into a mother-in-law can feel.
If you are now also in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along with the problem, I think you can not let you change, you can not let your mother-in-law to change, that only change your husband, if the three do not have a person to change, such family relations will not be maintained for a very long time, a family among a family, a family among a family, if no one is willing to go to the change, then there will be a big problem.