01
In this world, we want too many things, but too little effort for it, when we do something, always think of the worst results first, so that my self-confidence at once.
In the end, the time has passed, and we did not complete my value, the real let a person sigh.
In fact, if you are in a limited time, really hard, then the result must not be this way.
When you try hard and find that I do not have any achievements, then your efforts, is a pseudo-effort.
In our life, the result is the least lie, if the result makes you not satisfied, then it is not enough effort.
We are surrounded by a lot of such people, verbalizing what I want to become, and then turning their heads and picking up their phones to brush up short videos.
While saying, I want to become the most victorious businessman, certainly the roots do a whole lot, but in the process of hard struggle, in addition to learning to play the game, come in to pick up the bar and drink, the other important things a piece of nothing.
Incredible, the final result, basically, is not what I had promised "ambitious".
So don't be a person who only verbalizes the slogan of hard work, because you finally get the result, basically will not accompany you in the play.
02
"Talk Show Conference" believe that many people have watched, but also know that Li Xueqin is a dark horse.
Some people say that Li Xueqin is so lucky that she just started to talk about stand-up comedy and got a good result of the top 5 in the country.
Many people feel that God has been extraordinarily kind to her, and it seems that she has won so easily without any effort at all.
In fact, Li Xueqin really worked hard, just that you did not see it.
People who are familiar with Li Xueqin know that she is a graduate of Peking University and was the top student in Liaoning Province at the time.
If a person doesn't work hard, how can he or she become the top student in a province and how can he or she get into Peking University?
The reason why we see others having an easy time is that they are constantly working hard in the center where we can't see them.
This world, there is no sudden luck, there is just do not give up the persistence.
It is with persistence that there is but fruit, and then there is a cloud of lightness.
Before, a friend is particularly hard, every time we chat, she said on the mouth that I basically do not try, but behind the scenes is almost rampant.
Because of the mouth said not to work hard, when the time to get results, others will think it is a miracle, but life where there are so many miracles.
Friends are self-taught law, along the way through the hardships, finally passed the examination, we seem to think that this result is very easy for her, but God knows she paid a few.
It is the rampant effort that makes the result seem effortless.
Whether studying or working, whether you can work hard, may be able to fool a lot of people, but definitely can not fool but the results, when the results are presented, you say I have worked especially hard, then no one believes.
Japanese drama "bottom of the hot girl" I believe that some friends have seen, the girl at the beginning of the bottom of the bottom of the study, not the slightest interest, and finally she met a teacher, in the teacher's encouragement, under my own efforts, she finally get the fantasy of the university.
Many times, as long as the qualitative change to provoke qualitative change, but we seem to be reluctant to do so, just want to eat a bite of fat, not knowing that this is really very sad.
03
If you don't know how to pave the way for your own life, and don't go to work hard, then the result can only be to make myself worse.
You may be able to mix the time for my complacency, but I do not know the time also mixed you.
A few years ago I had a fellow student who said he wanted to go to graduate school so that he could have more confidence in his future employment.
I know my degree well, so I don't have that much ambition, so I can only send him my best wishes.
At the beginning, after this window finished, put into the active preparation for the examination, every day, "learning" to the blackout, and also from time to time in the circle of friends sunshine his day of "effort".
At that time, I could see from his circle of friends that he was working very hard every day. In my opinion, a person who works so hard will surely win, not to mention graduate school, and I am glad to see that he is working hard to get his doctorate.
After that, due to work reasons, we are disconnected, until last year I went back to school to do something, after the teacher only know, that vow to graduate school students, did not test, the results came out on the day he slipped back to his hometown.
Then I was a little surprised, really, that time he simply every day is "sleep and food", I work late to work, come home to see him just sent soon after the circle of friends, he is still holding the book to see.
How can a person who works so hard not be favored by God?
The teacher seemed to see my doubts, so he said to me with a smile:
"Are you deceived by his friend circle? How can he work so hard to prepare for the examination, of course, the examination is not too difficult, but if you do not actively prepare for the examination, it is also very difficult to get into the examination, which he himself knows very well.
At the beginning of his preparation for graduate school, I also encouraged him, and then I was also infected by his circle of friends, thinking that he reads every day until midnight.
In practice, where he is really preparing for the exam, he spent most of his time playing games, just take time off to take out a book to bask in the sun and disguise the effort."
Listening to the teacher's words, I was a little lost, but only for a split second. After all, it was his own life, how he wanted it to turn out, he himself said.
Even if he didn't live as he wanted to, it's just that he perfumed himself. In fact, life, many people like my fellow students, verbal shouting efforts, in practice, but quietly played the other, than the game.
I hid myself smug, thought I sent all the dynamic will cause others to envy and praise, but the result is not what he wanted.
Because of this, you can't basically get the results you want by pretending to work hard, and what you're swindling is not other people, but you yourself.
When you personally believe that my play, in fact, you have lost, because the results will not accompany you in the play.
If all the efforts are false, then this effort, there is a meaning?
The final result must be difficult for me to bear, at any time to know, want and get between and do, if you really want to fulfill my fantasy, let me become better, then try it.
I believe that when you try, there will be wonders.
What do you think?