Why do people always know how to cherish only after losing?

People always have a kind of cheapness, is to feel that they already have it does not feel fresh, will breed all kinds of ideas, so finally made to the other side left, only to realize that they are not right, this is a kind of human disease.

Remember Eason Chan lyrics have this sentence "can not get always in the commotion, be loved always have no fear", get will never cherish, except when you lose.

A friend of mine in the lost love, a variety of depression can not be eliminated, so her friend introduced her to a boy said yes, even if it is a chat day, so after finishing a variety of ex-boyfriends are not, the girl suddenly figured out completely let go. But the boy is with the girl is different, through so many days together, the boy felt that the girl is still good, so decided to continue with the girl.

So the two intercommunicated photos, but the girl in fact is not very like this boy this, but the boy has been said to be very like me this friend, so hold try to see the attitude, began to get along.

While the middle of the two had also been the end of the two people, but the boy was never willing. So my friend continued to get along, finally in a national holiday, I this friend ran to the boy's city, the two people also finally together.

If you think I'm going to tell a successful love story, then you're wrong, and then because of various reasons, the boy actually began to make, like suddenly and inexplicably said to break up, said a variety of words, even said break up on the break up, make my friend is very puzzled ah, what is the situation ah this.

My friend also belongs to the older female youth, the family urges the marriage of tight, but now there is no one else ah, so let the boy to go, this person to go, but the girl's family means to let down a few thousand to the marriage is set, the boy actually all kinds of avoidance, and even do not answer the phone.

My friend's family can be anxious, so let her matchmaking, who knows that this boy knows my friend matchmaking news actually not anxious, even in the middle of not through a phone call.

My friend is completely dead, after the New Year is ready to end this relationship, and then met another boy, the two get along well, ready to get married, the results of my friend's ex-boyfriend like a swindle out, a variety of said he regretted, or very much in love with my friend, want to salvage, but always still late.

After listening to my friend, the ex-boyfriend also said that he regretted his behavior at the time, but in my opinion this is typical of the work, after getting not to cherish, and finally the person to make no, they can vigorously stay regret to go.

The saddest thing in life is not to have never had, but to have had, but because they do not cherish each other lost, empty stay their own regret.