The most striking is standing in the front row of the dancers, their clothes soaked, still forgetting to dance, as if they are standing in a wide stage on a serious performance, in fact, in front of an empty person, only a group of teammates behind them, jumping tired of the teammates behind them to go away and take a break, but the leader of the dancers are still sticking to their posts, seriously standing in the front row of the most jumping.
Among the dancers, there is a big sister who is my neighbor, counting the time she insisted on, a full eight years. She has been the leader of the dancers. Early in the morning and late in the evening, she will be on time with the stereo to the park square, with a group of teammates dance.
Watching her mesmerized by the dance triggered three thoughts in me
1. Being a lead dancer is more persistent
It's actually easier to be 100% persistent than 98% persistent. I believe that there are many people who learn to dance with Big Sister, but maybe only 50% of them can stick to it.
Those who stand at the back and dance, and those who stand at the front and dance, look like they are both dancing, but the mentality is different.
Standing in a group of people jumping, will put their own position is relatively light, three days to fish two days to the net more, because most people just feel free to jump, no time to jump. In the complicated lock things, did not stick to dance in the most important position, it is easy to be a good-looking TV series, a few neighbors gossip and many other chores on the replacement.
And as lead dancers, they realize the importance of their position as the spiritual leader of the team. Leaders become the most important thing in their daily lives, and they don't just miss out, they may be out at a dinner party, but they try to get out of it and get back to their job as a leader.
This may be the reason why the neighbor's sister has been able to dance for 8 years, and what makes a person successful in a certain field, persistence is more important than talent.
Remember Zuo Pengfei, the college student who took a 2.01 million dollar a year job at Huawei upon graduation? When asked about the secret of his success, he said, "Where is the genius? I'm spending all the time others play games in the lab."
Zuo Pengfei in school during the study, 5 years as one day every day in the laboratory to carry out scientific research exploration, sometimes a day to stay on more than 10 hours, it is because of the accumulation of such a down-to-earth, so that he can be in the period of doctoral studies, published more than 10 high-level papers, do a good job of precipitation and accumulation, which is the reason that he graduated from the Huawei was selected.
When we see what we insist on doing as important, we can stick to it and do it without distractions.
2. The rewards of being a good lead dancer
As a lead dancer, you must have strong self-learning skills and an altruistic heart.
The process of self-learning is a process of self-summarization and improvement. From choosing a dance program to learning it well, one's patience and perseverance will be tested, and one's willingness to selflessly pass on what one has learned to others will unknowingly build up one's altruistic heart.
From time to time, I have seen my neighbor's sister practicing alone at home over and over again, trying to figure out each new dance move on her own. I believe she is happy in this process, because learning on one's own and giving on one's own initiative is the process of growing in self-worth.
This is true for adults, but also for children. My daughter often comes back and says, "She is especially grateful to her classmates, and she can ask them for advice on many difficult points of knowledge."
The daughter's desk is a particularly good girl, she helped her classmates in the process, did not delay their own learning, but on the contrary, the academic performance of the sesame seed blossom --- higher and higher.
Analyzing the reasons, the girl in order to help her classmates, certainly will take the initiative to prepare in advance, listen carefully in class, after class seriously review, when her classmates to ask her for advice, and then let her to the knowledge of the review and sorting out of a time, which is willing to pay the biggest gain after. When the child learns to pay, it will learn to take the initiative to grow up, so the excellent can not be blocked.
3. Everyone should have a stage in their hearts
For us, everyone should have a stage in their hearts, just like the neighboring sister, every day to lead the dance position as the biggest stage. When their own pattern of enlargement, the social division of labor no size, learn to respect their own work is engaged in or are learning knowledge, I believe that the gold will always shine.
Jack Ma, the founder of Ali, has experienced the failure of the examination of key elementary school, the failure of the examination of key high school, the examination of the university examined three years before the examination, and miss Harvard University has not succeeded.
But he always had a dream and believed that he could do something. In the end, "the sword sharpens from the sharpening, the fragrance of plum blossoms from the bitter cold", Ma Yun finally dreamed of reality, in their own life on the stage, and even in the world on the stage of the flow of light and color.
How big is the heart, how big is the stage, we all learn to do the lead dancer, do not miss the past, do not fear the future, adhere to their own persistence, I believe that there will be a harvest.