Breaking up is a painful thing, and we will all be hurt to varying degrees. At this time, we often seek a comfort in our hearts, that is, to spy on the lives of our predecessors. But this is not wise.
First of all, from a moral point of view, it is meaningless to pry into the life of one's predecessor. We care about the living conditions of our predecessors, often because we have not completely let go. This is a kind of obsession and persistence. Through snooping, what we get is only pale and powerless information, which is of no practical help to us.
Secondly, prying into our ex's life will only make us more miserable. When we see that our predecessors are doing well, or we begin to have new feelings, we will feel more lost and lonely about life. We will feel comfort when we see that our predecessors are not doing well or have no new love, but this satisfaction is short-lived and can't really fill the vacancy in our hearts.
Finally, prying into our ex's life doesn't help us start over. If we really want to let go of the past, start a new life and pursue new happiness, then we need to learn to face and bear the pain, not escape and rely on it. Only in this way can we cheer up and work hard for our future.
In a word, it is unwise to pry into the ex's life after breaking up. If we really want to start over, we need to put aside our past obsession and move forward in a new direction of life. Let us know how to face setbacks and pains, bravely face new challenges and open a new chapter of our own.