Gong Hanlin is a household name as a comedy performer and has appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 20 times, performing classic sketches such as "The Amazing Adventure of Working", "So Packed", "Renovation" and "Neighbors".
Not only that, Gong Hanlin also appeared in more than 70 films and TV dramas such as "Sweet New Business", "Old Sick Man", "The Happy Life of Mother-in-Law", "I Want to Be a Battalion", "Donkey County Order", "Decision Before Dawn", "Old Tavern", etc. He has also appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 20 times.
Gong Hanlin and his wife Jin Zhu had an only son, Gong Tiankuo. After Gong Tiankuo fell in love with his girlfriend, Huang Yihui, Gong Hanlin frantically forced the marriage. After the young couple got married, Gong Hanlin again stepped up to force the birth of a child, and now what is the result?
Gong Hanlin was born in 1957 in Shenyang City, Liaoning Province, graduated from Shenyang Normal University, is a first-class actor in the China Broadcasting Art Troupe.
In 1983, Gong Hanlin married actress Jin Zhu in Shenyang. Jin Zhu was also a native of Shenyang, and the two were like-minded.
On September 6, 1985, the couple gave birth to a son, Gong Tiankuo. Gong Tiankuo inherited his parents' excellent artistic genes and performed on stage at the age of four.
After graduating from junior high school, his parents sent him to the United States to study, and after finishing high school, he enrolled in the directing department at Forsythe University.
In 2009, Gong Tiankuo returned home after his studies and entered the film industry.
With a height of 1.79 meters, he has a sturdy body and handsome looks, and his personal conditions are quite outstanding. In just a few years, he has appeared in many TV dramas such as "Iron Blood Brothers", "I want to be the Eighth Route Army", "Ten Thousand Treasures", etc., and has become a leader among the "Star II".
In December 2012, Gong Tiankuo and actress Huang Yihui fell in love while filming the TV drama "Choice Before Dawn".
Huang Yihui was born in 1991 in Shandong Province, six years younger than Gong Tiankuo. With a height of 1.71 meters, she has an outstanding appearance and a gentle character, quite a lady style.
After the play was finalized, the two established a romantic relationship. Gong Hanlin, who also starred in the play, was thrilled to learn that his son was in love. His son is 27 years old, to the best age of marriage, he hopes that his son will be able to get married soon.
After returning to Beijing, Gong Hanlin invited Huang Yihui to his home as a guest and held a special family meeting. He said: "Now I don't have too high pursuit in my career, the biggest thing is to look forward to your marriage. After you have gotten married, my heart will be steady."
Jin Zhu also stated, "You guys hurry up to get married and have a baby, I am still physically strong and can help you bring up the child."
Gong Tiankuo felt that his parents were in too much of a hurry, as many actors and actresses are still in love in their 40s, and he is only 27, which is not too old, so what if he gets married five years later?
Gong Tiankuo replied to his parents, "Xiao Huang and I want to shoot for a few years first, and then consider marriage after five years."
Gong Hanlin's blood pressure skyrocketed: 5 years, how long! How many stories can happen in 5 years? He was worried that his son had been in love with Huang Yihui for too long, and that he would not have the passion to get married in the future. Because he has seen a lot of such couples around, after a few years of love and break up, never want to get married.
Gong Hanlin asked Huang Yihui: "Huang, what do you think?" Huang Yihui whispered, "I listen to Cheon Gwak."
It seems that the two have the same idea, and Gong Hanlin is no longer calm.
After Huang Yihui left, Jin Zhu advised her husband, "The two have just established a romantic relationship, you are forcing the marriage, is a little bit too hasty, urging the marriage to take their time." Gong Hanlin felt that his wife's words made sense, and decided to grind slowly with them later.
In the next few days, Gong Hanlin often invited Huang Yihui to his home as a guest, and we gathered around to make dumplings and sip tea. Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui are both very busy shooting, once the two are free, Gong Hanlin funded them to go out traveling, so that the young couple to deepen their understanding.
Gong Hanlin's colleagues and friends' children get married, he will bring his son and Huang Yihui to the wedding, so that they can feel the happiness of the bride and groom.
In October 2013, Gong Hanlin discussed with Huang Yihui, "I've already taken you as my daughter-in-law in my heart, and we'll be a family from now on. I want to meet your mom and dad and express my gratitude to them." He hoped to meet with Huang's parents in Beijing.
Huang Yihui understood this intention of Gong Hanlin and agreed. Afterwards, Gong Hanlin called Huang's parents and invited them to come to his home.
In mid-October, Huang's parents arrived in Beijing, and Gong Hanlin and Jin Zhu treated them with the highest family courtesy. Gong Hanlin and his wife cooked and drove the Huangs around Beijing.
In the evening, they talked under the lamp, and Gong Hanlin thought about the beautiful future of the young couple. The Huangs have a very good impression of Mr. and Mrs. Gong Hanlin, they think they are simple and sincere, they don't have any celebrities, they are good parents with responsibility.
They expressed this view to their daughter and hoped she would cherish it.
Yes, the personal condition and family background of Gong Tiankuo is what many girls aspire to, and Huang Yihui decided to make good use of this love affair.
After that, when she came to Kung's house as a guest, she would bring small gifts to Mr. and Mrs. Kung Han Lin, and she also took the initiative to help Jin Zhu to take care of the housework. In this way, Gong Hanlin and Jin Zhu were more satisfied.
In 2014, Gong Hanlin felt that his son's relationship with Huang Yihui was ripe, and began to frantically press for marriage again. The young couple had planned to get married a few years later, but because Gong Hanlin was too persistent and annoying to rush them, they had to agree to get married.
Gong Hanlin surprise excitement, the son's marriage as the biggest thing in the family. 2015 Spring Festival, Gong Hanlin and his wife began to decorate their son's wedding room, he let Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui their own choice of decorative style, add furniture and appliances are also their favorite.
After the wedding room was made complete, Gong Hanlin and his wife were preparing for the wedding.
On June 27, 2015, under the organization of Gong Hanlin and his wife, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui held a grand wedding in Beijing.
Just a month after his son and daughter-in-law got married, Gong Hanlin began to push for a baby. The young couple wanted to have a baby a few years later, and Gong Hanlin said, "No, Tiankuo is already 30 years old, not too young, and Yihui has reached the optimal age for childbearing."
Jin Zhu also said to his son and daughter-in-law: "A person to what age, should do something, couples do not have children, focused on fighting career, even if the cause is successful, and how meaningful? Besides, having a baby is not contradictory to doing business."
And Mr. and Mrs. Gong Hanlin often cite the advantages of having a baby now to their son and daughter-in-law, and Gong Tiankuo and his wife were gradually persuaded by their parents. Soon after their marriage, they began to prepare for the conception of a baby.
In December 2015, Huang Yihui became pregnant. Gong Hanlin and his wife pampered their daughter-in-law like a panda, often rushing over to take care of her and reminding her of pregnancy precautions.
In the fall of 2016, Huang Yihui gave birth to a daughter in Beijing, and Gong Hanlin was immersed in the happiness of being a grandfather.
After the baby was half a year old, Huang Yihui started to go out to shoot movies, and Gong Hanlin and Jin Zhu slowed down their work, putting their main energy and time at home to take care of their granddaughter.
When their son and daughter-in-law came home from filming, they sent their granddaughter there, and when their son and daughter-in-law went out to work, they brought their granddaughter back.
Every year in the Spring Festival, Gong Hanlin will give his son and daughter-in-law and granddaughter each a red envelope to thank them for bringing them the joy of heaven. The parents' loving kindness and high emotional intelligence touched Gong Tiankuo and his wife.
After the granddaughter was two years old, Gong Hanlin began to urge his son and daughter-in-law to have a second child. He felt that one child is too lonely, at least two should be born.
At first, Gong Hanlin politely urged to have a second child, Gong Tiankuo and his wife did not answer, because they did not want to have a second child.
Seeing that the young couple did not take a stand, Gong Hanlin began to bluntly urge the birth of a child. Kung Tiankuo felt that his father was interfering too much in their lives, depriving them of the right to choose their lives, and he said he was depressed.
The words made Gong Hanlin feel bad, and now many couples in their 50s are overcoming all kinds of difficulties to have a second child. The son and daughter-in-law are in the best reproductive age, why not have a second child?
In order to avoid parents, since then, Gong Tiankuo and his wife rarely come to their parents' home. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one," he said.
Worried about the escalation of the conflict between father and son, Gong Hanlin and his wife in the past, temporarily do not mention the birth of a baby, the son and daughter-in-law to do housework, together with talk about how to educate the baby. When he wanted to change the subject, mention the birth of a second child, the son immediately interrupted.
Gong Hanlin's heart is more and more entangled, sleep disorders, but also large hair loss.
One day, Gong Tiankuo and his wife came over to visit their parents, and saw their father's emaciated appearance, his face was not good, and they wanted to take him to the hospital. Jin Zhu said that her husband was not sick and recounted how he had insomnia every day because he was obsessed with his son not having a second child. Gong Tiankuo and his wife fell into deep thought.
Gong Hanlin tearfully said to his son and daughter-in-law: "Dad is old, I hope you can have two children, children can grow up healthy. A child is too lonely, two children will bring you more happiness, and we also have the conditions to have a second child."
At that moment, Gong Tiankuo completely understood his father, and Huang Yihui was also impressed by his father-in-law's love, and the young couple agreed to have a second child. When they told Gong Hanlin about their decision, he burst into tears of happiness.
In 2019, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui's youngest daughter was born in Beijing. With two granddaughters, Gong Hanlin felt like the happiest grandfather in the world. He funds nannies for his son and daughter-in-law, and often rushes over with his wife to take care of his granddaughters.
When the nanny has something to do at home, Gong Hanlin and his wife will take the two granddaughters home to take care of them.
Since the birth of his youngest granddaughter, Gong Hanlin has rarely gone out to work and has focused on taking care of his granddaughter at home.
Especially during the New Year's holidays, Gong Hanlin and his wife buy food several days in advance, and then prepare food, fruits and pastries at home to welcome their son's family.
A family of six people gathered around a reunion dinner, Gong Hanlin's heart is particularly ironic.
After becoming a mother, Huang Yihui took fewer plays than before, but Gong Tiankuo's career was not only unaffected, but also climbed.
Over the years, Gong Tiankuo has taken on many TV dramas such as "That's the Thing About Six Pieces and Sixty Six Cents", "Woman in Charge 2", "Rescue of the Flying Tigers", "God's Detective", "Kindly Lies", "There's a Situation in the Village", and "Wuhan, How Are You", and so on.
The arrival of the two daughters, but also let Gong Tiankuo and his wife feel more happiness and joy, they finally understand the father forced marriage forced birth of the good intentions. And they did their own mom and dad, Mr. and Mrs. Gong Tiankuo also more appreciate the parents of the difficult, on both parents also more a filial piety.
Every time he comes home from shooting, Gong Tiankuo and his wife take their two daughters to their parents' house, where he lets his parents play with their two children, and he cooks with his wife.
Watching his son and daughter-in-law busy in the kitchen, watching his two granddaughters running around, and listening to them sweetly call "grandma and grandpa," Gong Hanlin's heart is intoxicated.
December 2021, Gong Hanlin has 64 years old, son and daughter-in-law, a family of four harmonious, he and his wife Jin Zhu feel more hopeful life, the mood is better!
"Fine name" comment: now many young people do not want to get married, do not want to have children, afraid to take responsibility. As parents, at this time should be urged to urge the marriage, to language and action to infect the children, to eliminate their fear of marriage and fear of life psychology.
After the birth of the child, the son or daughter in the workplace, parents in the conditions allow, can help children with children, and even in the financial support, so as to dissolve their anxiety and contradictions.
The country has liberalized its birth policy, allowing for the birth of two and three children. As parents, they should instill a positive attitude towards life in their sons and daughters and guide them to have two or even three children to enjoy more happiness and excitement in life!
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