In the early days of love, two people may be a little nervous when they meet, and they will always be cautious when they do things and speak, for fear of leaving a bad impression on each other. But in the middle and late stages of love, it is most comfortable to get along like good friends. Because we are honest with each other, we don't have to be afraid that saying the wrong thing will make each other unhappy. We can talk about various topics with each other. Don't worry about each other getting angry, even if it's a quarrel, you can argue for one second, and the next is like nothing.
2. Relative possession, absolute freedom
Intimacy is very important for two people to be together and have each other, but we can't ignore individual independence. Before we were together, you were you and I was me. After being together, we became us. But after all, we are independent individuals, so we should maintain a state of relative ownership and absolute freedom. We have the same life goals, personal likes and dislikes, our own private space, and we are intimate and independent.
In step, * * * a total of advance and retreat.
In many relationships, only being with people with the same frequency can make feelings go further. An illiterate person who graduated from primary school and high flyers who graduated from university, can you imagine two people together? Two people with different cultures and different insights will never get to the point. This relationship won't last. Therefore, two people need to find the same goal and make progress together. There should never be a situation in which one person rushes forward desperately and the other person stagnates. Different frequencies are not destined to be people on the same road. No matter where the relationship is, it is important to keep pace. Only when we are evenly matched will we not feel inferior.
Appreciate each other
Two people must have been attracted by one advantage of each other at first. For example, he is handsome, honest and smart. For example, she is kind, lovely and helpful. These are the points of mutual appreciation. The real charm of love lies in mutual appreciation. After getting along for a long time, many couples will ignore each other's bright spots and think that this person is unchanging and boring. Sooner or later, such feelings will be in crisis. Therefore, no matter which stage, you can't forget your initial heart, and you can't forget that he is a person I admire. We should be each other's idols and the number one fans.