Everyone had a good chat at dinner, but when it was time to pay the bill, no one moved first. When the waiter came over and asked who would pay the bill, no one spoke first, and everyone bowed their heads and said nothing. Some people even go out to go to the bathroom first. I was really embarrassed to see that no one moved, so I took out my mobile phone and paid the waiter. Just after paying the bill, the people who went to the toilet came back and asked, if not, I'll pay. In this case, I took part in one game instead of the second. What should you do when no one wants to stand out when colleagues have dinner and pay the bill?
1. Don't eat in a daze.
You can go to dinner, but don't go in a daze. It's really time to check out, and I don't even know how to spend the money. It is inevitable for colleagues to get together for dinner, but there will definitely be competition and distrust during this period. If you want to go to a dinner party, you must first decide whether to go or not, and go happily without knowing anything. You know, the more casual the party, the more people want to escape.
If it's really AA, it's ok to go. Spend your own money and keep your feelings. Although talking about money hurts feelings, eating in a muddle hurts feelings even more.
2. Ask who is in charge at the party.
There is always a dinner party, so in order to avoid embarrassment, you can go to the owner. At the end of the banquet, we can ask, "Who is the host today? Let's transfer the money to him! " Talking like this will not offend people, avoid embarrassment, and also prevent the behavior of some people who want to escape from singles. It's better than everyone never talking.
If you decide to want AA, you'd better start collecting money from the group and let everyone send money to the group, but it's inevitable that those people will always say something like "I'll give you a red envelope when I go back", but some will give it, and some will really disappear, which is not good for you to go further. If there is, don't ask for it, just spend money to buy a lesson.
Pay for yourself and leave.
Anyone who is not careful doesn't mean AA, so they don't want to pay. If you don't want to be so embarrassed, you can pay, but you have to guess whether this meal is beyond your ability. After paying, consider it a lesson you have paid. They humiliated them, and you betrayed your own interests.
A wine game reflects not only your wine, but also your character. For people who don't even have the minimum character, there is no need to contact again. Some feelings are worth touching and some are not. Drink the wine you want most and make friends with the people you want most. This is the most important thing.