Fulfillment and Boredom

Wife took the two kids back home for a while. It's rare to have a few days to live alone. But after just one week, the experience is not good.

The first two days are on duty in the unit, anti-Taiwan, sleep in the office at night, sleep late, and sleep is not heavy, the next day the mental state is not good. It is good that during the duty period to watch "White Deer Plains" is very serious, but also watched a lot. The next day home to give yourself a relaxing break rest, began to play chess inside the QQ game, the third day (Tuesday) night even accidentally played an all-nighter, until six o'clock! Forced myself to lie down to rest, but also half asleep, more than ten o'clock to get up, the brain drowsy. Do something to eat, and then wash clothes, cleaning, sweaty, after lunch and chess, fortunately, before 11:00 p.m. to bed, even slept until eight o'clock ten! Rush to get up to the unit, or half an hour late. Thursday and Friday, although not too late to sleep (really do not dare to go to bed late, a lot of damage to the body), but also to play chess, watch TV, books can not read, exercise did not do, boredom.

On Friday, I made a plan to go to the most beautiful windmill highway on Saturday, and I returned the library books and prepared the information for Ginger. Asked Kwon and Nana to go with us, they were reluctant to go. I saw that there was a Buddhist lecture at the Seven Pagodas Temple in the morning, so I decided to go to the lecture. There was also a Buddhist lecture on Sunday afternoon. It was a good use of two days in the weekend. On Saturday, I woke up as planned and came to the Seven Pagodas Monastery on time. The lecture was good and very profitable. However, because of poor sleep and occasional sleepiness, I deserted in the middle of the lecture and contacted my old friend, June, to talk about how she was doing and the lessons she was listening to. We had a nice chat, and she was on duty, not far from the Seven Pagodas Temple. After the lecture I would have liked to take the subway back, thought about it or ask June at noon there is no dinner, she has eaten instant noodles, but about I can go to her office to sit down. With the appointment. In the afternoon, it rained heavily again, until the rain stopped to return. Saturday night, Qingchao drove back from his hometown and brought a big bag of garlic. Sunday I gave Xiaoquan garlic, cold medicine and beer, and went to the library to return books. I ate a Jinyun burrito at lunchtime, and it was raining again, so I waited for the rain to stop a little bit and rushed home to see if I could still make it to my 2:00 pm class, so I didn't change my clothes and rushed out to take the subway.

In the afternoon, Mr. Yun Cheng taught the "Stop View of Childhood", which is very good! It is worth studying it attentively, and you should also get close to good knowledge and go to the class more often. Amitabha Buddha!!!

In general, the difference between people is outside the eight hours, especially in the child finished school, parenting a bit of life rhythm slowed down, people empty, idle time. Eating and drinking is certainly not right, to this age do not want to, and even more reluctant to go to eat late-night snacks, nightclubs, spend money to buy drunken suffer, the body a few days to recover from, it is too uneconomical. In terms of their own pursuit of the concept of value, eating and drinking, not only to violate the alcohol precepts, but also to indulge in greed, gluttony, greed for food, drink, alcohol, but also easy to put the language is not firm, to commit deceitful precepts, and easy to violate the precepts of color, drunkenness and sexual promiscuity is also. Because of alcohol and kill, theft, prostitution, delusion, abstinence, owed to whoever some favor owed it, less drink a big drink, not only personal merit, but also the merit of others. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of greed, anger, and stupidity, and start working here.

Idle down, not to indulge themselves into the game, sedentary, addicted to the game, hurt the body, hurt God, hurt the brain, sad, resulting in the disruption of the biological clock and the decline of immunity, depletion of the body, can not quit! There have been countless lessons learned, not again and again to make mistakes and do not know how to repent!

It can be seen that the arrangement of spare time has a lot to learn, but also want to get rid of boredom and boredom, we must have a plan to use the meaning of things to enrich the spare time. First of all, there is a regular work and rest, 10:30 pm do not look at electronic products, 11:00 pm -6:00 pm must be in the sleep state. 6:00 pm -7:00 pm in addition to sending children, you can work out or read books, write things. Between 7 and 8:30 p.m., you can read, watch TV, write, play the flute or harmonica, participate in square dance workouts, go for a run, Keep, and meet up with friends, and so on. There are a lot of things to do, in fact, combing and settling down is not complicated, do these is enough.

Just saw a passage from the circle of friends: donkey asked the camel: how do you cross the desert? The camel said: always walking. The donkey asked again: and? The camel replied: keep walking. The donkey asked again: keep walking, that's it? Camel: Yes, toward the goal has been walking ...... think more are questions, do is the answer.

There is also a passage: "want to learn" and "learning" are two different things, spaced out "action"; "learning" and "progress". The "want to learn" and "learning" are two different things, separated by "action"; "learning" and "progress" are two different things, separated by "persistence". There are only two choices in life: either to go forward and be the protagonist of your own life; or to stay in place and be the supporting role of others.

All too fucking reasonable! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty! The first thing you need to do is to take action! I'm not going to be able to do that!

There is still some time alone. Learn to change.