No one wants to be bullied in the workplace, and no one wants to be wronged for no reason.
But sometimes character determines fate, and there is no way. I'm weak inside, and I was bullied from birth.
Having said that, there is still a chance to change.
At work, being a wolf is far more comfortable than being a sheep. The harder you work, the less people dare to bully you, and even fear you. But if you are weaker, you will not get friendship, but will become a doormat and backpacker.
When there is a mistake and you need to take responsibility, of course, the scapegoat comes first; With the credit, when receiving the award, of course, whoever is malicious will take it.
The workplace is a typical ecological circle. No one is immune from the law of the jungle.
So how can we change from a "little sheep" to a "wolf"? Learn these four tricks and teach you how to stay away from being bullied.
The first trick: pretend to be gregarious.
Pretending to be gregarious and seemingly friendly to everyone, but only thinking about their own affairs, only caring about their own interests, and not wasting any time on other things, this kind of talent is really cruel.
Because they know that in this world, strength is the real strength. No matter how big the roof of someone else's house is, there must be a small umbrella.
Others have nothing to do with themselves. What's the use of spending a lot of time and energy on each other and trying to please each other? Flattery can't get friendship, it will only make you more and more humble.
Malicious people are often indifferent to others except their parents, wives and children, because they have long recognized the reality, experienced the injury and seen through it.
The second trick: don't care about other people's comments.
Really cruel people, no matter what others say, tend not to care. Because such people know exactly what they want, no matter how many good things others say about you, they won't give you anything. Maybe they will kill you and try to use you.
On the other hand, if others criticize in various ways, people with malicious intentions will understand in their hearts that the other party is either jealous of themselves or trying to sow discord between them, and will never let the plot succeed.
Therefore, if you want to be a vicious person, you must first improve your psychological endurance. In the face of public opinion, don't care about the eyes of others.
There are so many idle people in the workplace. They always like to gossip among other people's parents and brush their sense of existence by criticism. They are doomed to fail, and this is their life. Being knowledgeable with such people is just a waste of time.
The third measure: make great friends.
People with malicious intentions are often very utilitarian, and whoever has strength will always be mixed with whom. They will stay away from the weak who complain all day and are full of negative energy, and get close to the strong.
The world itself is like this. The kindness of the lion will be considered as kindness, while the kindness of the lamb will be considered as weakness.
Some people, who always like to mix with people who are not as good as themselves, are actually temporarily paralyzing themselves, showing that they are doing well and brushing their sense of existence. The problem is that if you mix with the weak, you can't make progress at all, let alone get anything.
The fourth trick: malicious people are good at seizing opportunities and acting alone.
In the unit, really vicious people, knowing valuable information and opportunities, all act in advance and will not share with others, and their mouths are particularly tight.
On the other hand, some heartless people, after knowing a little inside information, always habitually say this and that, as if they were well informed. Such people often accomplish nothing in the end.
Maybe someone else sold him, and he is still there to help others.
Therefore, if you want to be a vicious person in the unit, you must learn a little scheming.
Learn the above four tricks, I believe you can also become a vicious person in the workplace and no longer be bullied.