Loneliness often comes from a mental and emotional void. It's good to find something to fill it, and some people need to fill it with a relationship and others with something else. There are many ways to fill loneliness, far more than just falling in love.
You can read a good book or travel across the world. You can also eat potato chips and drink yogurt at home to catch up on TV shows, or go to the gym and sweat it out, practicing yoga, swimming, playing tennis, square dancing, and senior Disco ...... are all ways and means to get rid of loneliness.
The protagonist in Jarmusch's movie "Patterson" is a bus driver who drives the same route every day, sees the same scenery, and who is always resting his feet in the same bar, drinking the same kind of a beer. But he's not even lonely, because he writes little poems in his notebook every day, and the poems are his spiritual support.
So the key to solving loneliness is to find something that you love, that fills your spiritual void, that becomes your spiritual support. Go all in emotionally and make yourself better and better in the process. Gain a more interesting and richer inner world.
At this point when you meet that favorite person again, two inner rich and interesting people together, life may become more interesting. And two lonely people in order to get rid of loneliness together, perhaps only more lonely it.
Life is always empty and lonely, some people just a moment, some people have been lonely. I think always feel lonely people this time to reflect on their own, to see if the homework is too little, make up too little, too early from work, the work is not saturated ...... idle out of loneliness.
A person who can't live interesting, don't think that will bring much fun to the other half, you can't bring fun to others, how can others take you out of loneliness. Some people say that people will change because of love, how to talk about how to fall in love. This kind of idea, originally is childish.