? She was born without arms, gradually she grew up and began to notice that she was different from others. So she asked her mother: "Mom why am I different from other children without arms?" Her mother heard the pain in her heart but forced a smile on her face and said: "Silly child, because you were originally an angel in heaven, but when you were born, you accidentally left your wings in heaven, so you became like this." The little girl nodded in realization.
Suddenly one day, that mother had the doctor fit her with delicate prosthetics. This made her realize once again that she was different and became self-conscious. In her life she was horrified at the fact that she had no arms as she was dependent on her parents for everything including washing her face and brushing her teeth. This is a simple thing for a normal person to do, but she is unable to do anything about it. Because of this, she was ridiculed among her peers and as a result, she had an even lower self-esteem.
At that time, her classmates loved to play swing. You can always hear their happy laughter and see their figures flying in the air after class. But she could only hide in an inconspicuous place, silently watching them play happily. Only after they left did she dare to walk to the front of the swing and sit down, swinging there alone. The heart also fantasized that he had found his wings and was flying freely in the boundless sky.
? When she was 14 years old, she went to Hawaii with her parents to play, and saw the seagulls spreading their wings under the blue sky to fly freely, so she couldn't help but say: "If only I had a pair of wings too." At that moment an old man appeared behind her and said in a hoarse voice: "Remember, child, those wings are hidden in your heart." When she heard these words, she wanted to turn around and take a look, but she was shocked by the scene in front of her. All that was visible was the old man with the lower half of his body completely gone, supported by a board and four wheels. After she talked with the old man, she learned that he had traveled to many countries and seen countless beautiful landscapes by the power of his hands to row the wheels. As she was saying goodbye to the old man, she still remembered what the old man had said to her.
? After she came back from Hawaii, she worked hard to exercise her feet, using her feet to write homework, eat ...... Once, she exercised her toes until she had no feeling and went swimming. As a result, her feet suddenly cramped, and when she was about to drown, thanks to the coach's timely discovery to pull her back from the brink of death, she was able to continue to live. Thanks to her tireless efforts, she can now use her feet as well as her arms, even play the piano and drive a car. And she graduated from a prestigious university with a master's degree in psychology.
? All of this was enough to make her and her parents proud, but she couldn't forget her childhood dream of flying in the sky.
? So she went to take the handicapped aircraft pilot license, and finally, with the help of the coach and her own efforts, it took six years to realize her dream. She is the American girl Jessica.
? After listening to this story, you find the answer?
In fact, the physical disability, the environment of the hardships, can not determine the fate of a person's life in the end how. Because no matter what, a person's heart is strong, and the dream is the same, so the heart and the dream then become the innate wings of each person. If you spread them, your life will shine. And there are two ways to spread your wings, one is to make the mind strong.
The reason why the mind can gradually become strong is because people are constantly growing. I'm not sure if I've ever seen this before, but I'm sure I've seen it before, and I've seen it before. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. Every time you grow, you have to pay a heavy price, so that the mind will slowly become strong and get beautiful and valuable things. Not only that, but years later, when you remember how you grew, you are bound to be thankful for who you were. Even if you accidentally shed a tear on the way to remembering these moments, your heart will still be sweet.
The above is the first method, while the second is to determine a dream, and then find ways to realize it through their own efforts. I don't know if you've ever heard the saying "As long as you have a goal and a dream, the ordinary can become extraordinary." But the premise of this saying is that you have enough stamina and unremitting efforts. You can do a little bit every day, but do not "three days fishing, two days sunshine net". Otherwise, your dream can only be regarded as a daydream, and you can only think about it in your mind every day. However, if you want to give up your dream, I hope that in the future you will not regret that you have made this decision.
Finally, I hope you can spread your own invisible wings like Jessica did, and fly to the other side of success.