If you didn't do anything wrong, it was your husband. He hasn't looked for you since you went back to your mother's house for so long, which shows that he is usually spoiled and doesn't know how to give in. In this case, you should go back for a while, but you need to think about how you two will get along and live for a long time. Because if a husband and wife want to be long-term, they must tolerate and accommodate each other, and not only one party can make concessions, but the other party can be completely indifferent.
So I think 1 time can achieve him, but in the future, you should figure out how to communicate with him and how to adjust his current state so that he cares about you. In fact, if a man really likes a woman, he will cherish it from his bones. There is a sentence that I think is quite right. Men are responsible for conquering the world, and women are responsible for conquering men.
Your responsibility now is to conquer your husband and make him fall in love with you completely. Some people may think they are all married, but can they not like it? In fact, not all marriages are based on feelings. Some people really get married because they have to get married and live together because they can't find a suitable marriage partner when they are old.
If the marriage is established by this relationship, then the other party will definitely not cherish you. Even if you pay more, it is nothing in his eyes, because you have not touched his heart.
So for this kind of marriage, I think it's better to get married before falling in love. You have to let your husband find your goodness after marriage and really fall in love with you.
It is better to tear down a temple than to ruin a marriage. After all, you are married, so you need to be strong enough to break through any difficulties. Don't always think about divorce.