Get over yourself. Do you have to avoid people for this one? That thing between a man and a woman could have been picked up and resolved. When you were with your husband, didn't you sneak around? It's just that you feel psychologically uncomfortable having someone out there, so get over yourself! Your husband was against it when you told him, right? Yes, someone to cook in the morning, someone to do the laundry, someone to mop the floor, you can't just think of the benefits and not the drawbacks. After all, everything has its pros and cons! When you say these you come, I think your husband might think about it!
The second thing is that if you want to solve this thing or can be done, is that you that hut plus two layers of soundproofing panels , very cheap, so that you in the house shooing is also not so much as in the outside can be heard, especially the door there must be good, so that your mother-in-law outside also do not know, which is a comfort to your own! I'm not going to be able to do that. We are all adults, what are you going to do, do you really think your mother-in-law does not know ah, do not forget, she is also a person! Don't forget, she's been there too! She doesn't know about your flirting? Just pretend not to see it!
The third thing you can do is to let your mother-in-law go, think about the hardships of your own life. You'll be having a baby, so will you let your mother-in-law help you with the baby? Bringing up a child is not a short period of time like a day or two, that's three years and two years. You will also have to live together, so why don't you take this as a trial period for you to get along and treat her like your own mother, and will she treat you like her own daughter?
When you can get along with your coworkers under the same roof, why can't you live with your mother-in-law? What's more, you'll be relying on her to help you with your kids. If you drive people away now, are you going to smile when you invite them? Why don't you smile now, and then you can talk better?