"Then do you have your favorite job now?" I pressed.
She thought about it and replied that she hadn't found it yet, then spat out her tongue and said something naughty, "If you don't love your job, your mood is easy to be bad."
I immediately told her, then do not resign. I was able to say naughty words, and I think the mood is bad, but not bad.
And why do you want to resign?
And why would you want to quit? As far as I know, your job is not too tiring even though you occasionally work overtime. The key salary is not low. I don't object to you pursuing your ideals, but why would you give up your current sixpence if you haven't discovered your moon yet?
In addition, you do not have to necessarily love your work, you have to love more should be your life. Realize that there are twenty-four hours in a day and it is only a third of them. Work is just a part of your life, not the whole of your life. In addition to work, you have to love, there are many, many more.
She looked at me in surprise, probably not having been educated like that. Because the education we received from childhood is to love the work, and even the year-end summary should be so confessed two sentences. Not so confessed as if he did not work seriously, sorry leadership sorry unit like.
The next meal time, it became my political class. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it," he said. I like this kind of lecture. Of course she ended up paying for it, which I liked even more.
There's a lot of innate factors in this thing called passion. Just like liking someone, if you don't like it, you don't like it, and there's no way you can become fond of it by practicing it over and over again. Put on the work, is the same reason. You don't love it, and I'm afraid it's hard to practice to make yourself love it.
Of course, it's best for a person to work at a job they love. Because then the work becomes enjoyable, not just a responsibility, and the value created is obvious. For example, Albert Einstein and Madame Curie made their great discoveries by enjoying their work.
Just how many of these people are there? Most of us have a hard time connecting our work to our love of it. Look at the current college students to know, fill in the time, are running to the ideal, to the graduation of the contract and how many and their own volunteers in line with it?
But do not love to quit? Wrong! You can't just love someone at first sight and pull him into the blacklist? Although you can not become lovers, you can still drink tea and chat with each other, and treat each other as a good friend.
The same should be true for the work, you not only should not quit, on the contrary, you have to work harder. Do not love, not equal to the need to refuse, can be perfunctory. You can not love, but at least be serious. You can't be good at it, you should at least do it with respect and caution.
This is what we now say, socialist core values in the "love and dedication". You should know that respect is also a kind of love.
Don't shy away from the fact that it's just a means of earning a living, a means of earning a living, so what? Most people in this society are in this kind of working condition. But even if it is just a means of livelihood, you have to be a means of clever people. Only then can it give you the greatest reward.
You don't and shouldn't ask for more happiness from your work, you should look for more happiness outside of eight hours. If you look at the square dancing old men and women, they don't work at all, but they all look like they have found the second spring on earth.
So if your job is not where your interests lie, then you should go outside of work to discover and cultivate your interests. Not just for your enjoyment of life now, but for your future as a fulfilled and happy old lady.
You can learn to play the guitar. Didn't you say you wanted to carry a guitar to a faraway place and meet your Prince Charming? Now that you have the time and the money, why don't you revive your little dream?
You can also go to the gym to practice a yoga and so on, and when you practice out of the waistline small waist, it is estimated that the ride on the white horse will be queuing up to shake the number.
These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the world for a long time.
I said it was a lot of fun, and she listened to it with a lot of light in her eyes. I continue to give her a beautiful blueprint.
Of course you can also travel on vacation, the world is so big, of course, must go to see. To the Bayinbruk grassland horse, to the Maldives fishing, to the snowy plateau sing a "sky road", to Kilimanjaro see the snow.
Dear, you see, in addition to work, life has so much fun. Why do you have to see the moon on your sixpence? Your moon should be beyond your sixpence.
She looked at me and laughed out loud and said, "Teacher, you said one should have a poetic world apart from the present life."
I quickly stopped and said: "Don't don't don't, this is not what I said, this is what Wang Xiaobo said."
"Right!" She slammed the table, "It was Bo who said it!"
Even "Bo" such a meaty name she called out, she is not drunk, I am simply to be drunk.
Soon after this meal, she went back to Beijing. And I started the daily weeding between the seedlings of the gardener's life. And my peaches and plums fight, the day is also colorful.
When I look at her circle of friends, I find that she is really in Beijing, a music studio called what three strings of two products enrolled in a guitar class, and from time to time, she will pass a few pictures of her holding the guitar singing and a small video, has been a model.
She also began the process of gym fitness, the circle of friends of the photo, she is a tight suit, small face red and sweaty. Although we have not yet seen the waistline, but the body is really getting better and better.
And what's getting better is not only her figure, but also her mindset. Two days ago she passed me a picture of her in a bright red swimsuit, wearing sunglasses, "scratching her head" on the beach, asking me to guess where.
"It's hard to believe you actually went fishing in the Maldives," I asked.
"No fishing, but there was wine." She texted back in a second, "Our company rewards the best employees for sunbathing in Bali!"
Looks like I was wrong after all, there's no moon in a sixpence, but through it you can still see your moon ah.