It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to love someone you love. ?
There are always endless advantages and losses in the world. Good things can't always be shared by you, and you can't always be unlucky. So, relax, look down, read it, put it down, stop thinking and comparing, and you will be relieved. If you have time to regret and compare, you might as well do something else and you will get more. Mood also has a cost, and it is the real loss to affect the present mood for some irreparable things. ?
4. I'm sorry for betraying how many sentences I love you.
I have learned to let you go and set you free, but I still think of you occasionally when listening to a song in the middle of the night. I learned to laugh at everyone, talk to people, and talk nonsense with ghosts, but I still can't pretend to be in front of the closest and best people. I learned to hide many secrets. I'm not the one who told you everything from the beginning. We have all changed a lot. ?
6. If you are unhappy, if you are unhappy, let go; If you can't let go, it will be painful.
7. There are joys and sorrows in life, there are joys and sorrows, and there are gains and losses. Having an optimistic and cheerful heart will make ordinary and bleak life interesting and colorful. The inexplicable sadness and emptiness I once had are like a passer-by in my life. ?
8. If you have loved, don't say regret easily. You won't know the pain of love until you have been hurt. People don't have smooth sailing, you have to go through a trough to see the light.
9. Xue Xiaochan: Maybe all first loves are the same. It's just a prelude to love later, and only later do you realize that it's so difficult to fall in love with someone again, and you feel that you can't love anymore. I can't love anymore, and it's hard to find the next person, and it's based on the first person. ?
10, I am a ghost in the street and you are the one who smells me, but you can't see through me. ? 1 1, calmly recall your past and cry. ?
12, a man from bad karma said to the monk, "There are some things I can't let go of some people." The monk said, "There is nothing you can't let go." The bitter man said, "But I just can't let go." The monk asked him to hold the teacup, and then poured hot water into it until the water overflowed. The sentence of breaking up shared a practical rescue skill. Many methods have been tried to no avail. In desperation, my friend introduced me to an emotional mentor. See details > The bitter man was scalded and immediately let go of his hand. The monk said, "There is nothing in this world that can't be put down. If it hurts, it will naturally be put down. " ?
13, there is a desire not to be obsessed with desire, and there is a demand not to be obsessed with desire. The more peaceful a person lives, the more he will let go. After peace, people's specific performance in the external state of life is firm, calm, calm, six clean, and everything is undisturbed. ?
14, take love seriously, not hypocritical, not frivolous, not joking, not loving because of loneliness, not loving because of greed. Love should not only be brave in giving, but also be handled carefully. ?
15, a person's life is like walking in a fog. From a distance, they are just in a fog, unable to tell the direction from good to bad. However, when you summon up courage, put down your fears and doubts and move forward step by step, you will find that with each step, you can see the next step clearly. ?
16, happiness is far away, but I can't take away memories. It's getting sweet, but not the temperature of the mop. Tears swirled in her eyes; Lifelong vows have long since vanished. ?
17, I shed a tear for you. The story will always have an ending, but what I really pay is not the happiness you want. ?
18, Kafka's Metamorphosis: It takes great patience to live a good life. One doesn't complain and the other doesn't explain. You are definitely a talent. ?
19, one day, friendship and love met. Love asks friendship: I exist in the world, why do you still exist? Friendship said with a smile: love can make people cry, and the existence of friendship is to help people dry their tears! ?
20. When you can understand one thing, it means that you have grown up; When you can see one thing clearly, it means that you are enlightened; When you can see through one thing, it shows that you are rational; When you can see through one thing, it means that you are mature; When you can see through one thing, it means you are finished; When you can look down on something, it means that you have put it down. ?
2 1, the withering and barren of a flower can't be the whole spring, and a setback can't be a lifetime.
22. Even the best things will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. People who love again will leave one day. No matter how beautiful the dream is, it will wake up one day. Never keep what you should. Never let go of what you should cherish, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you hurt each other! You can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply.
23. Giving up is actually a choice. Walking at the crossroads of life, you should learn to give up the road that is not suitable for you; In the face of failure, you should learn to give up cowardice; In the face of success, you must learn to give up pride; In the face of the old, weak, sick and disabled, you should learn to give up indifference and help ... Only by giving up the heavy burden in a difficult situation can you have the belief of winning. Giving up what we must give up, giving up what we should give up, is even more important than having it. ?
24, a lifetime commitment can not be easily said, you can not afford to give me the future.
25. The whole mystery of life lies in giving up survival in order to survive.
26. Just like silkworms, whenever we think of those painful past events, we will spit out some silk that grows in our hearts and form a thick cocoon to wrap the past events inside. If you don't have the courage to tear open these cocoons, those cruel memories will stay in your heart forever, ready to move. ?
27. The end of life is not when the scenery is exhausted, nor after the end of life, but at the moment when the burden is put down. When you really let go, even if you have been wandering all your life, you can be as light as a breeze and feel at ease and peace. ?
28. Most of the time, what we need to do more is to shut up our mouth that we are willing to argue, let go of our so-called noble self-esteem, admit our mistakes, and make up our minds to correct them. This does not mean giving up, but gaining a kind of growth. ?
29. Life is a choice and a kind of giving up. Sometimes we give up and are forced to turn around in tears. When we are far away, we often turn back. Therefore, some past events, about happiness or pain, can only be buried deep in my heart; Some hopes, about the present or the future, can only be slowly forgotten. ?
30. The moment you put it down, you will find that you really have it! ?
3 1, the difference between giving up and letting go: giving up is to sacrifice what originally belonged to you, and letting go is to let go of what originally did not belong to you. ?
32. Some people, you think you can meet again; Some things, you think you can go on forever. However, maybe at the moment you turn around, some people will never see you again. When the sun goes down and rises again, everything changes, and if you are not careful, you can never go back. ?
33. People feel sad when they see their boyfriends who just broke up with other women, but men don't. It can be seen that men are more ruthless than women.
34. Letting go is a difficult problem. Indeed, there are too many things and ideas in the world that we can't control. It's hard to let go, so we need to practice. It is hard to let go, but it is not impossible. At least we can let go of the most "evil" places, such as hatred, sadness, suspicion, jealousy and pain ... Only in this way can we have room to carry "good" things, such as happiness, tranquility, happiness and compassion. -Jia Cuo?
35. Tears are the smell that I miss you, and my heart can't be redeemed. If memory is the only answer, I will never forget that I was beautiful.
36. After crying, leave everything in yesterday and never touch it. ?
37. What do you mean by really letting go? That is, one day, when you face your past embarrassment again and you hate angry people, your quiet heart will stop thinking, face it calmly and laugh it off. Even when others repeat your past misfortunes in front of you, you seem to be listening to other people's stories without a ripple in your heart. Put it down, that's all. ?
38. It's very painful now. When you look back later, you will find that it is nothing. You can forget the past, but you must let go. ?
39. There are always endless advantages and losses in the world. Good things can't always be shared by you, and you can't always be unlucky. So, relax, look down, read it, put it down, stop thinking and comparing, and you will be relieved. If you have time to regret and compare, you might as well do something else and you will get more. Mood also has a cost, and it is the real loss to affect the present mood for some irreparable things. Put down the sentence?
40. In the stormy waves of life, we often learn from the captain and throw away the heavy cargo under the storm to reduce the weight of the ship.
4 1, life is everywhere, and people will never give up life. ?
42. Time flies, even the best time will condense into history; No matter how far you wait, as long as you persist, it will always come.
43. There are three ways to be happy: giving up, letting go and forgetting. Happiness has four elements: what can be changed to change, what can't be changed to improve, what can't be improved to bear, and what can't be borne to let go. ? 44. There is no real despair in life. Trees shed their leaves in autumn, and their hearts hurt. However, throughout the winter, it allows the heart to accumulate strength in peace. Spring has come, and youth is still there. As long as life is in your palm, there is no despair in life. People have joys and sorrows, and the moon has ups and downs. A moment's success or failure is just a lifetime's little cold. Let the heart rest when it is tired, and the repair of the soul is the hope that life will never be exhausted. ?
45, a person's life is like walking in the fog; From a distance, it's just a blur, and you can't tell the direction and good or bad luck. However, when you summon up courage, put down your fears and doubts and move forward step by step, you will find that with each step, you can see the next step clearly. "Go, don't stand in the distance!" You can find your direction. ?
46. I don't need any reason or excuse to break up with you, but I have no feelings for you. ?
47. "Lamben Wedding Clothes" Viola Year 7: My feelings are like a glass of wine. The first person spilled it, and there was half left. I lifted the cup, filled it and left it to the second person. He spilled it again. I'd better pick it up, fill it up and give it to a third person. Feelings are getting weaker and weaker, but each of them gets all, all, a glass of wine from me. ? 48. Only by giving up can we have a better future. ?
49, stay in the green hills, not afraid of no firewood. ?
50. The love that doesn't belong to you is lost, which proves that it is a step closer to the love that belongs to you.
5 1, Annie Baby's T.A.: I think some things can be forgotten, some things can be remembered, some things can be willingly, and some things are powerless. I love you, and this is my disaster. ?
52. Learning to let go and let go is a kind of wisdom in life; Letting go is a spiritual knowledge. In this world, some things don't need to be cared about, and some things must be emptied. Let go when it's time to let go, so that you can free your hands and grasp the happiness and happiness that really belongs to you. ?
Any form of ambition, whether spiritual or material, will lead to anxiety and fear. Once you have fear, you lose wisdom. ? This kind of happiness is a bit hurtful. ?
55. Traveling alone, taking a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange songs. In a casual moment, you will find that you have really forgotten the things you tried so hard to forget. ?
You can not climb mountains all your life, but you must have a mountain in your heart. It keeps you climbing high, it keeps you in a direction of struggle, and it allows you to look up at any moment and see your hope.
57. What do you mean by really letting go? That is, one day, when you face your past embarrassment and people you hate, you will stop thinking when you are quiet, face it calmly and laugh it off. Even when others repeat your past misfortunes in front of you, you seem to be listening to other people's stories, and there is no wave in your heart. Put it down, that's all. ?
58. Accompany you through this road, and you will become the road I have walked. ?
59. No dispute means compassion, no argument means wisdom, no smell means purity, no thought means freedom, no greed means charity, breaking evil means doing good, turning over means repentance, humility means worshipping Buddha, observing rituals means keeping precepts, forgiving means liberation, contentment means letting go, and benefiting others means self-interest. ?
When you leave, you will never understand how I got through the most difficult days. I will never understand how I put out the hottest feelings; I will never understand how I buried the most bitter wound; I will never understand how I can fill the most empty loneliness with blood and tears. Someone has to go first, and I can't help it. I beg you to understand. ?