The source of longing comes from attachment to things, which is a kind of deep love, but for couples in a long-distance relationship, it is impossible for them to meet each other every time they miss each other. What should I do if we miss each other too much in a long distance relationship? Let's learn these pointers to maintain the relationship.
1. Make phone calls.
Many long-distance lovers don't want to put down the phone when they pick it up, repeating those meaningless words over and over again, just to hear each other's voices or see each other more. Psychologists have found that if more than 90% of what a person says is nonsense, then he is happy. If less than 50% is nonsense , happiness is not enough. So what exactly is the happiness we crave every day, maybe it's finding someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense.
2, often text each other, there are many text messages at a time.
It's been said that long-distance relationships are kept alive by cell phones. "Good morning", "Good afternoon", "Good evening", "Have you had dinner" are all about love life , too sad. Losing each other, long-distance lovers are often bombarded with text messages because calls may not be picked up, and running to meet up is unrealistic, so they have to send monologues one after the other through the weak radio waves between cell phones. Sometimes it could be something small I've experienced in my life, I saw a strange tree, I ate a satisfying meal, sometimes I'm talking about how I'm feeling. Acacia to the bone, without realizing it.
3. Find the joy of being with yourself.
The truth is, we always have to learn to be alone in life. Then slowly discover what you like. For example, music, for example, painting, for example, dancing, for example, running, for example, crafts and so on, you will find a lot of fun in spending time with yourself, which is great. That way you'll be happy, happy every day and you won't have as much time to be sad. When two people have nothing to say to each other lately, they share each other's joy.
4. Start looking for interesting places.
Start planning your next date. If she loves animals, an aquarium or even the zoo can be a memorable date. Or, if she tells you she wants to go a few blocks away to that popular new Italian restaurant, make sure to make reservations in advance. This is an effective way to keep your girlfriend on your mind as you improve your relationship. Great memories and memorable date nights will make your relationship even better.