I have a graduate school classmate who is older than us. A few days ago, excitedly said in the group, 41 years old, she has been honorably retired, she is going to start to go city by city to "harass" classmates, please female classmates to control their own husbands (the female classmates love to joke). She is in the state-owned enterprises are not good, the female forty can handle the internal retirement, after the internal retirement salary is higher than in the job. The group is a "drooling" bucket, no not envious.
First of all, the subject is also envious of the good life, you are 49 years old back home, more than 60 years old relatives are still moving bricks in the construction site. Some people are working hard to earn three meals a day, some people have complained of "boring". This is society in all its forms. We still don't know if we will retire at the age of 60 on a point-by-point basis, or if it will be delayed. The first time I've seen this, I've seen it in my life.
In the envy of you, to provide a few suggestions:
First, quit the unit of people, there are generally three attitudes in the world, outsiders are not qualified to say three or four.One is to renew the second spring, to create a second chance at life, either entrepreneurship, or creative, looking forward to the outbreak of a small universe.
The second is to enjoy the happiness of the family, comfortable is a life. 49 years old, said big, said small, of course, can be at home dancing, caramelized grandchildren. It depends on what kind of mindset you have.
Third, half-entertainment half-full. Some middle-aged and elderly people are not willing to exit the stage of history, ah, while taking care of children, while dancing, but the ability to do some things, for example, do public welfare, for example, learn an art, for example, do business, for example, do self-media, for example, to find a part-time job, etc.
The second suggestion is to do more to help the elderly, but also to help the elderly to find their own way of life.
Secondly, it is recommended that more people choose a half-entertainment, half-enrichment attitude to life.49 years old, now still belongs to the "prime years", if the body health, in fact, is the golden period of the officer entrepreneurship. But since you've already retired, with retirement protection, it's better to choose a half-entertainment, half-enrichment state.
If you choose to start a business, unless you are consulting, art, culture, experts, entrepreneurship does not need to invest in capital, the risk is controllable, in fact, entrepreneurial projects, if you need to invest in too much of this risk is not controllable, do not go to sea easily. The current risk of entrepreneurship, almost like a mountain row.
Totally Entertainment , square dancing every day, playing a little mahjong every day, it is estimated that you can not be idle, the people are also idle panic. There are several recommended ways to recognize people who have done this:
One is to use the career advantage to find a part-time job. My old colleague, who knows a lot about taxes, works as a financial advisor for several small businesses, actually helping them to avoid taxes in a reasonable way, and his income is much higher than when he was employed. The time is free, does not delay him to take care of the family, does not delay him to fishing.
Secondly, if the family is rich, unite a few like-minded people, to carry out some public welfare activities, for example, to the elderly home, talk with the elderly, do not spend the cost, but can contribute to love, but also to enrich themselves, so that life has meaning.
Third, if the family economic pressure, you can find a job, really can not find a good job, in fact, janitorial, treasury, cashier, cleaning, sanitation, etc., can be. Do not feel ashamed, as long as self-reliance, is honorable. Because these occupations, which are slightly more physically demanding, are considered exercise. Many middle-class people over the age of 50 are not spending money to run marathons all over the world, right? You're just exercising.
Fourth, not bad money, enough, and no grandchildren, then learn an artistic hobby, photography, photography, painting, pulling the erhu, social dance, and so on. You look at some of the parks in Beijing, those who wear colorful middle-aged and old people, every day the activities of a good happy.
Third, if I can retire, I want to choose a favorite lifestyle.
If I could retire at the age of forty, how nice it would be. I'd like to choose my favorite way of life. If you leave this chair, you're just an ordinary person on the street.
My dream is to be a travel writer, not the kind of luxury travel ah, we do not have so much money, after all, did not realize the freedom of wealth.
Every year, we choose the best season in the city to go to live for a month or two, and rent the kind of residential a few hundred dollars. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. The first thing you need to do is to go to bed and wake up naturally, then go for a walk in the mountains, by the river, or in a small town, and then write.
There are two kinds of writing, one is to earn money for the purpose of self-media, and the other is not to earn money literature. Every day to earn a little money, travel expenses and food expenses enough, on the line. The first one is to write a book, and the second one is to write a book, and the third one is to write a book, and the third one is to write a book.
Although 49 years old is still the time of the year, but in the unit basically to the side of the time, can further development of the space is very small, so if you can retire, it is definitely a good thing.
So how to deal with this sudden arrival of a lot of time? I think we can consider the following aspects:
First, the economic problem. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, this is not true at all. If the home economy is still available, you can do something you like, develop some hobbies and so on. You can also take advantage of the young travel Tourism, open up the world. If the family economic situation is not very good, you can try to do a little business, or according to their own specialties should be recruited to a certain unit to play a role, so that more than a salary, the family economy can be relieved.
Second, the health problem. If you are very healthy, then you don't have to think about this problem. If the body is not very good, then you have to pay attention to this problem first. First of all, the body thoroughly check once, and then listen to the expert doctor's advice, and then according to the doctor's advice to develop a fitness program, to do the right amount of scientific movement to the body to regulate the body first, only the body is good, the quality of your night shift life can be guaranteed.
Third, the problem of mindset. Whether early or late have to retire, not that early retirement you are old and useless. On the contrary, early retirement is a good thing, can let you early planning for old age, easier to realize the excess between middle and old age.
Honestly, while I was answering the question, I envied the questioner for being able to retire so early, having both money and leisure, and being able to have a lot of time for myself to spend, and a lot of energy to do the things I want to do, so I'm really blessed!
70 years I have been retired for more than four years
Before in the enterprise has night shift, the salary is not high, feel too hard, to the national provisions of the age of retired, immediately for the retired
Retired after the home idle almost two years, every day to take care of household chores, cooking, eating fruit snacks, watch the show, did not feel bored, because I am a person who does not want to go out
The first time I saw this is the first time in the world, and the first time in the world, the first time in the world, the first time in the world, the first time in the world.
Then my brother opened a company, let me go to his company to help labor, has been to do now
The company is not big, a lot of tedious things, may be older, I do quite smooth, and my time is free, my brother said to me something can be at any time to go out, although sometimes a little bit of exhaustion, but not before in the enterprise time of the annoying interpersonal relations, feel quite good
In addition, I have a lot of time to do the work, I have to go out, I have to go out, I have to go out, I have to go out, I have to go out, I have to go out, I have to go out.
In fact, I feel that women are still very young in their forties, and it's not realistic to go out every day to travel, it's not a question of lack of money, find something to do, but also slow down the brain retardation is not it
Our company is on the first floor, the second floor no one to go to, I put on the gas cooker and hood, and then put the home juicer, toaster, and hula hoops have moved over, the break time between classes, cook some
In short, people can not let themselves be too tired, more can not let themselves be tired, after all, work half a lifetime, afraid of boredom to find something to do, do not want to do the idea of going to play, anyway, I like to combine the days
I was 45 years old retired, retired from idleness after the feeling is not good, and then re-employment.
I retired with a salary of less than three thousand dollars, and I felt the pressure of life is quite big. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it. I still want to learn something on through more than two years of study. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this. Now do engineering budget work. I am now studying to prepare for the construction division. Learning regardless of age. The opportunity is to prepare for the people who work hard.
I suggest you learn something you like and then find a job you like. Save more money in retirement and give less trouble to your children when you are old.
49 years old retired home feel so boring, what to do? As a person who has been there, I know it very well.
I was born in 68 and officially retired at the end of last year. But before that, at the end of 2012, because of some family reasons and hastily resigned, retired to the family has been more than 6 years. In the first 2 years just home, because of some family matters, busy all day also do not feel any discomfort. Until nearly two years back home, all things are roughly done, glad to have time to enjoy enjoy the free life only to find that actually a little overwhelmed. Once the work has left me far away, my husband and children are out there with their own things to do, and because of the new home and can not find familiar neighbors. I had nothing to do all day long and I was really bored. Until now, I've never felt bad about quitting my job so easily. And the sense of nostalgia is also surprisingly inflated, moving to find old colleagues and friends to catch up. Sometimes I even go a long way to find my old neighbors. But this kind of thing can only do occasionally, people have their own work and life. So it was up to me to help myself. I decided to get myself moving, find something to do, so that life is full. But what exactly to do, I have no idea in my heart. To be honest, after working an eight-to-five shift for more than 20 years, I used to pray for an early return to my family, but now that I have returned to my family, I don't want to be shackled too much. My idea is to find a job with relatively free time, which can take care of my family and not hinder my contact with the outside world. And I also set a small principle for myself, that is, can not always be busy outside during the year, there must be a degree, when appropriate to give yourself a vacation. People live a life, should give themselves the free space should not be less. Therefore, in this situation to find a job would prefer to entrust the body, but also not entrust their own heart. Since you are already retired, if you put the dream that you could not realize when you were young to pursue at this time, and even want to do the amazing second spring, I think that is too high expectations. Nowadays, there are quite a lot of temporary jobs suitable for retirees, as long as they are willing to look for them, they can work for a year and a half. Neither out of touch with society, but also contact with more people, perhaps your future confidant and friend is not far away waiting for you. In the past 4 years, following this principle, I have been looking for some jobs, although with my study is not related to the wind horse and cattle, but I think it does not bring pressure on themselves on the line, and also made a lot of new friends, so that I no longer live every day in the empty fear. And in the spare time of part-time jobs also have time to travel tourism, and strive to have the time and energy to run more famous mountains, not in vain this life.
You are returning home, I dare to guess the work you are engaged in perhaps in your unit is not so urgent. I just don't know how much demand there is in society. If it is indeed not so too marketable, you do not have to hold on to it. Try a different line of work, do not try how to know the depth. At this age, what to do is not important, by the heart is comfortable. Moreover, since we have retired home, we have to understand a reason, that is, the age of physical strength decided to work and can not be your future retirement life long support, a person wants to live a full life, but also to cultivate certain hobbies, calligraphy, dancing, flowers, fishing, raising pets even if it is the free time to play a small game of cards, but also better than you sit at home boredom of sitting at home empty to the four walls. Over the past six years, every afternoon walks with the family dog has become part of my life. And I really learned to fish in these two years, although the craft is not good, but as long as there is an opportunity to be sure to refuse to let go of, this pond life to a certain extent under the enrichment of my retirement life, it is really what not to do. In addition, bear in mind that despite the retirement, can not be absolutely free to fly self, must develop regular habits, in daily life to have self-discipline, which is essential to ensure our physical health.
My aunt CCB buyout, 42 on the quit, was hired to the enterprise as an accountant.
My maternal uncle was a senior electrician in the system, retired and was hired to work in the hospital or as an electrician.
My great aunt, director of the hospital laboratory, retired and was hired to a private hospital laboratory.
My great aunt, retired from the Audit Bureau, was hired to the audit firm.
My aunt, retired from the court, was hired as a consultant to a law firm.
As long as you have the skills, there are plenty of organizations that would love to have you. If you don't want to work again, don't go dancing and playing mahjong, you can learn from my mother, my mother bank retired, 48 years old from scratch to learn taijiquan, taiji sword, five birds, fitness qigong, etc., and now has been the hometown of the third-tier cities in this regard, experts, in the Sports Bureau of the Department of Social Sports, specializing in the mass of sports work. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level.
You're not even 50 yet, you're at the right age, and you've got plenty of time to learn what to do, just don't let yourself become a housewife, you'll get old fast.
49 years old, I've been home for almost a month, so I'm bored, what should I do?
The sea for the river to give you a suggestion: no matter what to do into, certainly better than dry to stay!
In life, make sure you don't let yourself be idle, and don't let yourself be dry, wasting your precious life.
The main reason for this is the following three points:
First, people stay on the offense.
People can not dry stay, as long as the stay will be guilty, a variety of diseases will automatically find the door. Don't look at the usual nothing wrong, but people are idle, all kinds of problems and aftereffects will come directly to the door.
The old injuries and fatigue accumulated in the past, as well as psychological and mental illnesses, all spontaneously and consciously to find up.
Now there is nothing to do, and there is no work to worry about, all day long no matter what the result is in thinking about their own health, sometimes the disease is really out of their own thinking.
Some diseases, the more you think, the more like, the more like it is.
Therefore, people can not stay, a stay will be sick.
Secondly, people become lazy when they stay.People can't stay often, because if they stay for a long time, they become lazy.
Once a person is lazy, he is not interested in anything, and everything feels uninteresting.
Lazy long, the meat on the body will grow up, after the fat will be more lazy, which may form a vicious cycle, the more fat the more lazy, the more lazy the more fat.
Once a person is fat, along with the physical and mental slack, the spirit is not there, which is the most terrible thing.
The slackness of the spirit is more disturbing than the body fat. Third, people stay bored.
People can not stay, as long as stay, that nothing to do, nothing to think, then will feel bored.
Boring people, can only do boring things, if even boring things are not, this also becomes boring.
Don't think you're talking in tongue-in-cheek, but this is the reality. Once a person becomes bored, they will lose their joy and love for everything, and nothing is interesting to look at, nothing is interesting to see.
With no sadness, no joy, no anger, no hatred of people's eyes, everything is so Buddhist, everything is so indifferent.
Hold the attitude of indifference, but also what passion and motivation, regardless of the elderly or young people, if the lack of excitement and the intention to forge ahead, this life is destined to be boring as years.
Don't let yourself stay, try to find something to do, don't let yourself waste your precious time with a boring attitude.
To summarize, Hai Weichuan suggests that it's better to just find something to do for fun.
Even if you go to do volunteer work, even if you go to play mahjong, even if you go to do cooking, just do something is better than staying dry.
If you have something to do, do it with all your heart, and if you don't have something to do, find something small or something to do.
Please don't stay idle, because when you stay idle, you are sick, when you stay idle, you are lazy, and when you stay idle, you will really become a boring and uninteresting person.
49 years old retired at home for almost a month, so no talk, I do something?
First of all, I envy you ah, retirement is the life I aspire to: the realization of the freedom of time, the morning can sleep to wake up naturally, get up and eat two pieces of bread, drink a cup of homemade soybean milk, go to the market to buy a day of vegetables, and then, the midday meal to do a little bit, ate dinner and took a nap, in the afternoon, to go to the neighborhood of the board room to play mahjong, or look at the cards, listen to the news of the gossip, and at night to go to the next square dance, but also to meet new people, to make new friends. You can also make new friends 。。。。. The day passes happily, and I feel that this is also quite good.
The first thing I'd like to do is to get a little bit more information on how to get the best out of the world.
Of course, a busy busy busy in the unit for most of his life, suddenly idle, there are always a lot of uncomfortable, 49 years old age is not a big age, so a glance at the end of the life of some monotonous and boring, for a in the workplace for many years in the old workers, the old cadres, by virtue of their own skills and work experience to find a job is easy to find a job in the search for work when it's best to look for that wages are not high, time The best way to find a job is to look for a job with a low salary and free time, such as the accountant of a private enterprise, who can do the accounts at the end of the month and file the tax return at the end of the month, which will not only increase the income, but also enrich the life of the people. Or go to enroll in a senior university, to charge themselves, enrich their knowledge to kill a little boredom.
49 years old, still young! Just left the workplace, there will be a retirement syndrome! When you work in the post, you look forward to being able to leave the post or retire. After you actually retire, there will be a burst of happiness.
I have a workmate, like rubbing mahjong; after leaving the retirement, every day to rub; three months later, called me; said: really boring, rubbing mahjong no flavor, can you help find a job.
People are like this, every day with the same thing contact, after a long time will be bored; work or study it, life is also so. When there is boredom, they will look for something that can bring them fresh or exciting things. To change the state of mind.
1, after the internal retreat, to adjust their state of mind.
For the previous unprepared unit people, leaving the post, has been the fact. Can find their own retired colleagues, workers, classmates, chatting, drinking tea; into the life of retirees.
2, do their own interest, can kill the boredom of time to do things.
Planting flowers, raising birds, fishing, researching nutritional food, etc., they used to be interested in things, but did not have the time to do, and now retired, you can treat it as a subject to study a little; there are also some people retired, to go to the invention of the invention. Or join a team of elderly people, senior university, to cultivate interest.
3. Find a job, both income and pass the time.
Some people have no interest in finding a job. No skill, no ability, only a body of strength, go as a doorman, do security or something. And people with knowledge and skills. Some private companies will make an appointment with you before you even retire. Of course, it's good to use your resources and mobilize your three aunts and six grandmothers to find a job that you can accept.
A thoughtful person doesn't think about things after he retires, but starts working on his post-retirement life 10 years before he retires, which means using that time to develop an interest.
A master when I joined the work, he had a hobby, massage massage. Before leaving the job, take this license down. He said why should I love this, we have reached a certain age, we are not in pursuit of material interests, but the pursuit of a healthy life. Tui na massage this technology, not only can I get economic gains, but also be able to make their own physical health, two birds with one stone.
I'll give you a good idea, the latest hot topic, stall.
In the policy of strong support and the premise of the Premier of the State Council personally stand, the majority of the small people, there will be no more policy constraints, not to worry about the uncle's pursuit of the city, you can throw the air sleeve, raised eyebrows and a big job.
In the evening or in the morning, when you walk down the street, you no longer feel that the street is quiet, sparsely populated, and empty. This side of the toy sellers, that side of the cell phone film, a side of the barbecue stall, not far from the clothes stalls. People are crowded, yelling, hawking, bargaining voice, children chasing and playing, not lively.
Since the 49-year-old retired home, found nothing to do, feel bored.
First of all, you can consider going to the ground stalls attached to your home to look around more. There is nothing that you particularly like, learn about the way others set up their stalls, the skills to recruit customers. At the same time, combined with their own interest and ability to choose a good direction, pre-do planning.
Secondly, after choosing a good direction, start to consider the selection of sources of goods, you can buy goods from Xbao or Xdong or Xduo. First less into a little bit of goods, try the water, well sold, in the additional amount of goods. If not sold, do not be anxious, it is okay, they use or online application for return.
Third, after the daily closing, inventory of goods and payments. Record the hot models, timely additional purchase volume. Recall the scene of the transaction, skillful sales techniques, ready for the next transaction. Calculate the day's surplus, as long as there is a profit, you can insist on doing.
Finally, I would like to say, has retired, do not work like too hard, more rest, or with grandchildren. It can not only enhance the emotional communication with children and grandchildren, but also reduce the burden of children's daily child care, and at the same time, it is also a good way to pass the time.
Of course, every stall people, in the stall to earn money at the same time, must be civilized stalls, follow the guidance of the city management, can not affect the appearance of the city. After closing the stalls, clean up their stalls, and take away the corresponding living garbage with you.
Civilized stalls, from me to start.
Civilized stalls, from me to do.