Unexpectedly, several of my friends said there was no chance. Old people at home will enjoy life and plan to stay for a while, with convenient transportation and so on. They will travel in groups together, resolutely refuse to help with the baby at home and be a thorough self. The shopkeeper of cutting? . My friends are very confused. Don't you like having grandchildren when you get old? Why don't you want to help with the baby now? I think these reasons are the main reasons for this situation, which is very worrying.
With the improvement of living standards, more and more elderly people care about the quality of life and don't want to revolve around their children.
In fact, when it comes to taking care of children, this is originally a matter for parents themselves. Old people at home can bring them if they want, and there should be no complaints if they don't want to bring you. It's just that when our living standard was not so high in the past, there were few entertainment items, and it seems that the old people had no other entertainment options except chatting. Although it is very troublesome and hard for the elderly to take care of their children, children can always create some unexpected happiness. Old people also have fun in bitterness.
But in recent years, with the improvement of living standards, the elderly have broadened their horizons and have more entertainment options. They have begun to pay attention to the quality of life, go out to dance square dance, participate in outdoor activities of washing clothes, and live a good life. Naturally, I don't want to run around the children, I just want to be a complete one. The shopkeeper of cutting? Who gave birth to the child who took it away.
There is a big gap between young people and old people's concept of parenting, and more and more old people find that working with children is still rejected.
It must be hard for an old man to help his children when he is old. However, in the past, the elderly could do nothing. At that time, most of the parenting experience was passed down from mouth to mouth. Parents lead by example, children take care of their children, and parents need face-to-face advice. Parents who let go are irresponsible to their children. It's different now. The children have gained much richer experience in raising children. They learn more new and scientific parenting knowledge from the internet, which conflicts with the traditional parenting concept of the elderly. Old people scramble to help them with their babies, but they will only be thankless and rejected.
Because more and more old people find people to help with their children, they are still thankless in the end, so why not just accept it? The shopkeeper of cutting? Let the child take care of the baby by himself, so that there will be no conflict with the child and the heart will be comfortable.
Now that the concept of kinship is weak, more and more elderly people are worried about their future.
We China people used to have a strong sense of clan, and no one can live without anyone. Old people know that no matter what kind of people they become, their children must ultimately serve themselves and provide security for their old age. Therefore, I will definitely do my last strength for my children and continue to help them take care of their children. No matter how hard it is, I have no regrets. Anyway, the children will be responsible for themselves in the future. But now the concept of affection is weak, and children are always away from home and don't come back for several years. More and more elderly people are inevitably worried about their future. Will their children support themselves in the future?
So more and more elderly people choose to do it? The shopkeeper of cutting? Unwilling to help with the children. Save your money and energy, provide for your old age, and don't spend time and money on taking care of your children.