So many people think, look, it must be cold! Learn to hold on a bit, and give each other an illusion that they can't get it, so that after the other party catches up, they will know how to cherish themselves more. That's true, but people who talk like this only know one thing and don't know the other, and they make the mistake of putting the cart before the horse. You know, the underlying logic of love is that when we really get along, in the end, we still regard each other as a person, as charm, as skills, or that these common things really work.
Because love is a process of becoming desperate. Your cleverness and cleverness can deceive people at most, but it is definitely not enough to keep each other. Get along for half a year, don't say a little scheming. Everyone knows that there are several boils on the buttocks.
Therefore, the only thing that can really determine the quality and stability of getting along with each other is what kind of person you are, not what kind of attitude you have put in before.
The best love is that two people hit it off without any routine. That's what love should be like. Pinky, routine, increasing difficulty, stinking atmosphere-this is called disappointing, which is interesting and boring for you.
Therefore, the trick of deliberately keeping each other's appetite defiles the word love itself. Besides, if you can really catch each other for a few and a half months, it can only mean one thing. You don't even like each other. If you like him, you can't restrain the most primitive impulse in your heart at all. If you really like him, how can you be so rational? You'll do some fucking routine to play hard to get, and I can't help it. Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he likes. I want to be shameless to him. Whoever stops me, I'm in a hurry.
This thing, like holding urine, has a limit, and people can't stand it if they hold it to a certain extent. Therefore, if you can't find someone, it is enough to do one thing, self-improvement, personal value and emotional value. Before that person comes, you have become smart, knowledgeable, good-looking, interesting and profound enough to meet each other in your best way.