My father-in-law in 57 years, not to mention, since the mention of 50 after 60, then this group of people, we are first concerned about the pension problem.
First, my father-in-law's pension, his father-in-law's pension can be divided into three parts:
1, is the social security, this item, each over 60 years old rural elderly have. In our village, like my father-in-law has been receiving it for six years, about 120 yuan a month, 1240 yuan a year.
2, my husband is an only child, in-laws have a one-child allowance, which seems to be no month 80 yuan, 960 yuan a year. In-laws add up to 1920 yuan a year.
3, my father-in-law used to be a private teacher in the village, after the New Year's Day coordination, like my father-in-law as a private teacher for 9 years, a monthly subsidy of 20 yuan, a year a **** 240 yuan.
4, is the family's land income, in fact, now the in-laws are not the main force of the land, their land are we are planting. Our village has a lot of people and little land, especially our family per capita 7 points of land, even if two acres, are planted yellow peaches. Last year, the price of yellow peaches is not bad, two acres of land counted 10000 yuan, can not be more, more you do not believe, I do not believe.
This can be seen, a rural elderly pension, like the father-in-law in the rural areas accounted for less than 1%, all the inputs add up to less than 7000 yuan, and the village is also a teacher of the five uncle, the monthly retirement salary of 7000-8000 yuan.
And take away the two items that are unique to Gong Gong, the one-child allowance, and the private teacher's allowance, and basically it's an old man in the countryside with a disposable income of one year, how much, we can calculate.
Gong Gong in the village is still a very small number of existence, if we calculate by the average, an old man can dispose of the income of only less than 5000 yuan per year, which must not lose labor, if you can't plant the land, only 120 yuan per month, of course, this is the country's lowest subsidy, in the countryside if you do not have a disease, 120 yuan can barely live, but the people are older most of the physical disease, the most important thing is to be able to get the money to pay for the work. But the most important thing is to be physically sick.
Married for so many years, I think my father-in-law is a real man, in many ways much better than my husband, that is, he is the body of the force, let a person feel admired.
My father-in-law was born in an era when we have a lot of things we can not understand, such as he can go to school, but finally because of the composition of the problem did not participate in the college entrance examination.
But he is a strong man, to put it bluntly, he is not willing to be a farmer all his life. Teachers can not do, he became the first batch of people to go to sea, with my aunt (father-in-law's brother-in-law), in the town of the first plastic sandal factory, aunt is responsible for the production of the public because of learning is responsible for running the business. At that time, he was almost the first in the village to go out, in Rizhao, Yishui, open the door, selling sandals. Now the family still have those sandals, all are black, especially strong, durable.
Later, the shoe factory yellow, I do not know because what, and did not ask. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a loan from the company, and I was able to buy a trailer, and I think it took a lot of courage to go out and do that.
In 1987, my father-in-law became the first million-dollar household in the village, the first black-and-white Panda TV, the first motorcycle, the first red brick and red tile house. Other people's yard wall is not yet pulled up when the mother-in-law lived on the big tiled house, because of the existence of this tiled house, and even gave my husband a doll marriage.
But then, the triangular debt epidemic, about 89 years, the father-in-law owed people more than 90,000 yuan, all day long to go out to ask for money, to ask for people also blocked in the home, the father-in-law even thought of suicide, when he was 30 years old, right. Of course, these are usually chat with the mother-in-law know, the father-in-law will never take the initiative to say up.
The mother-in-law said, the eunuch back 30 pounds of pancakes in Luozhuang people squatting in the factory for more than two months, the money is not all back, the trailer directly sold to pay off the debt, which also had a stalemate with the partners. To 92 years, the triangular debt of the twine was unraveled, but early has not helped.
Eunuch in the village belongs to the man of the hour, after all, so many halos added to his head. There is also the above mentioned tractor is also the first in the village, out of a lot of force. But no matter how the male outside, back home is always the most listen to the words of the mother-in-law, may be because of the reason of the composition of the male, the mother-in-law height is only a little more than 150, the male always said that if it is not your mother-in-law, I am a bachelor, so, the two of them almost never quarrel.
Then, gradually, the rural areas live up, the father-in-law bought a well drilling machine, went to Xinjiang to play the well, but also collected wood, go to the northeast mountains in the primitive forest to buy wood.
But no matter how tossed, Gong Gong life is an ordinary farmer, he has succeeded and failed, but never out of the countryside.
Now that my father-in-law is older, he doesn't have the same "ambition" as before, and just keeps telling us that we must let Jun Hao and Jia Hui (my son and daughter) go to school properly, face to face with the yellow soil, back to the sky, and the days are too hard, and that if we are successful, we have to work even harder to make our children have a good future. The child has a good future.
Now that I think about it, my father-in-law has done so many things, and his life has been a great one, many times more exciting than ours, but he still hasn't succeeded.
I think my father-in-law's life can be seen in the shadows of many older generations, who were self-reliant and worked hard, and then caught up with the tide of the times.
Their generation, we can not eat the pain, their kind of spirit we can not learn. Although Gong Gong failed in the end, but many people have succeeded, it is the hard work of their generation, to lift the momentum of social progress.
Of course, one generation has its own responsibilities, and one generation has its own goals. The post-80s generation has gradually become the mainstay of life, and we are not slow to support the advancement of society.
50's people have been old, right, Gong Gong 66 this year, has not lost labor, has been on the help us. It's not his fault he didn't get out of the peasantry, it's the times that didn't give him a chance.
Looking at the aging body of my in-laws, I sometimes wonder what it will be like for our generation to grow old.
After 50 years, the latter 60 generation is catching up with the most drastic social changes, in which they not only reflect the spirit of the old generation of hard work and endurance, but also the most drastic changes in the country in the past 50-60 years.
Like my father-in-law, there must be a lot of people, young people because of a bit of culture, they have struggled, traveled extensively, some people have succeeded, and now there is no lack of some of the big brother is at this age, but most of the people failed, like my father-in-law, over into an ordinary person, can not say bad, because compared with the previous, now the good! It can't be said to be bad, because compared with the past, it's now too much better. Can not say good, because compared to others, he may not be the best, or even still worse.
Gong Gong 66 this year, gradually lost the labor force, although he still wants to work every day, still want to work hard, but we do not want him to do too much, experienced so much, and now it is time to take a break.
After 50, after 60 have been old, we do not dwell on how they live, just hope they live well, have a good time it!
I'm from that era, and I'm doing pretty well now. But most of them didn't leave the countryside and are not doing too well. The so-called good here mainly refers to economic income and living conditions.
I was one of the lucky ones who was born in the countryside at that time. At that time, I was still talking about composition, my family was a poor peasant, and all my relatives were born poor peasants.
Luckily from our session began to go to high school, before the highest education in our village is two junior high school students. We have a village of five people insisted on graduating from high school, in the neighboring villages regardless of the total number and proportion is the highest. In some villages, there was not even one high school student. A high school student in the rural areas at that time is the highest education, which brings benefits for the future work, several of my classmates are not bad, some are doctors, some are teachers.
I went the furthest, enlisted in the capital airport. This is also due to the above two reasons, the composition of the best, at that time, high school students were the first choice for recruitment.
How a person lives, in addition to economic conditions and living conditions, there are many. This age group has reached the later years of life, happiness and health is the most important. May our peers enjoy their lives and be healthy and happy until the end of their lives.
This is a question for me, born in 1963, I still have some say. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at this, but I'm sure you can. I'll tell you the truth, and let you comment on it.
Born in the era of big water, openings, was Chang'e early abandoned to the mortal world of the white rabbit, prematurely came to a half-working half-farming family. I was fortunate to finish high school, catching up with the responsibility of the subcontracting of land to the household, harboring dreams of people first, in the vast world to fly for two years, learned the most basic skills of a farmer's life, belonging to the family's fields and will not communicate with the oxen, horses, donkeys and mules together with the plowing and sowing hope. Restless I went down to take the favorite literary novels, finally carrying the name of unfilial, resolutely chose the life of the military. Five years of military career, more let me know the outside world is how beautiful and attractive. Merit to join the party to fulfill my dream. I was discharged from the army and returned home, and then went to work on the banks of the beautiful Haihe River for 12 years.
I'm in my middle age, in order to fulfill my parents' wish, I abandoned the life in the metropolis and went back to the countryside to complete the task of passing on the family name. I lost my job and worked around myself to find a job that suited me. Construction site bricklayer, company canteen handyman, cultural company office director ...... for the late children, the income of the money are given to the education, more than 10 years to children into the higher education, gratified, Mom and Dad saw me to bring them a succession of grandchildren, not to say that I'm unfilial. Although, life is not generous, but I am very content. I put my hope in the next generation. My son needs my help on his way to school.
I have no regrets and continue to work every day!
My cousin, born in 1959, is 62 years old and was too picky when he was young to find a wife.
Cousin uncle at the age of 25 is the time of his life is the most pleased, then he did the ducks and geese backhand business, every day, almost a day to earn buckets of gold, can also say that he is a treacherous , from the reservoir farmers to catch the ducks, and then with a self-made equipment, sand and water, and a little bit of paddy rice, with the equipment to lead it to the ducks inside the stomach, on the day of the market, and then to sell it to the street. The day of the fair to catch to the street to sell, so that operation, a duck can earn double the cost.
As long as the ducks and geese are not sold out on the day, almost all of them will be dead by the evening, so there are ducks to eat every day in those days, because sometimes when it rains on the market, it's almost impossible to sell them all, and you have to deal with it quickly back home to kill it, and more ducks will be sent to the duck store cheaply, and fewer will be dealt with by yourself at home.
Doing business to earn some money, and then the spread of the townships know, and then he was in the young and strong, and handsome, the townships have a lot of matchmakers, every day when the door to the door to try to pull a relative, the most popular is the matchmaker door-to-door.
Every time someone brings a girl over to see the time, not too much girl's family is too poor to match her, or think the girl looks too high or too short, or too fat and too thin, always did not have to look at the eye, but this is also the right he should have to choose, who told him to be a successful person, there are a number of Maouzi looks really beautiful, but also smacked of people's breasts in that position there is a mark, the final 27 years of age have not been able to choose, but also to choose the right to choose. In the end, to the age of 27 have not yet married wife.
That year, his uncle's mother died in a car accident, the blow to him is very big, and also got a compensation, that compensation he and his brother two equal share, in the family feel that there is no sense of home, and then thought of going out to the outside of Guangdong to break through, a go out is more than 10 years.
Because there is a brother in the family, has married a wife, gave birth to two children, children are quite big, his brother had cancer, stayed more than half a year did not see him back. The family do not know cousin uncle outside is dead or alive also did not receive a letter, we will assume that he does not exist, normal life.
His sister-in-law at home with two children, living really hard, no income, can only rely on the family to plant a three acres of land to maintain life, the family's house is a dirt house, rain often leakage, they belong to the poorer family.
I'm going to re-categorize the relationship between us now, or maybe you're reading this a little confused and don't understand what kind of situation my character is in. The cousin I'm referring to is the same grandfather as my dad's grandfather.
After his brother's death, that year, the cousin uncle suddenly came back, and it looks like outside the mix is not very good, are almost more than 40 years of age, not even a wife.
I heard that when working in Guangdong, others introduced a divorced woman, I heard that the young woman with a son, and their own husbands have died, want to find a man to rely on, the uncle was thinking of building a new family with someone else, but then also by someone else cheated the money, cheated on the body to be exhausted, and then someone else left him.
Uncle this time back to many people began to have a lot of talk, said that he told his sister-in-law will be living with forget it. The first thing I want to say is that I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this, so I'm going to have to go back to my old neighborhood! The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night.
They live in the house is the same yard inside, as for them to live together, there is no such thing as a relationship, others are not clear, because the back of the things that make others very suspicious.
Since the uncle came back, he never went out to work in Guangdong, but began to cultivate the land at home. Because there is no man in his sister-in-law's house, he often helped her work, and often attracted some people's comments, thinking that their relationship has problems.
That year, there was a flood in the house, which soaked the house for a day, and many of those mud houses were soaked, as was the uncle's, her family's house, and his sister-in-law's house, with the roof falling out.
His sister-in-law is ready to build a new house, to the uncle borrowed tens of thousands of dollars, the uncle did not hesitate to pull out, sister-in-law also said that when he was old, her son they will support him, and this money is only a temporary borrowing, and so there will be later on will be paid back, he will be the account registered in a book, that day I inadvertently was I saw. It was recorded in the book, taking 60,000 dollars from the brother-in-law, and 18,000 from the children's aunt.
Maybe his sister-in-law gave him hope, or gave him a promise, that year the house was built, uncle to our next town of a brick factory to go to work, the wage income is also okay, but is too hard.
There are food and shelter, but he will come back once or twice a month, really have to let others suspect that he and the phone has another layer of relations, and he earned money every month to his sister-in-law to decorate the house.
Until one year, things took a big turn for the worse, uncle accidentally hit his foot by a brick while working, and then his foot was lame, so he couldn't continue to come to work there, and came back home to retire.
His sister-in-law's attitude towards him seems to be a 180-degree change, built that house left two to him, and often between the two will be because of some small things and quarrels, and ultimately to the separation of living and eating, because he did not find a wife before, has always been with his sister-in-law to live together.
Now that he is crippled because of his foot, his sister-in-law treats him this way, so that he has lived most of his life, and only now can he see that for so long his sister-in-law has been taking advantage of him, treating it as a cash cow, and treating it as a tool to make money.
Now very regretful, he bet on the wrong, thinking of relying on these two machines to help him old age, but also for their family to pay so much, in the end to come to an empty.
Now the uncle is living a very bitter life together, in my eyes it seems. But I've talked to him a few times, and from his remarks, I can conclude that he has put it all in perspective. He now goes to his vegetable garden every morning to dig some holes and plant some vegetables, and at noon he brags with the village elders.
In the afternoon, he goes to the garden to collect some vegetables, pick some vegetables to go back, maintain his broken vegetable garden, and receive more than 700 yuan a month of low income and pension.
I asked him if he had enough money, and he replied: I don't smoke, I don't drink, I cook a pot of congee every morning, and I can eat it all night, and then I go to the banana plantation to walk around, and I'm having a good time now, and I don't have to worry about old age, and I'm going to the garden every day to consume my time.
My second sister was born in 1952, the same is 50 after the second brother-in-law has been away for 19 years! 19 years, the widowed second sister has dried up tears, and tormented a body of disease, but fortunately, the second sister has two filial piety and capable daughter, in the second sister-in-law died soon after the eldest daughter's family moved back to the village, but because son-in-law in the city to do the works after the purchase of a house, a few years before the daughter and children and went to the city to settle down. Daughters and children went to the city to settle down, they want to take the second sister with them, uneducated and accustomed to living in the countryside of the second sister how do not want to go to the city to live in the building, 65 years old, the second sister began to guard a large house alone alone, in addition to planting a few vegetables and other farm work is not done. Now the countryside is incredibly cold and empty, the second sister of the day is really lonely and hard to get through ah, no choice but to do not like pets of the second sister raised a dog courage and companion. Heart is not good and have high blood pressure of the second sister a year ago got a bad cold almost killed, since then for several months did not slow down, people also become mental trance almost like a new person, we are beginning to worry about the second sister, the two daughters are willing to pick up the second sister to go to the city, the second sister also followed the eldest daughter to the city to live for a while, but no matter how to get used to it, the spirit of the spirit a little bit better after or stubbornly return to the village to live alone!
In the countryside, a 50 year old man like Sis, if he doesn't have a companion, he can still get by on his own, but once he's left with a son or daughter, it's a very lonely and miserable life, because nowadays, after 50 years, 60 years of rural people's sons and daughters are still in the city, and they're still in the city, and it's a very lonely and miserable life.
Again, a couple of 60-year-olds in my hometown, the man was poor when he was young and didn't go to school for a few years, and it took him almost 30 years to start a family! The only son graduated from school but settled in the city and province, because of the limitations of education and professional work is not much better, just barely based on marriage and buy a house rely on parental support, the child is even more necessary to go to bring the woman to go do not know how long it can go back to leave the man at home and still have to try to earn a living and send a steady stream of the provincial capital, or the son's mortgage is facing a break! Less than 60 years old, the man had no choice but to live a life of solitude and hard work, while farming and raising pigs, but also non-stop short-term jobs, it is really hard and tiring!
It can be said that the rural 50, 60 after most are very hard to suffer two generations, many of them also on the older parents to support their children and grandchildren is not away from their help support, which many couples (mainly 60) for children and grandchildren had to helplessly live in the city and countryside, the days of the separation, a grandchildren unlimited work, one earn money everything! One of them has to labor endlessly to bring up their grandchildren, and the other one has to do everything to earn money, and they have no time to think about and put their own old age in peace! In fact, even in the city after 50, 60 after the situation is mostly so, a lot of retired is also in the upper and lower two generations of people under the squeeze of the hard to support! [face][tears]
Five zero six zero this generation whether rural or urban people, first of all, said is the lucky generation. New China has just been established, although penniless, a hundred things to be done, but the end of the suffering of war, people are no longer displaced, the overthrow of the feudal exploiting class. Everyone is equal, men and women are equal, and people live and work in peace and contentment. Fifty-sixty people is another generation with a story, not many educated people, ten years of haojiao, this generation of teenagers did not learn to pour a good deal of knowledge. This generation has the most people going to the countryside, family planning is basically this generation, laid-off workers and this generation is the most people. Don't underestimate the five zero six zero this generation, the construction of new China, the various industries this generation is the main force, the rapid rise of reform and opening up has been basically this generation, a lot of capable people are this generation. Enjoy the peace and prosperity of the most is also five zero six zero of this group of people, over four or five decades of good life. Now most of the people playing cards on the card table are this group of people, square dancing, tour groups are basically this group of people. The five-zero-six-zero is the lucky generation of the new China, is the generation of creation, is the generation of peace and prosperity of the happy generation, most of them are living very well.
I am the rural 50, I am most qualified to answer this question, because this issue is closely related to me, I use my experience to do a present answer.
I'm a bit of a laggard, because I was born in 59, and I've been in the 60s since the day I learned. I was born in the city and grew up in the countryside, because our family was sent from the city to the countryside in 60 years, that is to say, when I was less than a year old, I was in my mother's arms, from the city to the countryside. This really can't rely on me ah, I was really can't help it ah, because I don't go with mom ah, one is I can't get away from mom's nipple ah, one is I still don't know where it is, my parents didn't discuss it with me, it's arbitrarily to bring me to the agriculture.
In fact, in the decades of growing up, and the countryside has established a deep affection, and did not feel that the countryside is not so bad, follow the customs of the countryside, but rather feel that the countryside is also quite free, the scenery is good, the air is fresh, and the life is tough, it is the same, rich and not much stronger, poor and did not feel too ashamed. When you grow up, get married and have children, how do people live, how do we live, do their own work, eat their own food, their own wife to see their own, the birth of a child, by the time the melon is ripe, when the father of the watershed of life, only to realize that he really became an adult.
Spring and Autumn under the strive for wealth, marrying a wife and children responsibility on the shoulders, in the stars and months, the child grows up and their own old, before the child rely on us to raise, now the child has become our backbone. The biggest regret is that we have been working for a lifetime even a pension is not, but now the country is rich, just look forward to that monthly pension of more than a hundred dollars, when to rise again, to be honest, a little too little.
My partner and I are now in the daughter's home, to the daughter with children cooking and cleaning, the son this year to join the work, I look forward to the son quickly find an object, while we are old two mouths, the body still feel a bit of strength, if the daughter-in-law does not mind, but also to help them with the children, but also a kind of heavenly happiness.
The daughter is quite filial, the money never care how we spend, is just casually we spend, but when the old man who does not love children ah. The child is so generous, we can not buy everything ah not? This daughter bought us a house, is being renovated, it seems that this is to let us live in Shajiabang. But I still have an old house in my hometown, that is a quite new four today's courtyard mansion, I really do not want to give it up ah, alas! The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't want to sell my old house, but I'd like to have a way out in case I don't want to live in the city anymore.
It's hard to say ah! After 5060, after the storm, in the late years of catching a good time, most of them are full of children and grandchildren, no matter whether it is the rural or urban can be said to be free of food and clothing, although there is not a small gap, but it is a pity that a considerable part of the people did not survive, one after another, to pay for the Yellow Springs
My cousin was born in 1955, when I was a child, was a playmate, had a boarding house, and was a good friend, but he was a good friend. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night.
Cousin has a son and a daughter, has been a family, according to the old custom, he lived with his son's family. Although he is nearly old, his health is good, and there is no disease.
Some time ago, we saw him, asked him how life is, he said with a smile: no lack of food and drink, to help his son planting all kinds of land, look at home ...
From the conversation, I learned that his son planted a dozen land, most of the work by him to do, the income of course by the son of the management of the original savings are also given to his son, the hands of the empty.
Speaking of children's money, cousin's eyes showed helplessness, usually do not spend any money, humane with the portion of the son and son to chant ...
Cousin life is okay, just lost the freedom of wealth, and then older what, can not pay attention to what? I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it," he said!
According to the rural areas and the city compared to the majority of people can not catch up with the city, the city people generally to this age have their own pension, and farmers are still suffering.
Mainly farmers can only receive more than 1oo yuan of pension subsidies, no ability to enjoy the social life, can only nibble on the small, but can not be generalized, the individual old people's salary card son to take, but also can not be spent at will, can only be idle days, do not feel the happiness of life, this is the general phenomenon of the rural people, said the son to take on the bottom of the old man to take care of the young, the heart of the children with their own children, and also can only be used for a long time. This is the way, sit back and enjoy, waiting for the pie in the sky, can only be empty hope to think.