Talk to: Aunt Liang
When I was 50 years old, my wife left me forever because of a car accident. When he just died, I felt very uncomfortable, as if the world had lost its color and lived in a trance every day. I don't know what I'm doing. Fortunately, the child was obedient and accompanied me when I was sad. I spent that difficult time with their company. Later, my children grew up and set up their own families. Then I lived alone. They all asked me to stay, but I didn't want to because I was afraid of the contradiction between my mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law. I'd rather live alone, as long as my children live well.
Later, the child suggested that I find another wife, saying that finding a wife is also very popular now, as long as the other person is good to me. I thought it was a good idea, and then I started looking for a wife for myself, hoping to find a suitable wife.
In order to find a suitable wife, I will go to the square to dance in the square, because I can meet many men by dancing in the square, and many men come to dance in the square to find a wife.
Later, I met Uncle Yang. Uncle Yang and I have a good personality, but we didn't get the license because his children didn't want us to get it. They thought my father's salary was higher, and they were worried that my motives were impure and I was greedy for their money. I thought two people must get the certificate together, or they will be laughed at by others. I struggled for a long time. I want to be separated from Uncle Yang, but I really don't want to, because I really don't want to.
During the two years I lived with Uncle Yang, my life was not good. I thought it would be beautiful to find a partner, but it was still so painful in the end. Uncle Yang is very strong and wants others to listen to him. Besides, he went too far. Usually I want to see the children, but he doesn't agree. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore, so I separated from him. I never thought that kind of life was what I wanted, and I was not free at all.
Later, I chatted with the female friends who danced square dance together at that time, and found that although they were married and married, they were not happy or even painful after marriage, because they were married and many problems were difficult to deal with. At this time, I am glad that I didn't marry Uncle Yang, otherwise it would be difficult to divorce now.
After experiencing Uncle Yang, I found it difficult to find a suitable partner. Many men just want to find a free nanny and are unwilling to take care of it. They are also afraid that women's motives are impure and that they will suffer. They just want to get a woman's salary, but they don't want to be nice to women. It is impossible to be happy in such a boarding way.
After I left Uncle Yang, I stopped going to the square to dance in the square, because I felt that I had a good life alone and didn't want to remarry. I used to dance square dance to find a suitable person to remarry, but now I don't think it is necessary. Later, I began to do what I liked. I grow a lot of flowers and plants, have two puppies, and travel with my friends when I have time. Made many like-minded friends. Cooking together on weekends, life is simple.
Many people wanted to introduce me to someone, but I refused because I didn't think it was necessary. A friend of mine is envious of my present state, and thinks that I am good at managing my old age and I am so happy every day. In fact, I think I did it because I know what I want. I think I hope to be happy in my old age. I never started with boarding and dancing. I have my own pension and my own house. I live a very chic life alone, and I don't want to see other people's faces. I don't have to go to the square dance to find a wife, because many men are selfish. They just want to find a free nanny, and I don't want that life.
Now I am very happy. Many people envy my present lifestyle. I feel old and don't want to be wronged. I just want to be happy. I don't care that much. We live for ourselves, not what others think.
Aunt Liang's idea is very good. After seeing the truth about many elderly people boarding, she knew what she wanted. I know how to please myself. I no longer have hope of remarriage. I have the conditions to live a good life. I don't want to live with it In fact, a person can be wonderful, as long as I love myself. There is no fixed pattern in life, and happiness is the best pattern.