Generally live through the woman have the following three characteristics:
First: love the family, but also enjoy the solitude
People once to the middle age, the family or career is basically booked, at this time there are a lot of women will be into the "mid-life crisis" always think about it, afraid of life and work suddenly change. The work of the sudden change, they will work in the time of nonsense, will worry about the leadership of their own dissatisfaction, fear that they will be unemployed in the middle age, back home, and began to suspect, to the husband "strict control" of the child is "strong control".
This type of women in this situation, most of them are not correct their own position in the family, do not see clearly, do not understand, and really know how to grasp the family and the work of women, often go to work hard to enrich themselves, do their own thing, will win the trust of their superiors, after work, more than not to relax themselves, and occasionally go to a meal with friends, to treat their husbands are also very trustworthy.
The women who are living in a transparent way, they pay most attention to creating a comfortable family atmosphere, and will have a good communication with their husbands and children. After making the effort, they will have a more relaxed position in the family, and they can also fight for more alone time to enrich themselves.
Second: adhere to their own hobbies and views
To the middle-aged woman, must cultivate their own hobbies, which is a very difficult thing, nowadays a lot of women are focusing on the work and the family, to take up both, there is no time to adhere to their own hobbies.
For example, the square dance is a big woman is more up and coming an activity, that is, a group of women after dinner, we sit together to chatter, listen to the music, jumping small dance, this activity is still good, but there are advantages and disadvantages, although exercise, but also serious nuisance, and even some places prohibit the square dance, for a woman can do things are a lot, just like sitting in a room with the family and the family. is a lot, just like everyone sitting together to do manual labor, and occasionally play mahjong entertainment, are very good.
Third: do not regret the past, look forward to the future
Live through the women will not have a lot of complaints about life, the things they do, make choices will not be regretted, they are full of expectations for the future, they want things will strive for their own, will not take the initiative to define themselves as a housewife, all the middle-aged women must live through the life! Live to understand, life is not as bad as you phenomenon, must maintain a young mind.