The recent popularity of a chickenshit TV series, "Little Shedding", in which several children are forced to be abnormal, is mainly due to the fact that they want too much, too high.
Some people set low goals for themselves and can achieve them without much effort, and enjoy them every day. Over time, they have little will to fight, and the mahjong parlor and the chess room have left them behind, with one word: "comfort"! Their lives can be said to be still moist, but no pursuit, not to struggle will not have a wonderful life.
How do we set goals for ourselves?
The Chinese ****production party can be said to be a shining example of goal-setting, and can be said without modesty, there is no other political party in the world can do so perfect. Let's learn how the ****productivity party sets its own goals.
At the beginning of the founding of the Chinese ****productivist party, the C**** set itself a supreme goal at the time of the First Congress of the C****, which was to realize ****productivism.
At the Second Congress of the C***, the ****productivist Party recognized the importance of setting goals, and the Congress formulated the Party's Minimum and Maximum Programs. The Party's Minimum Programs were: to overthrow the warlords and establish domestic peace; to overthrow the oppression of international imperialism, to achieve the complete independence of the Chinese nation; and to unify China into a truly democratic ****and state. The Party's highest program: to gradually reach a ****productivist society.
During the period of socialist construction, we formulated the basic program for the primary stage. Now we have to set up the ideal of socialism with Chinese characteristics **** the same ideals, and at the same time, we have to firmly **** the lofty ideals of ****analism.
Long-winded, I do not know if you read it? Anyway, in a word, it is a phrase often said by people in the talent show, I have a dream. People have to have ideals, no ideals and salted fish have what difference? At the same time, people have to face reality, the perfect state is to realize the unity of ideal and reality.
This seems to be still a little cloudy, right? Then I will learn a certain network celebrity's set (said set a little not quite right haha, because he did not set everyone, set was originally a neutral word, only now it is being played bad), he likes to say Zhang San, I'll say Xiaoming it.
Xiaoming is now a high school student, how to set goals? First of all, what kind of person to be, this is his highest program, China has advocated since ancient times to read the book of sages, to be a saint. There are just some thinkers who believe that not everyone can be a saint.
This has been debated for a long time. I agree with Wang Yangming's view that everyone can be a saint, and everyone should aim for that. What Wang Yangming said is that everyone can be a saint, and that the reason why people do evil is not because they have lost their conscience, not because they do not have good roots, but because their nature has been obscured by the vices they have developed and inculcated later in life.
Our hearts are bright, so why do some of us sometimes have some dirty thoughts and do some villainous behavior? It is because our hearts are covered with dust, so we have to wipe them often to keep our hearts bright. Wang Yangming said, "My heart is bright, and what else can I say.
Therefore, each of us should keep our conscience and make being a saint our highest agenda. At the same time, we also have milestones.
Xiaoming is now a high school student, and surely the main goal is to go to college. Then, does Xiao Ming have no goals other than going to college? For example, he has hobbies, he wants to learn to talk about the piano, he wants to learn to swim, his soccer wants to play a little better and so on. Sure, but that's what we'll talk about next time when we talk about dealing with primary and secondary conflicts.
There are three years in high school, and each year has different goals. Specifically, the goal of the first year of high school is to learn and get through the textbook basics; the second year of high school may be to learn fine, learn real, learn through; the third year of high school may be to check the gaps, to brush up on some of the questions, to improve the results of the real world, and to stabilize the mental quality in the real world.
Regardless of out of that stage, we set the goal should be higher than our current level, to make yourself jump up to reach the peach, never drop the peach in the mouth, stretch your mouth to eat.
There's an old Chinese saying that "if you take the law from above, you'll only get the center, and if you take the law from the center, you'll get the bottom." (from Tang Taizong's "Emperor Fan"), so you can raise your level.
More importantly, we need to learn that the Chinese ****productivity party unifies the highest and lowest programs. We must be firm in our ideals and beliefs and not waver, not forgetting the original intention and remembering the mission.
No matter when and where, we have to cultivate ourselves, to conscience, often wipe the dust on our hearts, do not let the dust cloud our bright heart.
At the same time, we then pursue our milestones. As Hu Shi said, we have to solve one problem at a time, but we should never forget our doctrine. By unifying ideals and reality, life will be more meaningful and the hierarchical realm of man will be distinctive.