One of the benefits of doing so is that these writings center around the life of a famous person and the growth of his mind, and you will see the life of a flesh-and-blood character, and you will learn the inner structure of his knowledge. When you read a dozen or so research monographs on Su Shi, the characterization of Su Shi will come alive and clear.
It is advisable to make an extracurricular reading program for yourself, preferably starting with a work on the study of a famous figure. For example, Su Shi study, Du Fu study Tao Yuanming study Kant study Russell study Wittgenstein study and so on.
Two,Finally, one day he stood in front of you smiling, chatting with you over a cup of tea, wantonly laughed, the book has its own confidant to come, the text is also high friends sit. When Su Shi, Du Fu, Li Bai, Russell, Kant, some of these great figures with you to discuss the universe, life, the heart will be open.
Then you look at the people and things around you, and naturally you will also be open-minded and relieved.
You have such a great circle of friends, will you still be lonely? Will you still be grumbling in real life because of your roommate's coldness?
You have long stood at a higher altitude to look down on everything around you smile compassionate compassionate, you will become confident and wise tolerance of the clouds and light The reason why I did not recommend you to read biographies of celebrities, because this thing is very easy to bring you biased, because the writing of biographies of celebrities do not have a few good works, is more like a marketing product, you read more, it's easy to become a magician like the existence of a god.
And by following my previous advice, you'll become an independent thinker and even a scholar. You should open up new social situations, internship unit seniors and colleagues, online car drivers, milk tea store boy, supermarket bosses, construction site subcontracting, neighborhood security guards and cleaners moncler outlet online, square dance sword Tai Chi amazons days group, should be your release of goodwill initiative to talk to the object.
Three, friends are not lovers, have to be one-to-one loyalty, you cast the net as wide as possible, from the sky amount of social personnel in the encounter with those with whom you have a deep **** Ming
.
Instead, expect to accomplish quality socialization in a dog crate. Rest assured college loneliness is the norm!
In high school, there was no competition between students in a class when all was said and done! Because everyone ends up going to basically different schools, it's very
rare for two people to go to the same school, so instead of competing, they're competing with candidates from all over the province, in which case there's very little
competition for everyone's benefit!
But university is not quite the same, the competition is naked and clear, it's with the people around you in the same program!
Being a member of the party is also
good, scholarships, graduate school or employment! The former good brothers and sisters in the same dormitory, may be because of the pressure on your head, so that
You disqualified above these qualifications! How can you make friends in this context of directly related interests?
So basically everyone is sweeping the snow in front of their doors and trying to maximize their own interests! The benefits are so many, you maximize, inevitably
someone will not be able to share anything! So even if there's no conflict, there's still a conflict at the end of the day! This will make a lot of people feel that the university compared to high school in terms of interpersonal
interaction, to be a lot of cold!
In summary, I suggest that college students do not waste too much energy on socializing, socializing and then good it can not help you join the party, can not help you get a scholarship
gold, can not help you to keep graduate school, can not help you find a job to get a high salary! College students should then put their main focus on improving themselves! As the saying goes
"Freshman year for GPAs, sophomore year for competitions, junior year for papers."
Four, GPA, competition and thesis can be said to be the three carriages of undergraduate study! Early start to prepare, the morning car, early benefit!
When people around you are slacking off, it is the best chance for you to make a comeback and further widen the gap! In the end, you can graduate school, they only
can graduate school! You can get a national scholarship they can not get! You can be financially independent, they are still asking parents for tuition! You can get
big factory offers, they can not!
The gap is in the usual little by little to be pulled apart, if you do not roll you lie flat, then the above "they" may become your self
self!
Finally, how do you do it? I suggest you take a look at my previous two replies, both of which are highly favorable and have already benefited some people
! So why shouldn't it be you who benefits!
Please stay away from useless socializing! You'll realize that college is actually quite hectic, freshman year is a blur, sophomore year is a blur, but junior year is when you start waking up to the fact that where is the future?
Money and emotional wanting more and not having more causes a deeper blow to relationships between young men and women instead of progressing with each other.
Loneliness must exist with hustle and bustle*** for it to be benign; loneliness alone leads to solitude, which is a state of perdition. In short, there is not so much light time that can be wasted for you.
Fifth, what can friends in college bring you? You will have some dopamine **** with the outbreak of time: together to watch entertainment variety show, together to jerk, together to talk about gossip, together to watch the ball game, together to spit out the life of this and that. But other than that, there is nothing special, or before the exams you organize cheat sheets together all night memorization, and pointing out each other's emotional experience, and that's it. So there are no close friends in college, in my opinion is not very important, of course, when the age is still relatively small, think all this
very important, but when you will be in the future in the community after the experience. These four years are going to be over when you say they are over, and then where to go? Is to go abroad to study, try to graduate school or the examination of the public examination of the career, or ready to apply for a decent job, non-their ability to bear the scope of the payment, will form a huge pressure feedback itself, for a few thousand dollars online loans to commit suicide couples and so on many people in the community is in any case can not understand a few thousand dollars to commit suicide is what the mentality of the person is in fact, is the pressure.
You will find that when you are really good, others will be close to you, or even if you are incredibly good, there are people who do not like you, there are people who are jealous of you, so it does not matter at all, pay more attention to their own can be.
Need to adapt to this lonely, enjoy this lonely life on the road, no matter how many relatives, friends, loved ones and children in fact, in the end, from birth to old age, there is only one person, life is always only their own is always accompanied by their own everyone is so, think clearly on it.