It shows like a woman, and it doesn't need heavy makeup. At the very least, it should be clean and tidy, and people like beautiful things. Even girls walking in the street will look at beautiful girls, not to mention the opposite sex.
I really have a deep feeling about this. Looking back on these two years, in order to facilitate fitness (actually because of laziness), I wore loose sportswear every day. In the end, I simply lost my long hair and didn't wear makeup. I couldn't use up a bottle of foundation for several years. If I seldom put on makeup once, I was told by my colleagues that I was a different person. But every time I put on high heels, I really felt very confident and would be accosted when I walked on the road.
Because of the relationship between work and life, I still keep my current style at this point, but I will wear a lipstick to enhance my complexion. Usually, if I have a date, I will wear a simple makeup. When it comes to makeup, the teacher said that it is not necessary to have a sophisticated makeup artist, but I can have a makeup that can take care of most occasions. At this point, I can do it. Although it is not very delicate and compatible, it is not too bad. If I want to improve, there is still room for improvement.
? The second point: the deep level of women's energy is the balance of Yin and Yang, and the energy attribute of different occasions should be corrected < P > With the rise of modern women's power, most women hold up half the sky in their workplace life, with a strong sense of purpose and control. From the beginning to the end, the first priority is positive energy, which is actually available to both men and women. We can see the negative energy in some traditional women, such as the women in the old society who married the chicken and followed the dog. They didn't have any sense of goal and control, and they didn't have any opinions. They respected him, but they controlled and interfered more. Like water, negative energy is indisputable in water conservancy, but it has deep influence.
Men and women have the most abundant energy when they just take off their singles, but once they get married, girls become eager to control everything, give directions and become positive energy. Life is like grasping at sand. The tighter you grasp it, the more you can't grasp it. Relax and gently hold it, but you can grasp it.
"Like-sex repel, opposite-sex attract", I was really shocked when I heard the teacher talk about this point! It turns out that you can still think like this, and it's really enlightening! When you become more positive energy, the other person has only two ways, either "full of negative energy" or "full of positive energy". When he also exists with positive energy, the same sex will repel each other and the relationship between the two people will be bad; When the other person exists with negative energy, you will feel that the other person is incompetent and cowardly, so you must first correct your energy attributes in your feelings. But many girls use a set of labels in all aspects, for example, it is not feasible to use a set of labels in their careers in their emotions and lives, because they are not your subordinates and colleagues. The third point: let us have female energy by dancing female energy dance
The core of female energy dance is freedom, relaxation, non-performance, and no need to dance in front of the mirror. At the same time, when we dress up beautifully, it will also bring out female energy. Most men don't relax, and when we relax ourselves, it will also affect the relaxation of people around us.
I've heard my sisters talk about female energy dance before, but they didn't start dancing until the emotional camp, and only a few times in class. Today, I danced a few songs seriously in class, and closed the curtains. I just felt very relaxed and danced at will in the dark ~ Oh, my God, I clearly saw myself twisting my slender waist and ass in the video, and my hair was so beautiful and extremely feminine that I had never seen myself like this, charming and sexy!
fourth point: coquetry is not necessary for women. What men need most is the four levels of beauty of women (increasing in order: self-confidence, truthfulness, fun, acceptance, respect and relaxation)
I have always been a person who can't coquetry, and I feel awkward. I think it is a shameful thing, but this does not affect our charm explosion. I feel very good about the four core levels of self-confidence, truthfulness and fun of women. Because teacher Yi Jia said that she is also a person with strong logic and ability, but she can be hermaphrodite through study and become the woman who switches states at will and is extremely attractive in front of the screen. I think I can do it at this point! !
my misunderstanding
? Compared with men in everything, we should be excellent in all aspects, without accepting the natural advantages of the role of women.
When I was a child, my mother always said in front of me, "You see whose son is so powerful, why can't you?" At that time, I planted the seeds of "I must be better than boys" from the bottom of my heart, especially unconvinced, and I must fight for a high or low level.
When entering the society, all kinds of media are selling anxiety. Women should have their own sense of security, have money, a caravan and a beautiful figure. Only in this way can they have confidence and self-confidence and have the ability to resist risks. As a result, I worked harder to improve myself in all aspects, afraid of being eliminated, abandoned, and afraid of losing the right to choose. All this is based on resisting fear, feeling out of control, and mastering a full sense of security.
and those who haggle over every ounce, are gentle and virtuous, and surround themselves with pots and pans, children and husbands all day, are particularly worthless and cowardly in my eyes. The attractive women in my eyes are all-round career and family, and their personal charm is also UpUp! So I began to improve myself in an all-round way. At that time, my direction was very clear, and I wanted to become a better person! Fitness never dares to stop, enhance the external image, and study tirelessly (although there have been detours in the past few years, this is growth), and even some aspects can reach a state that people look up to.
but I know very well that my heart is soft and my appearance is hard. I just don't know how to express my gentleness. What I have to do now is to accept the natural advantages of my own women, appreciate the advantages of men, see if there is anything I can learn, and win through cooperation; At the same time, take advantage of natural advantages, talk well and dance female energy dance every day. In choosing a spouse, it is not necessary for the other party to have a house and a car, but I have to have a house and a car to feel a match. It is the ability to turn the other party's RV into his home and help him get the warmth of home, rather than finding a partner to start a company. A set of labels is applied to all propositions
Before that, I was a person with strong sense of self-planning: strong sense of purpose, strong planning and strong execution. This is not wrong, but I also used these in my life and emotions. Without flexibility and easy-going, my sense of control made people just want to escape. Now that I think about it, in the relationship between my parents, I always forced to listen to me. I did it for their own good, but I didn't understand it and even thought I was strong. Now I understand that a set of labels is not suitable for everyone. I can be gentle and casual in my life, but I must have positive energy when I stick to the bottom line or in the workplace.
This requires us to be a multi-faceted baby and switch the energy of Yin and Yang in the body at any time according to the occasion; If only one label can be used to deal with all occasions, it is also to choose negative energy. Those women who live well are strong in negative energy, and it will be easy to combine positive energy.
Now, I want to double my female energy by dancing female energy dance every day, and switch my energy attributes at will according to the occasion, so as to become a versatile baby!
Ps, when I saw Athena's state today, I was very gentle, and I didn't fight for it. Just smiling at you can make you relax. Even I am a woman who likes it, let alone others. When she said, "Who hasn't got an idea yet?" I really think this woman is not simple, which fully embodies "respect and acceptance". I have to think about this sentence!
action plan
? Now I've decided to dance for 15 minutes every day, put on a beautiful silk dress with suspenders and high heels, and give full play to my feminine energy. I believe that some of my small habits, such as speaking fast and eating fast, will be naturally affected after the energy of yin and yang is balanced by repeated repetition.
? Be grateful every day and send gratitude to each other. Laughter+gratitude is the best way to repay < P >? Don't use a set of standards in all occasions of life, you can have enough positive energy at work, full of negative energy in life, accept and respect everything, and switch between yin and yang energy at will!
? Separate the expected value from the target value, find a boy who meets the expected value as soon as possible, and practice it as soon as possible. Haha, I envy that boy, and I have a friend Lu who has strong learning ability, certificates and many faces!
Ps, today, I told a friend of the opposite sex that I'm studying female emotional energy multiplication recently, and I'm especially supportive, saying that I'll be more attractive like this.