Undoubtedly, he is a smart man, so he knows that "those who go with the flow will not have a good result", but such self-knowledge does not make him strong and firm, he still goes with the flow. Although the goodbye, he said "I love you" from a distance in the crowd, although later he and
Shaohua snuggly, in the rushing crowd, but his selfishness and his love for the not obsessive, or let a person cold. Just love the woman is easy to forgive and easy to forget.
It should be the words of Eileen Chang: because you know, so compassion. Because you know his weakness, it excuses him from everything. Strange such pity, often women only. Obviously, they are the one who need to pity, she is the most sad time, her best friend died, she a
person to bear all the time, he is not.
Perhaps because of love, there will be no such calculation.
What touched me most in the movie was the love of Mr. Yu. This person does not know her words, and does not know how to speak softly, but this is the person who has always been with Shaohua. When she was bullied, he wielded a kitchen knife and ran to her side; when she was in distress, he gave her warm clothes and food;
He exchanged gold bars for two boat tickets to take her away, saying that he wanted to be a couple in distress with her. ......
You may feel that his love is also so cheesy, and that he wants you to pay for it in return. But no matter what, his love is real.
Until the end, he saw that Shaohua did not get on the boat, which was already on the boat, and came to him against the flow of people. He wanted her to rest assured that he would not have any more thoughts about her, he wanted her to know that he just wanted to take care of her, he wanted her to live well and wait for the person she loves to come back ......
Can you still say he is vulgar?
My tears flow to this man, I think the deepest love is with him, and the most noble and extraordinary person is him.
Is it true that the deepest love exists between those who are mundane. Those who seem to be profound, with the so-called profound thoughts of people, in fact, in the face of reality is the most powerless, he himself can not have a position, how can we ask him to have a thick love.
But "Rolling Dust", there is still a deep sense of powerlessness. This kind of powerlessness, is a person is carried by the times under the involuntary, a lot of things personal powerless. Perhaps this is the reason why the chapter can only be forgiven. But now we have a lot of choice and autonomy, but still weak, we have nothing to rely on so that love is more in the state of the flow. This is the alienation of people it!