I don't know when this sentence has been regarded as a wise saying.
compared with loving others, being loved by others is a happier thing, which seems to be the case.
but in fact?
In My Piece of Cloud, Duan Wanlu gave up Meng Qiao, who loved her, and chose Gu Youlan, who loved her, and got an unfortunate ending.
Duan wanlu abandoned the person he really loved, which was forced.
My boyfriend Meng Qiao's mother is very strict and rigid, and she is pregnant with the mentality of finding fault with the eggs. She thinks Duan Wanlu is not dignified and elegant enough, and even more thinks that she is the illegitimate daughter of a dancer with a disgraceful background. She resolutely opposes her son's love with this girl. The Meng family is a large family with an innocent family style, and the daughters-in-law from generation to generation are well-behaved and have never made any mistakes. It is impossible to accept Duan Wanlu.
all the virtues's filial piety comes first. Meng Qiao can't abandon his mother and choose a girlfriend. He and Duan Wanlu can only break up.
Duan Wanlu was so sad that she impulsively decided to marry Gu Youlan, the son of Professor Duan's good friend.
Gu Youlan is also excellent, and his condition is not worse than Meng Qiao's. He also loves Duan Wanlu very much, treats her very well, and his family is easy to get along with. No one makes things difficult for Duan Wanlu like Meng Mu.
However, Duan Wanlu still couldn't forget Meng Qiao. Later, when they met again, there was another spark in generate.
Duan wanlu asked for a divorce and married her true love.
She said that she is a flame, Gu Youlan is a calm lake water, and there is no way for water and fire to be compatible.
Mrs Duan, the foster mother, advised her that she would rather be a calm lake water than a dangerous flame.
Duan Wan is rebellious at heart. What she needs is the fanatical love like Meng Qiao with similar personality, not the quiet love like Gu Youlan.
She once thought that she could accept Gu Youlan and heal her wounds with his love, but she still felt that the calm of the safe haven was not as good as the passion of the storm, which made her yearn for it.
So she asked Gu Youlan to let go and let her pursue true love.
Gu Youlan gave all his love, so how could he let go? He didn't want to divorce.
The stalemate between them led to Gu Youlan's lack of sleep and fatigue, and she fell off the scaffolding at work.
Duan Wanlu rushed to the hospital, and the doctor said that Gu Youlan was dead. Mrs. Gu, who lost her beloved son, also scolded Duan Wanlu like Meng Mu.
Then Duan Wanlu went crazy. No matter who asked her anything, she would only answer: I am a cloud.
Duan wanlu married the person who loved her, but she couldn't let go of the person she loved. She insisted on running to the person she loved, regardless of the sincere efforts of the person who loved her, and eventually hurt the person who loved her, and she could not escape conscience and went insane.
love is beautiful, but it is not handled properly, and it will bring harm to people if it is allowed to flood.